2010 Funerals
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Margaret "Peggy" Regis Trina, 78, of Niles died at 9:55AM Wednesday, December 22, 2010 at her residence. She was born June 26, 1932 in Farrell, Pennsylvania the daughter of Peter and Helen Pascak Regis. Peg was a 1951 graduate of Farrell High School and was employed at Sharon Westinghouse in The Office Personell Department for 32 years before retiring in 1984. She was a member of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church in Niles, Eucharistic Minister, Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Society, Church festival and pizza sales volunteer, and choir member. She enjoyed golfing, bowling, dancing, rollerskating, ice skating, and was an amateur photographer.
Peg, who always said "Honey I'am home" when she got home from work or came in to visit her sisters, will be deeply missed by her husband Nick Trina whom she married July 17 1976, a son Nick Trina Jr. and his wife Karen of Ogden, Utah, two daughters, Bonnie Trina of Las Vegas, Nevada, and Heather Ardston of Roswell, Georgia, a sister Ann Novak of Sharon, Pennsylvania, two grandchildren, Jessica Trina, and Jaclyn Whetton and her husband Jeremy, and a great-grandson Jeremy Jr. She is preceded in death by her parents, four brothers, Nick Regis, Pete Regis, Mike Regis, and John Regis, and two sisters, Helen Matsko, and Mary Davis. Peg was a very compassionate and loving person and she could hold a conversation with anyone.
Friends may call from 4 to 7PM Sunday at The Joseph Rossi and Sons Fruneral Home where The Mt. Carmel Bereavement Ministry and Mt. Carmel Society will conduct prayers at 6:30PM.
Mass of Christian Burial will be held 9:30AM Monday at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church in Niles, with Fr. Larry Frient officiating, preceded by a 9AM prayer service at the funeral home.
Burial will be in Niles City Cemetery . Family and Friends can view this obituary, send e-mail condolences, and sign the guest book at www.josephrossifuneralhome.com.
Margaret 'Peg' Trina
Born: June 26, 1932 Died: December 22, 2010 Age: 78
Funeral: December 26, 2010
Gospel: Matthew 11:28-30
Homily:
Peggy believed family was so very important. We’ve gathered with members of her family and members of her church family to console one another and to celebrate her life. We believe that by uniting with each other in support and prayers, all of us will be able to face our grief and commend Peggy to God’s everlasting care.
All of us extend our condolences to our long-time parishioner Nick. We affirm how lovingly he cared for Peggy and we know that our support not only now but also long after this Mass of Christian Burial is so very important. We extend our condolences to and prayers for everyone close to Peggy and Nick.
Peggy was loved and loved others very much. I was visiting Nick and Peggy’s caregiver Weezee several days ago. They were reminiscing about her sparkling blue eyes, vivacious nature, and compassionate qualities. There is no doubt that her many one-liners, the way she used to play possum (pretending she was asleep when she wasn’t), and her constant courtesies in saying “please” and “thank you” even during her difficult times will forever be cherished in the hearts of those close to Peggy.
She enlivened others by her talents as a photographer. She won several prizes in this area. The image many people will retain in their minds is that she never took a picture until she was good and ready. We are hoping that our minds will always picture Peggy smiling, having fun playing golf, bowling, or throwing a bocce ball.
It’s easy to picture in our minds the many ways she served her Church. She loved her faith and those who knew her so well believe she lived her faith. Remember when Peggy was a Eucharistic Minister? Now she knows firsthand the promise of Jesus, the Bread of Life, who said that whoever eats this Bread will live forever. We thank God for the gift of everlasting life, for without it, our love would end, but with it, love continues for all eternity.
Remember when Peggy worked at the Festival? Some people still talk about how she’d take a much-deserved break and really dance with enthusiasm. Now that her trials and tribulations of this life have ended, we trust that she dances among the saints forever.
She loved to help in the pizza kitchen. There was never a dull moment when she would enliven the place with her banter and stories. The members of the Mount Carmel Society honor her in a special way.
When Peggy sang in the church choir years ago, some people said sounded like an angel. Today all of us pray that songs of the angels will welcome her.
Peggy was a majorette at Farrell High School and earned her living at Sharon Westinghouse in the Office Personnel Department for 32 years before retiring in 1984.
In addition to all the other ways she enjoyed spending time, Peggy roller skated and ice skated. How good it is to call to mind thoughts of Peggy so active, so happy, living her life with such enthusiasm.
As so many things about Peggy come to mind, we know that it is most important of all to reflect on the words of Jesus. We heard them in today’s Gospel. They were proclaimed a few moments ago. Jesus invites all who are weary to come to Him, so that He might give them rest. He also assures us that His yoke is easy and His burden is light.
We trust in His compassion and comfort. Peggy was one who brought great comfort and compassion to others. She preached a Gospel of compassion by her smile, by her words, and by her actions. How admirable it is that years ago she gave up her home when she was a member of Good Shepherd Church in West Middlesex, Pennsylvania to come here to Niles to care for the sick right up to the time God called them home.
Peggy suffered the affliction of a hearing problem and experienced an operation to bring some measure of improvement.
When she used to come in the door, she used to love to say to those close to her: “Honey, I’m home!”
And now, even as our home in Niles won’t be the same without her, we can find consolation that she hears the voice of Jesus loudly and clearly. He says to her: “Honey, you are home!”
And we can picture Peggy smiling, reunited with so many family members and friends who passed this way before God called her home.
God called Peggy home while she slept on Wednesday morning. We trust that she is in a place of refreshment, light, and peace.
May she see the face of God this day as the smiles of the saints greet Peggy’s own smile.
God knows our sadness is real because our hearts have been touched so deeply and dearly. That’s why we have gathered. That’s why we continue to pray for each other. And that’s why Peggy would want us to remember how she loved life, loved others, and will always be loved. May the Lord bring us consolation and peace as we trust that another saint is welcomed to the family of saints in heaven.
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Sarah Elizabeth Cassidy
Born: : 03-12-1917 Died: 12-19-2010
Funeral: December 23, 2010
Readings: Wisdom 3:1-9 Psalm 23 Revelation 14:13 John 14:1-6
Homily:
During this time of the year for so many years during Sarah’s life, her thought would turn to preparing a sumptuous Christmas dinner for those she loved.
Today, we lift each other in prayer as we mourn her sudden departure. She lived ninety-three years to the fullest, yet her passing was unexpected. We trust in the consoling words of Jesus, who told us that He has gone to prepare a place for people of faith. We trust that He has gone to prepare a place for Sarah, where the banquet never ends and God’s goodness is shared delightfully.
You give thanks for Sarah’s many good qualities. She touched your hearts because her heart was so generous. The Scriptures remind us that a person’s good works follow her from this life to the next.
You remember how she diligently cared for her garden year after year. Now we trust that the seeds of God’s goodness grown in Sarah’s life will continue to blossom in our lives.
Many were the times she cooked and baked for those she loved. Now we believe that our memories of her will continue to feed us with a deep appreciation for how she nurtured our spirits.
Sarah grew up on a farm during difficult times. Like so many others from her era, she put great value in hard work. She earned her way to a very successful career as a realtor. She enabled many people to obtain decent housing. She even earned the nickname “Cash Cassidy” because she was able to work out so many deals by means of her excellent skills interacting with people.
This Christmas will be so different for Karen, Maurice, Mary Ellen, Richard, her grandchildren, great grandchildren, and great-great grandchildren. Our prayers are with you during this difficult time. We trust in the light and the love of the Lord to carry you through.
Sarah knew so many experiences during her lifetime. Some of her very close relatives and friends completed life’s journey before Sarah. We trust in the words of the Lord who tells us that His care is with His chosen ones, and that no more torment shall touch those who have gone to be with Him.
Those closest to Sarah describe her as one who did not hold grudges. She gave many compliments, seldom complained, and was devoted to prayer. With this in mind, we close this portion of our service by pondering the words of The Prayer of St. Francis.
Prayer of St. Francis
Lord, make me an instrument of your peace.
Where there is hatred, let me sow love.
Where there is injury, pardon.
Where there is doubt, faith.
Where there is despair, hope.
Where there is darkness, light.
Where there is sadness, joy.
O Divine Master,
grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled, as to console;
to be understood, as to understand;
to be loved, as to love.
For it is in giving that we receive.
It is in pardoning that we are pardoned,
and it is in dying that we are born to Eternal Life.
Amen.
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Michael Arthur Tedesco
Born: February 11, 1943 Died: December 18, 2010
Funeral: December 21, 2010
Gospel: John 14:1-6
Homily:
Jesus reminds us that He has gone to prepare a place for people of faith. This morning, we remember the many ways Mike had a place in the lives of so many people, and we pray for him as we trust that Our Good Shepherd leads Mike to a place of refreshment, light, and peace.
We give thanks for how Mike was very loved and well known in this community.
As a child he grew up on Wade Avenue. His sister Patty and he shared many memories at home and in the neighborhood with his family and friends.
Mike really enjoyed family reunions. It was always his place to reserve tables at Waddell Park early so that family members would be sure to create a place in their memories for stories of years passed.
His place in school began at the old St. Stephen School on Arlington Avenue. He developed friendships there that always had a place in his heart and in the hearts of those with whom he was friends.
Mike was a proud member of the Niles McKinley High School Football team, playing on the 1961 State Championship team. He held a high place in the popularity of his peers, receiving awards on homecoming night and being escorted by his dear parents across the field.
His place as a father was so prominent in his life. He thoroughly enjoyed watching his children grow up and become adults.
If there is a place where all perfectionists are gathered, we can be sure Mike is seated at the head table. He was so proud of his yard work, and received so many compliments about it.
Mike’s place in the kitchen was another place that made him proud. He prepared so many different foods so lovingly and diligently, and loved springtime and summertime because he could use the outdoor kitchen his friend Kenny built for him. Mike truly enjoyed a glass of wine at Sunday dinners, and his family will miss him dearly as the place he occupied at the table from which he would share so many stories will be vacant.
Christmas Season was such a special time of the year for Mike. He had a special place for his ornamental deer he lit under the outside tree.
Mike thought the wind had no place blowing things over as it often could in December, but maybe it wasn’t the wind….something tells me it might have been a neighbor having a little fun at Mike’s expense.
One of his favorite places was camping at Indian Creek in Geneva on the Lake. He really enjoyed spending time there. The First Street Gang, the Discinto Family, and the Shrock Family all had a special place in his heart as he laughed with them, listened to bands with them, and shared time there with family members and friends.
Mike earned his living for thirty years at General Motors in Lordstown. Think about his place in your memories if you worked with him.
Kenny, Rhonda, Whizzy, and Shirley were among those who shared many enjoyable mornings over coffee with Mike after his retirement ten years ago. Give thanks as we remember Mike’s place among us, cutting grass, weeding, and caring for the fish in his pond.
Thoughts of how Mike would can peppers with his mom and children, make wine, and run to every store in town to save a nickel on an item will always have a fond place in your memories. You’ll recall how he went all the way to Pittsburgh and Cleveland this time of year to buy just the right fish, cheese, pepperoni, etc., for the Christmas Eve Dinner. Even after sharing the abundance of food, everyone always had to eat Mike’s HAM. He insisted on it.
As all of these memories remind us of Mike’s time spent here in this place known as Niles with us, we turn our thoughts to the message Jesus shared with His disciples. Christ assured us He would prepare a place for people of faith. We trust that He shows Mike the way, upholds the truth of His promise, and gives Mike new life.
The recent journey has been difficult. Gloria asked me to share a brief story about her dear husband’s journey to this place known as eternal life. Many were the times those close to Mike prayed that the Lord would help them carry the cross associated with Mike’s illness. When the cross was light, we begged God to walk with us. When it became too heavy, we begged God to carry us. And we believe He carries us even now.
Mike’s diagnosis with brain cancer in June began a very courageous battle against a very terrible disease. Gloria and everyone close to Mike had hoped he could return to his place of working in the yard, enjoying visits with family and friends, caring for his pond, and worshipping here with us at church.
Not to be overlooked is how Mike hoped he could help others the way he did so often – plowing the snow from neighbors’ driveways, lending a hand in any way he could. Gloria is convinced that even as we are sad that in one sense Mike lost the battle, the Lord led him to a victorious place where there is no more suffering and sadness, no more frustration over what could no longer be done. And she wants us to believe this, too.
Gloria is so grateful to have shared the gift of marriage with Mike, and knows that he will always have a special place in the hearts of all who knew him.
She is grateful to Michael, Anthony, Todd, Chrissy, Shelley, Gina, and Rob. The hours you spent by your father’s side and the dignity, respect, and love you gave to Gloria mean more than words can describe. You have a special place in Gloria’s heart.
Gloria is grateful to Dan, Nancy, Chuck, Tom, Leona, and everyone who was so supportive to Mike and to her. The talking, the lighter moments, and helping hands mean so much. You have a special place in Gloria’s heart.
All of Gloria’s neighbors and friends who visited Mike in Cleveland and in Austintown, and all of her neighbors and friends who helped in unseen ways would make Mike very proud. The outpouring of generosity, support, and time is beyond what Gloria can express today. So, I’ve been asked to tell you: You have a special place in Gloria’s heart.
Gloria and everyone closest to Mike will miss him dearly. Memories of the past will be cherished. His ways of being will leave a long-lasting legacy for his grandchildren.
We know it is our place today to beg the Lord to strengthen us as we journey forward and as God welcomes Mike to his place of everlasting comfort.
We have faith that in God’s time, we will all be together again. In the meantime, we trust in God’s grace to follow Jesus, who is our way, truth, and life. Amen.
Carmen "Tex" Cicero, 78, of Niles died at 12:40 PM Sunday, December 12, 2010 at his residence surrounded by his loving family.He was born February 19, 1932 in Niles the son of Carmen and Angeline Maiorca Cicero. He was a 1950 graduate of Niles McKinley High School and graduated from Case Western Reserve University with a Bachelors Degree in Education. Employed as a Civics and Physical Education teacher for the Niles City School System, Carmen also known as "TEX" and affectionately referred to as "Mr. C" by his students, taught for 34 years before retiring in 1991. A life-long entrepreneur and businessman, his ventures included Camp "Hi-Ya," summer day camp, Cicero's Trout Park and Campground, and The 534 Stone Products, all in North Jackson, Ohio., as well as Mr. Scrubby's Car Wash, "Mr. C's" Pizza and Gameroom, the Magic Oven Bakery, Dana's Bar, and the Hot Dog X-Press in Niles. He was a member of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church in Niles, and many civic and community organizations, including a member and past King Lion of The Niles Lions Club, member and past President of The Niles Classroom Teachers' Association, Class sponsor and advisor for the Class of 1972, and a donor for the American Red Cross Blood Donor club. Tex, along with his friend and family priest, Father Nick Arioli, CPPS., initiated the Mt. Carmel Junior High football program, after which he had a long and successful tenure as an assistant coach for the Niles Red Dragon High School football team, coaching some of its greatest athletes from 1960 to 1973. He enjoyed wine and sausage making, among other things, and was an avid and talented ballroom dancer and instructor. His greatest pastime however in the later years of his life, was attending and being a fan of his grandchildren's many extracurricular activities. He lived his life for his family and never hesitated to let them know that.
Tex will be deeply missed by his wife Frances Toto Cicero whom he married August 8, 1964, two sons Carmen Cicero and his wife Jody of Niles, and Dana Cicero and his wife Michelle of Niles, a sister Phyllis Connelly of Niles, and two grandchildren Carly Cicero and Carmen "C.J." Cicero.
He was preceded in death by three brothers Joseph and Carmen Cicero and an infant brother, Carmen, as well, and three sisters, Thelma Bonanno, Rose Parks, and Sarella Gustovich.
Friends may call from 5 to 8 PM Wednesday at The Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles where The Mt. Carmel Bereavement Ministry and Niles Lions Club will conduct prayers at 7:30 PM. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held 10 AM Thursday at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church in Niles, with Fr. Larry Frient officiating, preceded by a 9:30 AM prayer service at the funeral home. Friends and family can view this obituary and send e-mail condolences at www.josephrossifuneralhome.com.
Carmen "Tex" Cicero
Born: February 19, 1932 Died: December 12, 2010
Funeral: December 16, 2010
Gospel: John 15:913
Homily:
All of us extend our condolences to Tex’s family. He was such a loyal member of this parish for so many years. He was baptized here on December 6, 1932. This is where he exchanged wedding vows with the former Frances Toto on August 8, 1964. Tex joined us in prayer here so very often. We trust that his spirit prays with us and for us as we call to mind so many memories about his life, and as we give thanks to God for the many ways he touched our lives.
So many images come to mind when we ponder Tex’s life.
Perhaps we think about his adventurous spirit. He is rightfully described as a life-long entrepreneur. Maybe you think about Camp “Hi-Ya”, Cicero’s Trout Park and Campground, or The 534 Stone Products in North Jackson.
Maybe a number of stories come to mind when you think about Mr. Scrubby’s car Wash, “Mr. C’s” Pizza and Gameroom, the Magic Oven Bakery, Dana’s Bar, and the Hot Dog X-Press. He served many civic and community organizations, including being a member and past King Lion of the Niles Lions Club. Tex was a donor for the American red Cross Blood Donor Club. We give thanks for how he supported his family and served the needs of his community in all of these adventures.
Coach Cicero touched the lives of so many young people. Along with Father Nick, he initiated the Mount Carmel Junior High football program. He successfully served as a coach for the Niles Red Dragons High School football team from 1960 to 1973, coaching some of its greatest athletes. Mr. Cicero taught Civics and Physical Education for the Niles School System for 34 years prior to his retirement in 1991. He was a member and past President of the Niles Classroom Teachers’ Association, and Class sponsor and Advisor for the Class of 1972. We give thanks for the many ways Mr. C influenced so many young people in so many positive ways.
Your minds are filled with happy memories of how he enjoyed wine and sausage making, and how he was an avid and talented ballroom dancer and instructor. All of us pray for the grace to remember the many happy experiences Tex enjoyed before his illness kept him from enjoying life as much as he and all of us would have preferred.
Most importantly, we think of the words of Jesus in the Gospel chosen for Tex’s Mass of Christian Burial this morning. Jesus encouraged His disciples to remain in His love. He spoke these encouraging words to them the night before He died. Christ’s entire life was devoted to teaching about love by word and example.
As we share this Sacred Meal in memory of Jesus, we remember how Tex followed Christ’s example and pointed the way to this love for his family.
He truly enjoyed attending and being a fan of his grandchildren’s many extracurricular activities. Tex lived his life for his family and never hesitated to let those close to him know this truth.
The Lord called Tex home on the Third Sunday of Advent. And although our lives are saddened by his departure, we remember how the teaching of the Church intends to lift our spirits and fill us with hope. The Third Sunday of Advent has been known as Gaudete Sunday. The word gaudete means to rejoice because the Lord is near. Christmas draws closer. More importantly, the Lord bids us to welcome Him more fully into our lives so that we might appreciate His light, warmth, and love.
Jesus wanted His followers to know the fullness of joy. Our Gospel brings that out so clearly. So does the spirit of this season, as the Lord seeks to kindle us in the fire of His love even as we face difficult times and cold days.
We believe that the Lord brings the fullness of joy to Tex. His suffering has ended.
You were with him so faithfully and cared for him so lovingly right up to the end of his life. Now that life has changed for Tex and changes for all of us as we will miss him dearly, we are confident that his love does not end. He prays for us and prays with us. He wants us to do exactly what Jesus wanted His followers to do. He wants us to live on in his love so that we might know the fullness of joy.
Jesus showed us the greatest love of all by laying down His life for His friends.
As time moves forward, we pray for the grace to remember how Tex shared this love and demonstrated it in a myriad of ways.
May we live on in his love.
Phyllis “Fifi” Gayonski, 87 , of Niles, died 10:15pm Thursday, December 2nd at Windsor House of Champion Nursing Home.
Phyllis was born September 26, 1923 in Niles the daughter of Gaetano and Marianne Segreto Mollica.
She was a member of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church in Niles and was a 1941 Niles McKinley High School graduate.
Phyllis was a homemaker, caregiver, and enjoyed sewing, crafts and ceramics. She was a wonderful wife, mother and grandmother who could always be seen with her husband at her grandchildren’s events.
Her husband of 62 years, Joseph “Doughball” Gayonski whom she married on June 16, 1945, died February 4, 2008.
deeply missed by a son Joseph J. Gayonski and his wife Mary Ann of Dayton, a daughter Carla Sutch and her husband Steve of Warren, a brother Sam Mollica and his wife Dorothy of Niles, six grandchildren, Jeff Gayonski and his wife Kelli, Gina Weckesser and her husband Kevin, Ashley Gayonski, Eric Sutch and his wife Krystie, Craig Sutch and his wife Jennifer, and Cara Sutch, and six great grandchildren, Mitch, Maggie, Katie, Annie, Phoenix and Luke.
She is preceded in death by three brothers, Tony, Pete and Joe Mollica, a sister Carmella Secola and a great grandson Joshua Jeffrey Gayonski.
Friends may call from 4-7pm Sunday December 5th at the Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles, where the Mt. Carmel Bereavement Ministry will conduct prayers at 6:30pm.
Mass of Christian Burial will be held 9:30am Monday December 6th at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church in Niles preceded by a 9:00am prayer service at the funeral home.
Burial will be in Niles City Cemetery.
Condolences may be sent by visiting our website at www.josephrossifuneralhome.com
Phyllis "Fifi" Gayonski
Born: Sept. 26, 1923 Died: December 2, 2010 Aged 87 years
Funeral: December 6, 2010
Readings: Ecclesiastes 3:1-8 1 Corinthians 13:1-13 John 14:1-6
Homily:
Phyllis spent a lifetime here in Niles. This church was so important to her. It is important for her family to know that the entire parish extends sympathy and assurance of prayerful support at this time.
We gather during a season when the Church reminds us of the importance of HOPE, PEACE, JOY, and LOVE. The candles on our Advent wreath symbolize these attributes. The tall candle near Fifi’s casket reminds us that the Light of Christ guides her journey and assures us that the Lord is with us as we give thanks for her life.
Wonder the word HOPE. We allow our minds to imagine a day when Fifi’s life was filled with hope. Imagine the excitement for her and for “Doughball” on June 16, 1942 when they exchanged wedding vows. They had confident expectation that the Lord would bless them. And bless them He did! They brought Joseph and Carla into the world. Eventually the family grew, adding six grandchildren and six great-grandchildren. We can be sure that even now, Fifi hopes that her values will be cherished and her presence in spirit will continue to be fondly perceived at family events.
We ponder the word PEACE. The author of the Book of Ecclesiastes told us there is a time for everything. The selection we heard proclaimed a few moments ago told us there is a time for war and a time for PEACE. Phyllis fought the war of deteriorating health. Now, that particular war is over as the Lord has called her to Himself. We find much consolation in our Catholic prayer for the deceased, asking God to enable our departed loved ones to rest in PEACE. And it brings consolation and PEACE beyond words to embrace the belief that Fifi continues to pray for us as our journeys continue.
We ponder the word JOY. This season is a time when families share so many memories. This day is both a time to weep and a time to laugh as we know we will miss Fifi but rejoice in the many stories about how she touched our lives in so many ways. Our hearts are filled with JOY when we ponder the truth that she and Doughball shared more than sixty two years of marriage. They were madly in love for more than five dozen years! It is truly human to enjoy the fact that they had their interesting moments, those loving disagreements when things had to be sorted out. Some have said that Doughball has been resting JOYFULLY since God called him home. Some have also reminded us that Fifi had a way of being “The Little Boss”.
Because Fifi may be telling him what to do again, perhaps Doughball is not resting quite as peacefully, but His paradise is truly renewed by the return of his beloved.
Our hearts are filled with JOY when we envision Doughball and Fifi being reunited with each other now for all eternity.
Most of all, we ponder the word LOVE. Certainly, it was LOVE that enabled Doughball and Fifi to remain committed to each other so well for so long.
And it is our LOVE for them that brings us together this morning.
Saint Paul reminded us in our Second Reading that LOVE never fails,that LOVE is the greatest gift, and that LOVE lasts forever as do the gifts of faith and hope.
It is the LOVE of the Lord that assures that Jesus has gone to prepare a place for people of faith. In our Gospel today, Jesus told us where He was going. And we are united in faith, lifting our prayers and our LOVE with unshakable hope. It is our fervent petition that Fifi has followed Doughball and so many departed relatives and friends in that wonderful place Jesus had in mind for them.
We remember Phyllis as a homemaker and caregiver who provided much comfort. And now we pray that God comforts her and wraps us in the LOVE of Hist says, “Do not let your hearts be troubled. Have faith in God, for His house has many rooms.”
We call to mind how she enjoyed sewing, crafts, and ceramics, and pray that He will mend the tear in our hearts, and that He will mold and fashion our hearts anew every time we remember Fifi and Doughball.The little gap of time when Doughball and Fifi were apart has ended. The season of Advent calls us to appreciate God’s nearness with joyful expectation, to be alert for the presence of God, to open our eyes of faith to the many wonders our God works in our lives.
Truly, God worked wonders in our lives simply by letting Fifi be such an important part of life.
Not even death can wipe out that importance. Its chill calls us in the midst of this cold season to let the warm gifts of HOPE, PEACE, JOY, and LOVE of the Lord to rekindle our lives. May these gifts bless our memories. May God grant that when our journeys have ended, in His precious time, we will all be together in such a way that no one can ever separate us again.
Leo Marino 1925-2010
Born: December 13, 1925 Died: November 22, 2010
Funeral: November 27, 2010
Gospel: Matthew 6:26-34
Homily:
Father Charles Crumbley joins me in expressing condolences to everyone close to Leo. We know that recent times have been difficult. We assure you of our prayers.
It is so special that we gather here for Leo’s Mass of Christian Burial, for this church was such an important place during Leo’s life for him and for his family.
Leo was baptized here in this church on July 24, 1932 by Father Joseph Saraceno.
Father Joseph Saraceno presided at the Mass when Leo shared in the Eucharist here for the first time on June 7, 1936.
Leo celebrated the Sacrament of Confirmation the very next year here on May 2, 1937, when Bishop James McFadden visited this parish.
This parish is grateful for the years he served as an usher, for how Leo was active in the Knights of Columbus, and how poured the concrete at our former parish school.
Father Crumbley and the people of St. James Church are grateful for the many ways he assisted at their parish, too.
Leo’s faith and his gentle-yet-tough personality touched many lives in deep and lasting ways. His family was especially dear to him. His obituary describes Leo as a wonderful husband to Rosemary, a great father to his son Leo and daughter Karen, and a loving grandfather to Natalie, Tara, Stephanie, and Leo. He was blessed to become the great-grandfather of Peyton and Sue. He was dear to his surviving brother Dominic and to many other family members through the years.
Leo founded a concrete business in 1954 and people who know him well describe how he worked honestly, hard, and diligently up until his retirement four years ago.
I am sure that many memories of his stories about boxing will continue to be told. Leo fought in the Gold Gloves as a teenager. He was the president and co-founder of the Legends of Leather Boxing Club here in Niles and used to enjoy cheering for the New York Yankees and Dallas Cowboys.
On separate visits, Father Crumbley and I had the pleasure of visiting Leo at the hospital not long before his passing.
His enjoyment of dancing and the way he emphasized that it was important to “stop and smell the roses” along the way led me to choose the Gospel story that was proclaimed a few moments ago. We can easily imagine Leo addressing us as his friends and telling us the same things Jesus told His disciples in the story we heard. This is remarkable when we consider the fact that Leo underwent dialysis for so many years and faced a multitude of health problems in the latter stages of his life.
Jesus told us not to worry excessively. Leo would tell us to have strong faith. Jesus told us to seek God’s kingship over us. Leo would want us to reaffirm our belief in a God who provides for us, loves us, and is with us in each and every struggle.
It was difficult to celebrate Thanksgiving Day without having Leo among us the way we have been accustomed to having him with us. Yet something deep within us elicits our faith, and our faith tells us to give thanks to God for the many ways Leo was a blessing in our lives as we commend Leo to God’s everlasting care.
The Season of Advent begins this evening. It is a holy season during which we are invited to reflect on the qualities of hope, peace, joy, and love.
Even as we mourn, we anticipate a season filled with hope, believing that the Lord prepares a place for people of faith, and truly wants to welcome Leo to a place of refreshment, light, and rest.
We trust that Leo is at peace, no longer having to suffer and able to experience everlasting peace.
We believe that Jesus is the fullness of Joy. It is our fondest prayer that Leo meets the Lord face to face.
And most of all, God is Love. Not even death destroys the bonds of love that are formed in life. Leo continues to love and pray for us as we love and pray for him. That is the beauty of our faith in God.
May the Lord continue to be near us as we commend Leo to God’s care and lift each other in prayer.
Louis Candio, aka Ugie
Born: January 11, 1917 Died: November 3, 2010
Memorial Mass: November 9, 2010
Gospel: John 14:1-6
Many of us gathered here just over two years ago when we commended Julia to the everlasting care of our God.
This morning, we pay our respects to a dear member of the greatest generation. Ugie lived so many of his years right here in Niles as a member of this parish. He grew up nearby on Fulton Street and resided so many years of his married life on Oak Knoll.
Ugie was baptized in the previous church building here on this property by Father Nicola Santoro on April 21, 1917.
He and his classmates celebrated the Sacrament of Confirmation here in this church when Bishop Joseph Schrembs visited this parish on May 8, 1931.
We give thanks for Louis’ ninety-three years of living. Those closest to him remember him as a tiny but tough man. You know that his children and grandchildren were such special people in his life and you will forever treasure the many good things about him.
You’ll remember how he enjoyed playing golf, how he liked to joke, and how he helped those who needed his assistance. He has been described as a loyal and good friend.
When this Mass ends, Ugie will be honored for his military service. He was in the United States Army during World War II serving in the Pacific.
We know that recent times have been difficult for Ugie and for those close to him. The death of Julia and the passing of other relatives and so many friends during recent times have been difficult experiences.
This is why we gather as people of faith today. We are consoled by the words of Jesus in the Gospel. He told us that He has gone to prepare a place for people of faith. He is the Way, the Truth, and the Life. We believe that the love of Christ can enable Ugie to live forever and to be forever joined with those who completed this journey before him.
May God lead Ugie to a place of refreshment, light, and peace. May Jesus, the Good Shepherd, console us in our sorrows and be our Way, our Truth, and our Life all our days.
Rose Ceroli Stabile
Born: April 20, 1922 Died: November 2, 2010 Funeral: November 6, 2010
Gospel: John 15:9-13
Homily:
Think of the memories about Rose you cherish in your heart most of all. Give thanks for these memories.
Perhaps the memories focus on the years spent on Pratt Street, when life was simple, people worked together so well, and family meant so much.
Maybe the best memories involve thinking about Rose checking to make sure everyone was okay, wondering where her loved ones were, feeding people so generously and lovingly with so many tasty treats including her pitzels and fancy cookies, or waiting on her husband LeRoy year after year until the Lord called him home nearly eleven years ago.
Will Rose’s family ever forget the time she used to enjoy with her friends? Remember how they would go shopping, spend some time in Cleveland, visit pottery shops, laughing and telling stories with each other?
Remember how Rose’s life was blessed so fondly by memories of her nephew “Nickel” playing drums for the Tijuana Brass. How Rose loved to give food to Herb Alpert and the other members of the band! How she marveled at her husband’s musical talents and how he taught this talented and dear nephew to play the drums when he was young and encouraged him long before he became famous.
You remember Rose as such a central person in the family for years and years. She enthusiastically and lovingly supported the endeavors of her loved ones, be it going to car shows with her husband, accompanying him on his band outings, hosting band rehearsals at her house, and spending countless hours working on Sandra’s campaigns. And now, after her recent struggles, Rose peacefully entered eternal rest on November 2nd, with her family at her side, on the day the Church celebrates the feast of All Souls.
She touched the lives of her siblings, children, in-laws, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, great-great grandchild, and so many other relatives and friends in so many deep and lasting ways.
This morning, we commend Rose to the Lord.
Her journey of faith began when Father Nicola Santoro baptized her at this parish on July 30, 1922.
This sacred place of worship was where she celebrated the Sacrament of Confirmation when Bishop McFadden visited this parish on May 15, 1934.
Her marriage vows with LeRoy were exchanged here in the presence of Father Saraceno on Valentine’s Day in 1942.
Certainly, one beautiful part of faith is appreciating the memories we’ve called to mind, and most of all, remembering what Jesus told His disciples the night before He died. We heard the Gospel passage proclaimed a few moments ago. We cherish the memory of how Jesus told those closest to Him to live on in His love.
You’ll remember the many ways Rose’s love was expressed in the ways she manifested her faith. You remember how she would light a light as an act of faith in honor of St. Anthony or the Blessed Virgin Mary any time she learned about loved ones who traveled. There is a Gospel passage (not heard today, but perhaps we’ve heard it proclaimed somewhere along the way) in which Jesus says if we have faith the size of a tiny mustard seed great things happen. I’ve been told that Rose’s faith was much bigger than a small seed. And today we trust that this faith will continue to take root in our hearts, grow every time we remember Rose, and blossom in the ways we love and serve the Lord by loving and serving the people God lovingly places in our lives.
We give thanks to God for so many memories about Rose. We hold dear the Word of God which reminds us that love lasts forever, and that there is no end to faith and hope.
May the Lord welcome Rose to a place of eternal joy where she can be forever reunited with those who completed life’s journey before her.
May her prayers be with us all our days as we trust in the goodness of God which guides our journeys, carries us through our sorrows, and warms us with His constant love.
Maria Frasca 1919-2010
Born:May 27, 1919 Died: October 30, 2010 Funeral: November 2, 2010
Gospel: Matthew 11:28-30
Homily:
All of us here at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Parish extend our condolences to Maria’s family members and friends. We know that recent times have been difficult. We assure you of our prayerful support.
I know that so many memories about Maria have filled your minds as we prayed for the grace to come to terms with the final stages of her life.
You remember the pride she had in her Italian heritage, coming to this country from Bagnoli, Irpino to enable her family to enjoy opportunities for a better life.
Many of you remember her beloved husband Michael. Maria and Michael exchanged marriage vows on December 20, 1936. It has been a long time since Michael entered eternal rest on November 19, 1974. We pray that the Lord enables Michael and Maria to be happy together for all eternity in the presence of the Lord and with all of their family members, friends, and every person who has already completed life’s journey.
We ponder the voyage Maria made to this country and think about the fact that there were only so many things a person could bring along from Europe to the United States. As we pay our final respects to Maria, we realize that the things she brought that mattered most of all were not really tangible things but wonderful qualities that will continue to influence our lives in many ways. She brought plenty of love for her family and a deep faith in God.
We give thanks to the Lord for the happier and healthier times when Maria enjoyed being a homemaker. She thoroughly enjoyed cooking and baking. Your lives will be forever blessed by memories of the meals you shared with her.
We remember how Maria liked to crochet and knit. She touched the lives of many close to her by means of the things she so lovingly made.
Maria’s devotion to her family will be forever cherished in the hearts of those closest to her. And now, we realize that the Lord has issued a special invitation to her. We heard this summons expressed in the words of this afternoon’s Gospel. Jesus said: “Come to me and I will give you rest.”
We commend Maria to the everlasting care of our God on this day when the Church celebrates the Feast of All Souls. It is a very important part of our Catholic Tradition to pray for our departed loved ones.
Even when it seems like there is nothing more we can do for those close to us, we remember that not even the reality of death brings an end to the love we have for our loved ones and death does not bring an end to their love for us.
You remember how Maria diligently cared for her garden, and this leads us to pray that the seeds of her devotion and goodness may continue to grow in our hearts, blossom in our lives, and produce a rich harvest of love all our days.
The Lord invites us to share a special meal this afternoon with Him, with each other, and with all people of faith here on earth and in heaven. We have gathered to celebrate the Eucharist, a living reminder of the love Jesus shared with His disciples the night before He gave His life so that we might live forever.
May the Lord in His goodness bless our memories of Maria, welcome her to His loving care and give her eternal rest.
May our Blessed Savior, who nourishes us by means of His Body and Blood and by our prayers for each other dwell in our hearts and feed us with His love.
Angeline G Costello 1919-2010
Born: February 7, 1919 Died: October 25, 2010
Gospel: Mark 6:31-46
Our Gospel story began with Jesus hoping to rest, but then it moves to featuring Jesus bringing people together and making sure they had plenty to eat. It ends with Jesus going off by Himself to pray.
As we think about Angie’s life, we fondly recall how often she enjoyed seeing people together, making sure they had plenty to eat. And we are the ones who were fed by her goodness and we are the ones who express our prayers of gratitude for her life and for her love as the Lord brings us together this day.
On behalf of everyone belonging to Our Lady of Mount Carmel Parish, we assure you of our condolences and prayerful support as we commend Angie to the everlasting care of the Lord.
This church was a very special place for Angie.
It was here that the former Angie Monteforte and Frank Costello exchanged marriage vows in the presence of Father Sabatini on June 24, 1939.
After more than 56 years of marriage, it was here where Frank’s Mass of Christian Burial was celebrated by Father Brendan Doherty. The Lord called Frank home fifteen years and five days before He granted Angie eternal rest. We trust that they are together forever.
At this parish, Angie enjoyed membership in the Mount Carmel Society. This is why ladies from that fine organization paid tribute to her before Mass, and will do so again when we process out of the church. Angie also enjoyed membership in the Infant Jesus Guild for some time.
This was the place where Angie loved to volunteer during happier and healthier times. She really enjoyed preparing cheese puffs and twists. Angie loved to be with people. She touched the lives of her family members and friends in deep and lasting ways.
Those closest to Angie remember how she loved to cook and bake. Few people could cook and bake the way she did! She worked for six years in the cafeteria in the Niles City Schools. She also spent time working at The McKinley Heights Bakery. For Angie, these were labors of love.
I’m sure her crocheting skills brightened the lives of many people for whom she made things through the years.
Many of you remember how she loved to take walks. Simply socializing with the neighbors and spending time with grandchildren and great-grandchildren meant so much to her.
Our Gospel reminds us of how true it is that God provides for people in a spirit of such abundant love. Today, we are especially grateful for this love and how it touched us through Angie’s life.
Although her recent decline in health and subsequent death brings sadness to our lives, we appreciate so many aspects of Angie’s personality. One of these characteristics especially noteworthy was her concern for order and cleanliness. I’ve been told that it would have been appropriate to nickname her “Mrs. Clean.” Everything had to sparkle! If a picture was crooked, Angie would straighten it out. The bed had to be made in a very prescribed way. There could never be a wrinkle in the sheets. The clothes had to be laid out in precise order.
Now that the Lord has called Angie from us, something seems amiss about our lives. That is why we share this special meal today known as the Eucharist. We believe that Jesus nourishes us by giving us the strength we need to see each other through, the strength that comes to us by means of Christ’s dying and rising to new life.
The picture of your family from now on will seem out of kilter without Angie there making sure everyone has enough to eat.
The order she brought to life is missing and this leaves a wrinkle in our
hearts.
We trust in the Lord to make all things new as only Jesus can.
Angie loved angels, and we trust that the heavenly angels will lead Angie to be with the Lord and with everyone who is in paradise.
We trust that Angie will wait for us there. At that place, nothing will be amiss. Everything will sparkle. Gone will be the suffering and sorrow that came her way with advancement of years and declining health.
And there, we trust that Angie shares in a feast that lasts forever.
Rocky Fredericka 1923-2010
Born: October 2, 1923 Died: October 18, 2010
Gospel: Matthew 7: 24-25
Homily:
John and Rose, we know that you have known Rocky longest of all and that you grew up in the household of thirteen children nearby on Mason Street. We assure you and Rocky’s sister-in-law Mary Rose of our condolences and prayers as we mourn the passing of your brother.
Doctor David and Attorney James, your father formed and fashioned your lives in so many ways that enable you to touch the lives of many people each day. He touched the lives of your spouses and children and his goodness will be a legacy that is remembered in so many ways. Know that everyone here at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Parish extends our sympathy to you and we have been praying for you during these difficult times.
Several days ago, we chose the Gospel passage that was proclaimed a few moments ago. In a very practical way, it describes the wisdom of those who listen to the words of Christ and act on them. When Rocky’s family members gathered in the conference room at the rectory and heard the suggestion that we might use this reading, they immediately said: “That’s Dad. He always had a plan.” Just like the wise man who built his house on rock and survived the terrible challenges that came, Rocky had a plan.
This morning, we give thanks for the many ways Rocky’s life touched our lives. And we pray for the grace to let the wisdom of God that was reflected in Rocky’s wisdom continue to touch our lives all our days.
Jesus devoted so much of His time to teaching, just as He taught this Gospel lesson about building our lives on a firm foundation of faith.
Rocky taught those who knew him so much about building one’s life on a firm foundation of faith.
His journey of faith began at this parish, when Father Nicola Santoro baptized Rocky when he was only four days old in 1923.
The journey continued when he and his classmates celebrated their First Communion Day on May 26, 1935.
It was here in this church that Rocky exchanged marriage vows before the Lord with the former Irene Rose in the presence of God, Father Oreste Cerbara, dear family members and friends on July 24, 1948.
Rocky’s family members are so very grateful for the many ways he took care of his family, dating back to his support of and assistance for his parents and siblings when he worked in the Civilian Conservation Corps in 1939 in Oregon.
His strong concern for the education of his sons was always evident.
Our community is grateful for the years he was devoted to this parish where he served as and usher, his dedication to the Warren Elks Club, coaching Little League Baseball, and his service as a Third Ward Councilman.
Rocky also touched many lives through his work at the National Life and Accident Insurance Company, his service as Director of Trumbull County Child Support Enforcement Agency, his service as a bailiff at the Trumbull County Courthouse, his work as assistant manager at the Eastwood Mall for the Cafaro Company, and his work as a pioneer in the development of drug and alcohol abuse treatment programs.
We smile at memories of his enjoyment of golf, bowling, boating, car auctions, and how he was a fan of Notre Dame Football and really enjoyed animals.
We know that recent times have been difficult for Rocky and we trust in the Good Shepherd who leads Rocky safely to the everlasting care of God where there is no more suffering, pain, or frustration.
We pray that Rocky may be blessed with enjoying paradise with his beloved wife Irene, his parents, all of his brothers, sisters, and other dear family members and friends who have completed this journey before him.
We trust in Jesus, the Light of the World. He has a plan for everlasting life for Rocky. Christ is able to make all things new and enables us to share our sorrows in a spirit of faith and love, so true to the way Rocky faced the challenges during his eighty-seven years.
Rachel Gumina 1922-2010
Born: November 1, 1922
Died: October 15, 2010
Rachel M Gumina, 87, died at 6:10pm Friday, October 15, 2010 at her residence. She was born November 1, 1922, in Youngstown, the daughter of Carlo and Angelia Lombruno Palumbo. She was a member of Our Lady of Mount Carmel Catholic Church in Niles and a homemaker. She leaves two daugthers, Sandra Protopapa of Hubbard and Mary Rose Shelar, with whom she made her home; a sister, Carmel Romeo of Campbell; four grandchildren and six great grandchildren. She is preceded in death by her husband, Samuel Gumina, four brothers and four sisters. There are no callling hours. Private Services will be held at a later date. Joseph Rossi and Son Funeral Home, Niles, handled the arrangements.
Joseph J Sudano
Born: January 15, 1924
Died: October 4, 2010
NILES - Joseph J. Sudano, 86, of Niles, died at 4:23 a.m. Monday, Oct. 4, 2010, at St. Joseph Health Center in Warren. He was born Jan. 15, 1924, in Niles the son of Nicola and Pauline Reino Sudano. He was a 1942 graduate of Niles McKinley High School, and employed as a millwright at U.S. Steel McDonald Works for 38 years before retiring in 1980 and for 17 years at General Motors Lordstown before retiring in 1999.Joseph was of the Catholic faith and a United States Army veteran of World War II having served in Normandy, Northern France, Rhineland and Central Europe. Joseph, who was a beloved husband, an adoring father and grandfather, will be deeply missed by his wife Irene Cossick Sudano, whom he married Feb. 21, 1964; his daughter Joanne Robbins and her husband John of Chesterland; two brothers, Louis Sudano and his wife Grace of Berlin Center and James Sudano and his wife Sandie of Niles; three sisters, Angie Noga of Niles, Mary Jane Yurcho and her husband Leonard of Youngstown, Pauline Muccio of Niles; and the loves of his life, his granddaughters Chelsea and Megan.
He was preceded in death by a son, Niles Police Officer John A. Utlak; four brothers Angelo Sudano, Nicholas Sudano, Anthony Sudano, Michael Sudano and a sister Carmella Natale. Friends may call 5 to 8 p.m. Tuesday at The Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles where The Mt. Carmel Bereavement Ministry will conduct prayers at 7:30 p.m. Friends may also call Wednesday from 10 to 11 a.m. at The Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home.
Funeral Service will be held 11 a.m. Wednesday at The Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles with Fr. John S. Trimbur officiating. Burial will be in Pineview Cemetery where Joseph will be honored for his military service by The Trumbull County American Legion Honor Guard. Friends may view this obituary and send condolences at www.josephrossifuneralhome.com.
FREDERICK, Md. - Jerry L. Santangelo, 89, formerly of Niles, died at 3 a.m. Thursday, Sept. 23, 2010, in the emergency room at Frederick Memorial Hospital. He was born July 11, 1921 in Niles, the son of John Santangelo and Philomina Caviano. Mr. Santangelo graduated from Niles High school in 1940 and came to Maryland in March 1997. He had previously lived in both New Mexico and Philadelphia. Jerry retired in 1983 from Wean United Engineering after 20 years of employment. He was a veteran of the U.S. Army, having served during World War II in the Asiatic Pacific Theatre, where he received two ribbons with Bronze Stars, a Philippine Liberation Ribbon with Bronze Star, and Good Conduct and Victory medals. He belonged to St. John Evangelist Catholic Church in Frederick. He enjoyed traveling and was an avid sports fan. He was active at the Interact Senior Center in Philadelphia and was on the board of directors at the Palo Duro Senior Center in New Mexico. His wife, Rose Mico, whom he married Oct. 26, 1946, preceded him in death on June 24, 1980. Survivors include his daughter, Roseanne (Dr. Bernard P.) Lepri of Frederick; a grandson, Austin Lepri; and sisters, Anna DeLrosso of Niles and Lena Stankus of North Canton. His parents and two brothers, Joseph and Dominic A. Santangelo, are deceased. A funeral service will be held at 10 a.m. Saturday at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church in Niles with the Rev. Larry Frient officiating. Friends may call from 5 to 8 p.m. Friday and 9 to 9:30 a.m. Saturday at Peter Rossi & Son Memorial Chapel, 1884 North Road N.E., Warren. Burial will be in Calvary Cemetery, Youngstown.
Jerry Santangelo 1921-2010
Born: July 11, 1921 Died: September 23, 2010
Readings: Ecclesiastes 3:1-14 Romans 14:7-9 Matthew 25:31-40
Homily:
All of us here extend our condolences to Jerry’s family. We know that his passing is a difficult experience for you and that your love for him is strong. Be assured of our prayers.
How appropriate it is that we gather here in this church to commend him to God’s everlasting care.
Jerry was baptized in the previous church building here on these grounds on January 8, 1921.
He celebrated the Sacrament of Confirmation with his classmates in this church when he was close to eleven years old when Bishop Joseph Schrembs visited this parish on May 8, 1932.
Jerry served this country’s Army in the Asian Pacific Theatre where he received two Ribbons with Bronze Stars, a Philippine Liberation Ribbon with a Bronze Star, plus Good Conduct and Victory Medals.
He retired in 1983 from Wean United Engineering after 20 years of employment.
Those closest to him remember how Jerry enjoyed traveling, was an avid sports fan, was active in at the Interact Senior Center in Philadelphia and was on the Board of Directors at the Paulo Duro Senior Center in New Mexico.
He went to Maryland in 1997 and was a member of St. John the Evangelist Catholic Church in Frederick, Maryland.
I’ve been told that Jerry was very generous. If he knew someone in need, he would show up with bags of groceries to be of assistance.
His Niles, Ohio background and being from a large family influenced so much of what Jerry did. He was proud of his Italian heritage.
He was also known to devote many hours helping at his wife’s family grocery store in Campbell, Ohio.
The fact that Jerry had so many experiences and reached out to others in such remarkable ways led us to choose the Scripture readings that were proclaimed a few moments ago.
The Book of Ecclesiastes reminds us that there is a time for everything, and that that Jerry’s time on earth was a precious gift to those who knew him.
St. Paul reminds us that none of us lives as his own master, and no one dies as his own master. For if we live, we live for the Lord and if we die, we die as His servants. In every experience, we belong to the Lord.
Our Gospel this morning reminds us that whatsoever we do to the least of people, we do unto the Lord.
Let these words inspire us as we commend Jerry to God’s care, for we trust that Jerry reached out to Jesus many times during his 89 years of living.
May the Lord welcome Jerry to a place of refreshment, light, and peace, and strengthen us in His service all our days.
Mary Koches 1915-2010
CAPE CORAL, Fla.-Mary L. Koches, 94, formerly of Niles, died Sunday, Sept. 19, 2010. She was born Oct. 24, 1915, in Niles, the daughter of Anthony and Jenny Perna Matash Sr. She was employed at Niles General Electric and Mahoning Glass for 24 years and was a member of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church in Niles. Survivors include a daughter, Mary Lou Shamrock of Cape Coral, Fla.; a sister, Sarah Zuzolo of Niles; two grandsons; and a great-granddaughter. Her husband, Stephen J. Koches; three brothers; and two sisters are deceased. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 11 a.m. Saturday at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church in Niles. There are no calling hours. Burial will be in Niles City Cemetery. Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home handled the arrangements.
Mary L Koches 1915-2010
Born: October 24, 1915
Died: September 19, 2010
Funeral: September 25, 2010
Gospel: Matthew 11:28-30
Homily:
We firmly believe that the Lord issues a very personal invitation to Mary. We heard the words in today’s Gospel. Jesus says: “Come to me and I will give you rest.”
We believe that He issues this very same invitation to everyone closest to Mary who have supported her during her final difficulties. I join the members of this parish in prayerfully supporting all of you.
It is so fitting that we gather here to bid goodbye to Mary.
She was baptized as Maria Lucia Mattacia at this parish in the previous church building on November 30, 1915 by Father Nicola Santoro.
When Mary was eight years old, she shared in the Eucharist for the very first time here in this church when Father Santoro celebrated a special Mass here on June 12, 1924. Mary’s faith was strengthened that very same day when the Right Reverend Biondi enabled Mary and her young classmates to celebrate the Sacrament of Confirmation.
On October 12, 1946, Mary exchanged wedding vows in the presence of Father Oresete Cerbara here in this church before family members and friends. They went on to enjoy life at a number of residences here in Niles, including on Grant Street, Warren Avenue, and Wade Avenue. Mary and Stephen shared nearly forty years of marriage before God called Stephen home on September 10, just over two dozen years ago.
Mary often helped cut vegetables during our parish festivals during happier and healthier times. Mary truly looked forward to the festival each year. There were times she walked here all the way from her Wade Avenue home and stayed the entire day and into the evening to help in the sausage booth. This parish was where she was able to spend quality time with her friends.
Mary’s faith had a great influence in her life. Those who knew her described Mary as devout, prayerful, and helpful to the sick.
Our community was blessed by Mary’s work years ago at the Niles General Electric assembly line and at Mahoning Glass. She enjoyed walking, knitting, and crocheting.
Her family members pray for the grace to remember happier and healthier times. Certainly, her grandchildren were very aware of their grandmother’s love, and her great-grandchild will learn many stories about Mary’s love in years to come.
We’ve heard the voice of Jesus say, “Come unto me and rest.” We pray that the Lord may welcome Mary to a place of light, refreshment, and peace.
May God in His goodness continue to enable the legacy of Mary’s love influence our lives in many positive ways each and every time we think of her and remember her in prayer.
Mark E. Helmick, 46, formerly of Niles, died in Ithaca, New York on Thursday September 16, 2010. He was born July 28, 1964 in Warren the son of Bernard “Gene” and Jennie Nardo Helmick. Mark was a 1982 graduate of Niles McKinley High School and was most recently employed for The Bayer Corporation in Lebanon, Pennsylvania. He was a member of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church in Niles, Alcoholics Anonymous, and a physical trainer at New York Fitness in Lebanon, Pennsylvania. He was an avid Ohio State Buckeye and Duke Blue Devil fan, a United States Marine Corps veteran having served for over two years in Okinawa, Japan and was an embassy guard in The Philippines. Mark will be deeply missed by his parents of Niles, a brother Kevin T. Helmick and his wife Regina of Niles, a sister Gina Price and her husband Ron of Girard, his maternal grandmother Mary Nardo of Niles, his niece and nephews, Makenzie and Matthew Price and Kasen Helmick. He is preceded in death by his maternal grandfather, Anthony Nardo and his paternal grandparents Edward Helmick and Virginia Ritenour. Friends may call Thursday from 10AM to 1:00PM at The Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles. Mass of Christian Burial will be held 1:30PM Thursday at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church in Niles, with Fr. Larry Frient officiating, preceded by a 1PM prayer service at the funeral home. Burial will be in Pineview Cemetery. Friends and family may view this obituary and send condolences at www.josephrossifuneralhome.com.
Mark Edward Helmick
Born: July 28, 1964 Died: September 16, 2010 Funeral: September 23, 2010
Gospel: John 14:1-6
Homily:
We know this is a time when many words are spoken but none of us is able to find the right words to say. Words like “I’m sorry”, “We love you”, and “We are there for you” are very sincere words spoken by so many people to Mark’s family and no words could begin to express how Gene, Jennie, Kevin, Regina, Gina, Ron, Mary, Makenzie, Matthew, and in his own way little Kasen appreciate these expressions of love and support.
This afternoon, in the name of God’s Family the Church I extend words of condolences and assurance of prayers. All of us know that no words can explain away the many mysteries of life, but words of prayer, support, and understanding are more valuable than anything in the world.
We heard the Word of God expressed a few moments ago reminding us that Jesus is the Way, the Truth, and the Life.
Jesus is the Way. And the Lord certainly wanted to be a big part of the Way in Mark’s journey as Father Carlo Della Vecchia welcomed Mark Edward Helmick into God’s Family, baptizing him in this church on September 6, 1964.
As Mark’s journey continued, Jesus entered Mark’s heart in a special way when he shared the Eucharist for the very first time here on April 30, 1972. Those of you who knew Mark’s goodness of heart and friendly nature are sure that the Lord worked through Mark in a number of ways.
Mark strengthened his faith in celebrating the Sacrament of Confirmation here on the 24th day of February in 1978. We can be sure that even though influences beyond Mark’s control often troubled his life, the Holy Spirit prompted him to try to convince young people not to get onto a path that would result in severe troubles.
And now, we take this final step of the journey by expressing to the Lord our love and our care for Mark as we gather for this Mass of Christian Burial.
We trust that Jesus guides Mark’s way to everlasting peace.
Jesus is the Truth. Throughout the Lord’s life, Jesus attracted people like a magnet. They were drawn to His teaching, His ability to bring healing, His wonderful forgiveness and expressions of love. I’ve been told that despite Mark’s troubles, he too was like a magnet. He made friends quickly.
Mark worked hard even though there were problems associated with staying on one job for a long time due to the struggles that plagued him.
Mark had a distinctive laugh and really enjoyed spending time with others cheering for the Ohio State Buckeyes and Duke Blue Devils.
Children who knew Uncle Mark really wanted to see him again. Mark accomplished the goal of being a physical trainer, and he served his country in the United States Marine Corps.
We trust in the Truth that God’s love for Mark never came to an end, and it never will. God’s love for us is closer to us than we are to our very selves during this time of need, and always.
Jesus is the Life. When Mark was in grade school, there were times he struggled with confidence issues. One of the dear sisters who taught him asked his mother Jennie to help Mark deal with this. Jennie took Mark in front of a mirror and wanted Mark to repeat the many good qualities he had while looking at his own image in the mirror right there in front of him. Mark had a tough time doing this. The truth is, the very life of God dwells in each and every one of His children. It dwelled in Mark even if he could not recognize during his troubled times that he was made in the image and likeness of God. Our Lord Jesus Christ gave His very life to make possible everlasting life with God. Because we believe that those who have gone before us still love us and join their prayers to ours, dearly departed people like Mark’s grandfathers Anthony Nardo and Edward Helmick and his grandmother Virginia Riteour are there on the other side, welcoming Mark and encouraging him to accept the love of a God who forgives, makes whole, gives peace, and holds forever close to His heart.
We trust in Jesus who give life even as our words cannot possibly express what is in our minds and in our hearts.
We trust in Jesus because He is the Way, the Truth, and the Life especially when our ways seem to lead to ends we had not hoped for, when our world is shattered by the obscuring of truth brought about by dependencies no one would ever ask for, and when our lives are disrupted by the loss of one we did everything we could do to help.
Remember that Mark laughed, demonstrated love, and met some admirable measures of success. Remember that there is a Lord who is Master of Mark’s life and Master of our lives who can set Mark free from the chains that bound him.
Look upon the candle that represents the Light of Christ shining through dark times. Jesus was the Light of the World when Mark was baptized here in this church. Jesus continues to call Mark out of whatever darkness that troubled him and Christ wants perpetual light to shine on Mark forever.
May the love of Christ, which surpasses all understanding, keep us focused on this light all our days; may the Lord Himself warm our hearts in a goodness that keeps Mark and all of us rooted in the goodness of the God whose love lasts forever.
Concetta Maria Nicastro, 89, of Niles, passed away with her loving family at her side at 9:18AM September 18 2010 at her residence. She was born March 31, 1921 in Bagnoli Irpino, Italy the daughter of Aniello and Marianna Basile Russo. She was a member of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church in Niles and the Immaculate Conception Society. Her husband Aniello Nicasto whom she married July 4, 1943 died September 14, 1999. She will be deeply missed by two sons Tommaso Nicastro and his wife Kathy of St. Petersburg, Florida, and Anthony Nicastro and his wife Caterina of Niles, a daughter Tina Faith and her husband Richard of Niles, two brothers, Antonio Russo and Domenico Russo both of Pisa, Italy, a sister Annina Nicastro of Pisa, Italy, and six grandchildren. She is preceded in death by two sisters, Antionette Vivolo and Nuccia Gatta. Friends may call Tuesday from 5 to 8PM at the Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles where The Immaculate Conception Society will conduct prayers at 4:45PM and The Mt. Carmel Bereavement Ministry will conduct prayers at 7:30PM. Mass of Christian Burial will be held 9:30AM Wednesday at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church in Niles, with Fr. Larry Frient officiating, preceded by a 9:00AM prayer service at the funeral home. Burial will be in Niles City Cemetery. Friends and family can view this obituary and send condolences at www.josephrossifuneralhome.com.
Concetta Maria Nicastro
Born: March 31, 1921 Died: September 18, 2010 Funeral: September 22, 2010
Gospel: Luke 8:4-8
Homily:
Everyone here at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church extends condolences to Concetta’s family. How often she joined us in prayer ever since coming to this country in 1962 to provide a better life for her family. Knowing her great love for us, we can be sure that she prays for us even now and that her love will never end.
Not long before Concetta died, she was so concerned about the tomatoes and beans in her garden and the grapes that would soon be delivered for making wine. You know how important her garden was to her. You remember how she was so concerned about planting the garden every spring, and harvesting what it yielded ever summer and autumn.
Her admiration for the seasons led me to choose the Gospel story we just heard. It is known as the Parable of the Sower. Jesus taught how a farmer scattered seed. We were told how the seed that he sowed yielded various results.
Some of it fell on the path and was trampled, and the birds of the sky ate it up.
Some seed fell on rocky ground and withered because it did not have enough moisture.
Some of it fell among thorns and the roots of the thorny plants choked the good seed.
Finally, some seed fell on good soil and yielded a bountiful harvest.
If we think about Concetta’s eighty-nine years of living, we find that she sowed many seeds of goodness in the lives of those who knew her.
Concetta insisted that children obey those having authority over them. She voiced this lesson even to those who were not her own children.
Concetta sowed the seeds of hard work, canning so much food and keeping a clean house year after year.
We are inspired by how she even helped build a deck when she was in her early seventies, personally pounding nail after nail. Anyone who tried to stop her was simply told to get out of her way.
Concetta sowed the seeds of opportunity for her family by coming to this country in July of 1962. On this day we are joined in spirit by relatives in Italy who could not travel here but pray along with us nevertheless.
She enjoyed her membership in the Immaculate Conception Society. The members of this fine organization pay special tribute to her on this occasion. It was in her encounters with this group that seeds of appreciation for her heritage from Bagnoli, Irpino were continually nourished.
It is so very clear that Concetta sowed the seeds of love in her family as so many of you kept vigil with her during her final difficulties, and we believe that her passing has sowed the seeds of everlasting life.
Our faith in God sows seeds of belief that her suffering has ended and Concetta is at peace. Her affection for her departed husband Aniello yielded a beautiful harvest even as she breathed her last, for she died on the eleventh anniversary of his burial, on Saturday, September 18th (that’s 9-18) at 9:18 AM. Reflecting on this sows seeds of awareness within our hearts that love really does last forever and that in some mysterious way, for people of faith, the bonds of love are not broken even by the reality of death.
May the many ways Concetta sowed seeds of faith, hope, and love in our lives continue to grow for the rest of our lives. You remember how she loved flowers. May these seeds of goodness she sowed among us enable our lives to be every bit as beautiful as the flowers she so admired. And may this goodness enable us to sow seeds of faith, hope, and love in the lives of all we encounter all our days.
Rose I. Davis 88, formerly of Pleasant Avenue, died at 1:34 p.m. Monday, Sept. 13, 2010, at Forum Health Trumbull Memorial Hospital in Warren. Rose was born Sept. 11, 1922, in Girard, the daughter of Pete and Catherine Senchisak Katchmer, spending her lifetime here. She had attended Holy Trinity Orthodox Church, and had been employed by the Niles Steel Products Corp. and the former Trim Edge Corp. of Youngstown. A former member of the MMBA, she enjoyed walking, shopping, crossword puzzles, was a cancer survivor, and was proud to have four brothers who served in World War II and who all came back home to their family. She genuinely loved her dog Penny. Survivors include her son, Edward L., with whom she made her home; two stepsons, Walter (Karole) Davis of Rocky Hill, N.C., and Harold (Joyce) Davis of Austintown; a sister, Mary Pavlich of Niles; two brothers, Nick (Barbara) Katchmer and John (Grace) Katchmer, all of Girard; five grandchildren; several great-grandchildren; and nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death on Dec. 3, 1967, by her husband, Edward L., whom she married Feb. 3, 1951; two sisters, Ann Round and Ann, who died in infancy; two brothers, Michael and Stephen Katchmer; and a grandson, Harold Davis Jr. A funeral service will be held at 10:30 a.m. Friday at the Robert P. McDermott Memorial Home with Father Larry Frient officiating. Friends may call from 5 to 8 p.m. Thursday at the funeral home. Burial will be in Niles City Cemetery. Arrangements and care have been entrusted to the Robert P. McDermott Memorial Home.
Rose Davis
Born: September 11, 1922 Died: September 13, 2010 Funeral: September 17, 2010
Gospel: Wisdom 3:1-9 Psalm 23 Revelation 14:13 John 14:1-6
Homily:
I extend my condolences and the prayerful support of the people of Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church to all of you who were closest to Rose.
As you think about her eighty-eight years of living, you give thanks for the many ways Rose touched many lives. You also give thanks for the many ways God blessed Rose.
Thinking back through the years, you recall how she was able to persevere through the years four brothers served in World War II and how grateful she was when they returned safely to this country.
We give thanks for how Rose was able to withstand the challenges of cancer. She was able to enjoy walking, shopping, and doing crossword puzzles. Rose really loved her dog Penny, polka music, and the talents of Yanni.
We gather this morning believing that the words of the Scriptures bring us consolation in ways that nothing else can.
The Book of Wisdom assures us that the souls of the just are in the hand of God and that no more torment shall touch them. The Gospel of John reminds us that Jesus has gone to prepare a place for people of faith. We pray that the Lord comforts Rose and welcomes her to be with her husband, sisters, brothers, grandson Harold Davis Jr., and all who have completed life’s journey before her.
The Book of Revelation tells us: Blessed are they who die in the Lord. Their good works accompany them. May the Lord in His mercy remember every good deed Rose did during her eighty-eight years of life, and inspire us to be people who are filled with faith, hope, and love all our days.
One of the most beautiful passages in the entire Bible is the twenty-third Psalm. We heard it just a few moments ago. We proclaimed it with the belief that God guides our journeys and leads us where we must go. May He guide Rose through the shadow of death to a place of refreshment, light, and peace.
Rita Anne Nardo Dew
56, of Niles died at 9:19PM Wednesday, August 18, 2010, at St. Joseph Health Center Eastland in Warren, Ohio. She was born October 3 1953 in Warren the daughter of Joseph and Jennie Gumino Nardo. She was a 1971 graduate of Niles McKinley High School and a homemaker. Her husband Hartzell Dew whom she married in 1993 died in 2007. She will be deeply missed by three sisters, Antoinette Nardo with whom she made her home, Patricia Parks of Niles, Mary Gimmarco of Champion, and several nieces and nephews. Memorial Services will be held 10:30AM Friday August 27, 2010, at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church in Niles, with Fr. Larry Frient officiating. Family and friends may view this obituary and send condolences at www.josephrossifuneralhome.com.Rita Anne Nardo Dew
Born: October 3, 1953
Died: August 18, 2010 Memorial Mass: August 27, 2010
Readings: Wisdom 3:1-9 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 and 13 John 14:1-6
Homily:
How strongly we depend on the Word of God to bring us consolation, comfort, and guidance during this time of need.
As we ponder the solace offered to us by God, we realize that many good people belonging to this parish as well as the caring thoughts and prayers of others reach out to Rita’s family. Be assured that you are lifted up to the Lord.
God’s Word reminds us of the indescribable care our God has for Rita and for all of us.
Some of you remember when Rita was younger. You recall how she was full of life, fun, and laughter! Our hearts are saddened that Rita’s life took some sad and tragic turns along the way. Our sadness leads us to realize how much we depend on the God in whom we put our faith. We trust in the God who is able to make all things new.
We gather in a spirit of gratitude to God for giving us His Word to enlighten our way.
The ancient Book of Wisdom reminds us that the souls of the just are in the hand of God and no more torment shall touch them. We believe that the same Jesus Christ who gave His life for you and me gave His life for Rita. He makes it possible for her to dart about like sparks through stubble and enables her soul to shine forever. We trust in His ability to alleviate Rita’s suffering and make all things new for her.
Saint Paul reminds us that three gifts last forever. There is no end to faith, hope, and love. And there is no greater gift than love.
Our faith gets us through difficult times. We will bring it with us when our lives end, telling the Lord how much we believe in His goodness.
Our hope lives us confidence that the trials and tribulations of this world do not have the last word. Our hope gives us something to which we look forward, and that something is everlasting life with our God and with all people of faith who have completed life’s journey before us.
Our love is caught up in the love of God. It was love that led Jesus to tell His closest friends that He would prepare a place for them. It was love that led Jesus to assure His friends that He is the Way in a world that often loses direction, He is the Truth in a world too often filled with deceit and falsehood, and he is the Life in a world that often pursues goals that can only lead to temporary gain.
It is good that we have gathered today, commending Rita to the everlasting care of the Lord, and lifting each other in prayer with the belief that sharing our grief somehow causes our grief to have less power over us.
May the Lord bring us consolation, and guide us along the path of goodness, and lead us to God’s love in everything.
Ruth I. Clemente, 76, of Niles went to be with the Lord with her family at her side at 11:58AM August 16, 2010 at Forum Health Trumbull Memorial Hospital in Warren. She was born April 4, 1934 in Elkins, West Virginia the daughter of Paul and Stella Mae Herron Canfield. She was a 1952 graduate of Elkins High School, attended Youngstown State University and Warren Business College. Ruth was employed as a secretary for the building and zoning inspector’s office, recorder for the building, zoning, and planning board, and retired in 1997 from the light department office in Niles. She was a member of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church in Niles, church Eucharistic Minister, and served as chairperson and coordinator for The Miss Niles Pageant for six years. She also served in Trumbull Memorial Hospital Pastoral Care, a member of Cursillo, and enjoyed walking, aerobics, and spending time with her family and friends. She was blessed to have many wonderful and caring friends. Ruth was the first person to help people in need and always there for others and will be deeply missed by her husband Albert E. Clemente whom she married September 24, 1960, a son Edward A. Clemente, at home, a daughter Diana Moss and her husband Dave of Niles, a brother Raymond P. Canfield of Elkins, West Virginia, three grandchildren, Ryan, Stefanie, and Michael Cvengros, four great-grandchildren, Aiden, Dominik, Gianna, and Nikolas, and her faithful companion her dog Harley "D". She is preceded in death by her step-father Willard D. Phillips and step-mother Bertha Canfield. Friends may call from 5 to 8 PM Thursday at The Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles where the Mt. Carmel Bereavement Ministry will conduct prayers at 7:30 PM. Mass of Christian Burial will be held 9:30 AM Friday at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church in Niles, with Fr. Larry Frient officiating, preceded by a 9AM prayer service at the funeral home. Burial will be in Niles City Cemetery. The family would like to thank the nurses from Trumbull Memorial Hospital Intensive Care for their excellent care and kindness. Family and friends may view this obituary and send condolences at www.josephrossifuneralhome.com
Ruth I. Clemente
Born: April 4, 1934 Died: August 16, 2010 Funeral: August 20, 2010
Gospel: John 11:17-24 (Jesus is the Resurrection and the Life.)
Homily:
Jesus told us that he is the Resurrection and the Life. How often Ruth’s life gave witness to the wonderful reality of the love of the Lord!
On behalf of everyone belonging to this parish, I extend condolences to Al, Ed, Diana and everyone closest to her. I know that her family meant so very much to Ruth and she meant and always will mean so very much to you. Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Ruth’s love for the Lord was expressed in so many ways. She gave many people a wonderful example to follow. She served her parish as a Eucharistic Minister and brought the love of the Lord to others by her service with the Trumbull Memorial Hospital Pastoral Care Department. Many people have fond memories of Ruth’s experience with the parish Renew Team years ago. She prayed diligently. Ruth read and studied the Bible ever so faithfully, making special time each day when she would not be interrupted so that she could draw closer to the Lord.
How important it was for Albert and Ruth to celebrate their fiftieth wedding anniversary when they went to St. Columba Cathedral several months ago. I know that she remarked about this several times when she and I conversed during her stays in the hospital.
Ruth was loved by her family and friends. She also was admired and followed so closely by her four-legged friends, the dogs named Harley “D” and Echo. I know they missed her when I came to the house the day after she died to plan Ruth’s funeral.
Certainly, celebration was a very important ingredient in Ruth’s life. How she enjoyed celebrating birthdays at restaurants and also at the homes of her friends. This Jesus who spoke to us in the Gospel, telling us that He is the Resurrection and the Life, is able to do something right now that we only wish we could do. The Lord is able to welcome Ruth to a celebration that lasts FOREVER. Yes, Christ can feed her at the eternal banquet in the Kingdom of God. We can be sure that Ruth prays for us as we gather to share this Sacred Meal known as the Eucharist, a foretaste of the heavenly meal we all hope to share in the fullness of time.
You remember Ruth in such a heartwarming way. So often, Ruth was the very first person who would come to the assistance of those in need. Ruth was especially helpful to people who experienced the death of a loved one. Her life reminds us that we depend so heavily on one another to help us persevere through our grief. Our faith tells us that Ruth prays for us and with us even now, and that her prayers for us will continue as long as we shall live.
Let us be strengthened by the promises the Lord gave to us.
He promised to lead us through the darkness of the shadow of death to valleys of green where paradise awaits those who put faith in Him.
He promised to be our Resurrection and our Life. When death brings a conclusion to our mortal lives as it did for Ruth shortly before Noon on Monday, Christ promises to fill us with new life that no one can take from us.
Jesus promises to bring rest, consolation, and peace.
The Lord says to Ruth: “I love you. You are mine.” And this same Lord who cried when His friend Lazarus died keeps His promise to strengthen all of us who are left behind.
May God raise Ruth to the fullness of life just as He promised, and assure us that we never face our sorrows alone.
Donna M. Ciletti-Infante, 70, of Niles, passed away on Sunday, August 15, 2010 following a lengthy illness. Born on May 11,1940 in Cleveland, Ohio, Donna was the daughter of Alan Geisman and Gail Woodruff Pinter and was raised as a child in Mantua. Donna was a secretary in Cleveland when she met and married Thomas Ciletti Jr. on July 11,1959. She worked as a school librarian at Our Lady of Mt Carmel School and later was co-owner of McQuaid's Distributing and Marketing with her former husband, Louis McQuaid. Even after retirement, she remained active working in her son, Michael Ciletti MD's, medical practice. She is survived by her three children, Maria Ciletti and her partner, Rose Marsco, of Niles; Dr. Michael Ciletti and his wife, Annette, of Howland; and Traci Buttar and her husband, David, of Niles. She will be forever missed by her grandchildren, Kayla and Sara Ciletti and Jacob and Katherine Buttar. Donna is also survived by her current husband, John Infante, whom she married in November 1991, and his daughters, Joni Razzano and her children, Christina and Joseph Razzano of Columbus; and Janice Elaine Brancaccio, her husband, Vince, of Howland and their children, Nicholas and Luke Brancaccio. Donna also leaves behind two brothers, Richard Pinter of Columbus and Frank Pinter of New Oxford, Pennsylvania. She will be lovingly remembered by her sisters-in-law, Lucille Redmond of Niles and Patty DiEugenio of Tempe, Arizona and brother-in-law, Ralph Ciletti of Niles as well as several nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her parents and first husband, Thomas Ciletti Jr., as well as sisters-in-law, Jane Ciletti, Elvira Ciletti and Mary Krueger. Donna was a past member of The Catholic Women's Guild at Our Lady of Mt Carmel Church and enjoyed traveling. The family wishes to extend their sincere gratitude for the excellent care given to Donna by the staff of The Liberty Health Care Center and St. Mary's Alzheimer's Center as well as for the care and compassion of care giver, Terri Hillier. Family and friends may visit from 5 to 8PM on Tuesday, August 17 at Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles where the Mt. Carmel Bereavement Ministry will conduct prayers at 7:30PM. Mass of Christian Burial will be held 9:30AM Wednesday, August 18 at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church in Niles, with Fr. Larry Frient officiating, preceded by a 8:45AM prayer
Donna Ciletti – Infante
Born: May 11, 1940 Died: August 15, 2010 Funeral: August 18, 2010
Gospel: John 15: 9-13
Homily:
All of you who knew Donna as such a caring maternal presence in your life have been pondering deep truths associated with her life and her passing. Many of these truths are brought out so well in the book entitled Take Your Oxygen First. The author Leeza Gibbons describes how sturdy is a mother’s love. Truly, a mother’s love comforts, soothes, corrects, and scolds. It can guide you and let go with just one look, even in the face of enormous heartache and terrifying fears.
All of us tend to go through life with the irrational belief that mothers will last forever, as Leeza Gibbons described so eloquently. But all of you closest to Donna faced the truth that in some ways, due to the disease she faced, she was gone before she was gone these past few years.
Today we reflect on Donna’s love in the context of the message Jesus spoke to those closest to Him the night before He died. You heard the words of the Gospel. Jesus told His friends to remain in His love.
Certainly, a mother’s love is very much like the love of the Lord. As Leeza Gibbons tells us: “It lasts beyond the expiration of the earthly vessel that kissed boo boos and tucked us in at night. A mother’s love is deposited in the hearts of those she loved and there it grows and lives forever.”
You ponder the example of living Donna gave you and how it compared to the journey of love Jesus took. Like the Lord, Donna was strong. Like our Savior, she overcame obstacles. She endured the death of both of her parents when she was young. Donna knew the value of hard work as a child at the grocery store and bar in Mantua, then in her adult years in the library at Our Lady of Mount Carmel School, then with the insurance company downtown and McQuaid’s Distributing and Marketing. Donna remained active following her retirement, working in her son Dr. Ciletti’s medical practice.
As Jesus knew the sadness associated with the death of His close friend Lazarus, Donna knew the sadness of her first husband Thomas Ciletti’s death, as well as the grief associated with the passing of her sisters-in-law Jane, Elvira, and Mary plus the passing of many other relatives and friends.
You will always remember how Donna encouraged you to work hard, how she told you in her unique way to “just do it” as she lived the example of plowing through difficulties.
Her great generosity and her sarcastic sense of humor will remain with you always, as will your memories of her travels to Las Vegas, Atlantic City, and other places.
Donna’s love for her husband, children, grandchildren, her in-laws, her step-children, step-grandchildren, brothers, nieces, nephews, members of the extended family, and friends will always be cherished.
“Live on in my love.” Such was the message of Jesus. As people of faith, we are confident that Christ wants Donna’s joy to be full and she wants our joy to be full.
Remember her as loving you. Remember her as sharing the very love of the Lord that grows and lives within you forever. Then God will raise Donna up to a place of light, refreshment, and peace as an eagle is lifted high above the land by the breezes sent from on high. Then, as Leeza Gibbons tells us, Grandma’s love will be “sturdy enough to prop us up and remind us of the courage she taught us.”
Yes, Donna’s love will be “sturdy enough to create a veil of peace until we find serenity on our own.”
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Mary Arlene Liste, 70 of Girard passed away peacefully at her residence with her family at her side at 12:25AM Saturday, August 7, 2010 after fighting a very long and courageous 18 year battle with cancer. She was born September 6, 1939 in Warren the daughter of Rosario "Russ" and Lena Belcastro Merlo. She was a 1957 graduate of Niles McKinley High School and a 1960 graduate of East Liverpool City Hospital School of Nursing. Mary was employed as a staff nurse on the medical surgical floor at St. Joseph 's Riverside Hospital for 12 years and was director of Nursing at Glenview Manor Nursing home for 6 years before retiring in 1978. She was a member of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church in Niles, The McKinley Memorial Friends of The Library, The Trumbull County Republican Party, and The Air Force 40'th Bomb Wing Association. She was also past president of The Washington School PTA, active in the Niles Bicentennial Celebration where she and her husband presented programs on the history of the flags that touched American Soil, and a volunteer at Autumn Hill Nursing Home. She enjoyed shopping, crafts, interior and exterior home decorating, traveling, and spending time with her family. Mary, who never gave up and thought family was the most important aspect of her life, will be deeply missed by her husband Patrick M. Liste whom she married June 29, 1963, two daughters, Arlena M. Rich of Howland, and Jolene Booher (Steven Beckman) of Niles, a brother Joseph R. Merlo and his wife Virginia "Ginny" of Niles, a sister Cecelia Merlo and her companion Jackie Haynie of Niles, and her beloved cat Lexi. She is preceded in death by her parents. Friends may call from 4 to 7PM Monday at The Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles where the Mt. Carmel Bereavement Ministry will conduct prayers at 6:30PM. Mass of Christian Burial will be held 9:30AM Tuesday at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church, with Father Larry Frient officiating, preceded by a 9AM prayer service at the funeral home. Burial will be in Pineview Cemetery . Memorial Contributions can be made to Hospice of The Valley, 5190 Market Street , Youngstown , Ohio 44512. Family and friends may view this obituary and send condolences at www.josephrossifuneralhome.com.
Mary Arlene Liste
Born: Sept. 6, 1939
Died: August 7, 2010 Funeral: August 10, 2010
Gospel: John 15:9-11
Homily:
How often during healthier and happier times Mary Arlene joined us in prayer here in this church! How she loved to worship here!
Today we join with each other in prayer during a time of sadness, needing the consolation of our loving God. We pray that our deepest selves might discern that this is also a time of hope. We trust in the Lord’s promise that people of faith like Mary Arlene are freed from their sufferings and will rise again following the trials and tribulations they faced.
We gather as a church family knowing that for Mary Arlene, family was such an important part of life. We give thanks for the many ways she showered love upon her husband, daughters, siblings, members of the extended family, and so many people who encountered her. You remember how she constantly encouraged those close to her and truly believed that how you took on the challenges you faced would eventually lead to success. Those closest to Mary Arlene say that her strong faith and love for the Lord enabled her to approach life this way, and it is our fervent prayer that all of us might be filled with this same love and faith.
You remember how Mary Arlene admired beauty. She enjoyed beautiful clothes, beautiful jewelry, and always looked beautiful even in the midst of some difficult illnesses. As we prepare to commend her to the everlasting care of the Lord, we know that our God welcomes a beautiful soul whose inspiration will continue to touch our lives.
Those closest to Mary Arlene know that she strongly believed in angels. In our prayer, we ask the angels to lead her into paradise. The one thing that kept her from making this journey earlier, we all believe, is the truth that she didn’t want to leave those closest to her. And as difficult as it is for us to let her go, we know that love can never abandon us. We trust in the love of those who have gone before us.
As we ponder Mary Arlene’s journey from this life to the next, we ponder the beautiful smile she carried through her life. It was radiant! We ask that Mary Arlene might be greeted by the smiles of the saints as they behold the indescribable beauty of the face of God Himself. Now that her sufferings have been alleviated forever, we are filled with the hope that Mary Arlene’s smile is able to radiate in such a way that it even makes paradise a brighter place. We certainly trust that the radiance of her love will continue to emanate from her place with the Lord and encourage us as we continue our journeys.
Jesus gave such a wonderful gift to His disciples the night before He died. We heard it expressed in the words of the Gospel chosen for this Mass: “Remain in my love… I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and your joy may be complete.”
Our faith assures us that the Lord wants Mary Arlene’s joy to be complete. Her final days and nights were surrounded by the love of family members and friends, as well as the love expressed by the Church in the Sacraments as we prayed together.
Our prayers continue now. May the prayers of Saint Maria del Tindaro, to whom Mary Arlene was very devoted, and the prayers of all who have gone before us, fill us with faith, hope, and love as we strive to remain in the love of God and walk this journey of faith.
FREDERICK, Md. - Jerry L. Santangelo, 89, formerly of Niles, died at 3 a.m. Thursday, Sept. 23, 2010, in the emergency room at Frederick Memorial Hospital. He was born July 11, 1921 in Niles, the son of John Santangelo and Philomina Caviano. Mr. Santangelo graduated from Niles High school in 1940 and came to Maryland in March 1997. He had previously lived in both New Mexico and Philadelphia. Jerry retired in 1983 from Wean United Engineering after 20 years of employment. He was a veteran of the U.S. Army, having served during World War II in the Asiatic Pacific Theatre, where he received two ribbons with Bronze Stars, a Philippine Liberation Ribbon with Bronze Star, and Good Conduct and Victory medals. He belonged to St. John Evangelist Catholic Church in Frederick. He enjoyed traveling and was an avid sports fan. He was active at the Interact Senior Center in Philadelphia and was on the board of directors at the Palo Duro Senior Center in New Mexico. His wife, Rose Mico, whom he married Oct. 26, 1946, preceded him in death on June 24, 1980. Survivors include his daughter, Roseanne (Dr. Bernard P.) Lepri of Frederick; a grandson, Austin Lepri; and sisters, Anna DeLrosso of Niles and Lena Stankus of North Canton. His parents and two brothers, Joseph and Dominic A. Santangelo, are deceased. A funeral service will be held at 10 a.m. Saturday at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church in Niles with the Rev. Larry Frient officiating. Friends may call from 5 to 8 p.m. Friday and 9 to 9:30 a.m. Saturday at Peter Rossi & Son Memorial Chapel, 1884 North Road N.E., Warren. Burial will be in Calvary Cemetery, Youngstown.
Jerry Santangelo 1921-2010
Born: July 11, 1921 Died: September 23, 2010
Readings: Ecclesiastes 3:1-14 Romans 14:7-9 Matthew 25:31-40
Homily:
All of us here extend our condolences to Jerry’s family. We know that his passing is a difficult experience for you and that your love for him is strong. Be assured of our prayers.
How appropriate it is that we gather here in this church to commend him to God’s everlasting care.
Jerry was baptized in the previous church building here on these grounds on January 8, 1921.
He celebrated the Sacrament of Confirmation with his classmates in this church when he was close to eleven years old when Bishop Joseph Schrembs visited this parish on May 8, 1932.
Jerry served this country’s Army in the Asian Pacific Theatre where he received two Ribbons with Bronze Stars, a Philippine Liberation Ribbon with a Bronze Star, plus Good Conduct and Victory Medals.
He retired in 1983 from Wean United Engineering after 20 years of employment.
Those closest to him remember how Jerry enjoyed traveling, was an avid sports fan, was active in at the Interact Senior Center in Philadelphia and was on the Board of Directors at the Paulo Duro Senior Center in New Mexico.
He went to Maryland in 1997 and was a member of St. John the Evangelist Catholic Church in Frederick, Maryland.
I’ve been told that Jerry was very generous. If he knew someone in need, he would show up with bags of groceries to be of assistance.
His Niles, Ohio background and being from a large family influenced so much of what Jerry did. He was proud of his Italian heritage.
He was also known to devote many hours helping at his wife’s family grocery store in Campbell, Ohio.
The fact that Jerry had so many experiences and reached out to others in such remarkable ways led us to choose the Scripture readings that were proclaimed a few moments ago.
The Book of Ecclesiastes reminds us that there is a time for everything, and that that Jerry’s time on earth was a precious gift to those who knew him.
St. Paul reminds us that none of us lives as his own master, and no one dies as his own master. For if we live, we live for the Lord and if we die, we die as His servants. In every experience, we belong to the Lord.
Our Gospel this morning reminds us that whatsoever we do to the least of people, we do unto the Lord.
Let these words inspire us as we commend Jerry to God’s care, for we trust that Jerry reached out to Jesus many times during his 89 years of living.
May the Lord welcome Jerry to a place of refreshment, light, and peace, and strengthen us in His service all our days.
Mary Koches 1915-2010
CAPE CORAL, Fla.-Mary L. Koches, 94, formerly of Niles, died Sunday, Sept. 19, 2010. She was born Oct. 24, 1915, in Niles, the daughter of Anthony and Jenny Perna Matash Sr. She was employed at Niles General Electric and Mahoning Glass for 24 years and was a member of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church in Niles. Survivors include a daughter, Mary Lou Shamrock of Cape Coral, Fla.; a sister, Sarah Zuzolo of Niles; two grandsons; and a great-granddaughter. Her husband, Stephen J. Koches; three brothers; and two sisters are deceased. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 11 a.m. Saturday at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church in Niles. There are no calling hours. Burial will be in Niles City Cemetery. Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home handled the arrangements.
Mary L Koches 1915-2010
Born: October 24, 1915
Died: September 19, 2010 Funeral: September 25, 2010
Gospel: Matthew 11:28-30
Homily:
We firmly believe that the Lord issues a very personal invitation to Mary. We heard the words in today’s Gospel. Jesus says: “Come to me and I will give you rest.”
We believe that He issues this very same invitation to everyone closest to Mary who have supported her during her final difficulties. I join the members of this parish in prayerfully supporting all of you.
It is so fitting that we gather here to bid goodbye to Mary.
She was baptized as Maria Lucia Mattacia at this parish in the previous church building on November 30, 1915 by Father Nicola Santoro.
When Mary was eight years old, she shared in the Eucharist for the very first time here in this church when Father Santoro celebrated a special Mass here on June 12, 1924. Mary’s faith was strengthened that very same day when the Right Reverend Biondi enabled Mary and her young classmates to celebrate the Sacrament of Confirmation.
On October 12, 1946, Mary exchanged wedding vows in the presence of Father Oresete Cerbara here in this church before family members and friends. They went on to enjoy life at a number of residences here in Niles, including on Grant Street, Warren Avenue, and Wade Avenue. Mary and Stephen shared nearly forty years of marriage before God called Stephen home on September 10, just over two dozen years ago.
Mary often helped cut vegetables during our parish festivals during happier and healthier times. Mary truly looked forward to the festival each year. There were times she walked here all the way from her Wade Avenue home and stayed the entire day and into the evening to help in the sausage booth. This parish was where she was able to spend quality time with her friends.
Mary’s faith had a great influence in her life. Those who knew her described Mary as devout, prayerful, and helpful to the sick.
Our community was blessed by Mary’s work years ago at the Niles General Electric assembly line and at Mahoning Glass. She enjoyed walking, knitting, and crocheting.
Her family members pray for the grace to remember happier and healthier times. Certainly, her grandchildren were very aware of their grandmother’s love, and her great-grandchild will learn many stories about Mary’s love in years to come.
We’ve heard the voice of Jesus say, “Come unto me and rest.” We pray that the Lord may welcome Mary to a place of light, refreshment, and peace.
May God in His goodness continue to enable the legacy of Mary’s love influence our lives in many positive ways each and every time we think of her and remember her in prayer.
Mark E. Helmick, 46, formerly of Niles, died in Ithaca, New York on Thursday September 16, 2010. He was born July 28, 1964 in Warren the son of Bernard “Gene” and Jennie Nardo Helmick. Mark was a 1982 graduate of Niles McKinley High School and was most recently employed for The Bayer Corporation in Lebanon, Pennsylvania. He was a member of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church in Niles, Alcoholics Anonymous, and a physical trainer at New York Fitness in Lebanon, Pennsylvania. He was an avid Ohio State Buckeye and Duke Blue Devil fan, a United States Marine Corps veteran having served for over two years in Okinawa, Japan and was an embassy guard in The Philippines. Mark will be deeply missed by his parents of Niles, a brother Kevin T. Helmick and his wife Regina of Niles, a sister Gina Price and her husband Ron of Girard, his maternal grandmother Mary Nardo of Niles, his niece and nephews, Makenzie and Matthew Price and Kasen Helmick. He is preceded in death by his maternal grandfather, Anthony Nardo and his paternal grandparents Edward Helmick and Virginia Ritenour. Friends may call Thursday from 10AM to 1:00PM at The Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles. Mass of Christian Burial will be held 1:30PM Thursday at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church in Niles, with Fr. Larry Frient officiating, preceded by a 1PM prayer service at the funeral home. Burial will be in Pineview Cemetery. Friends and family may view this obituary and send condolences at www.josephrossifuneralhome.com.
Mark Edward Helmick
Born: July 28, 1964 Died: September 16, 2010 Funeral: September 23, 2010
Gospel: John 14:1-6
Homily:
We know this is a time when many words are spoken but none of us is able to find the right words to say. Words like “I’m sorry”, “We love you”, and “We are there for you” are very sincere words spoken by so many people to Mark’s family and no words could begin to express how Gene, Jennie, Kevin, Regina, Gina, Ron, Mary, Makenzie, Matthew, and in his own way little Kasen appreciate these expressions of love and support.
This afternoon, in the name of God’s Family the Church I extend words of condolences and assurance of prayers. All of us know that no words can explain away the many mysteries of life, but words of prayer, support, and understanding are more valuable than anything in the world.
We heard the Word of God expressed a few moments ago reminding us that Jesus is the Way, the Truth, and the Life.
Jesus is the Way. And the Lord certainly wanted to be a big part of the Way in Mark’s journey as Father Carlo Della Vecchia welcomed Mark Edward Helmick into God’s Family, baptizing him in this church on September 6, 1964.
As Mark’s journey continued, Jesus entered Mark’s heart in a special way when he shared the Eucharist for the very first time here on April 30, 1972. Those of you who knew Mark’s goodness of heart and friendly nature are sure that the Lord worked through Mark in a number of ways.
Mark strengthened his faith in celebrating the Sacrament of Confirmation here on the 24th day of February in 1978. We can be sure that even though influences beyond Mark’s control often troubled his life, the Holy Spirit prompted him to try to convince young people not to get onto a path that would result in severe troubles.
And now, we take this final step of the journey by expressing to the Lord our love and our care for Mark as we gather for this Mass of Christian Burial.
We trust that Jesus guides Mark’s way to everlasting peace.
Jesus is the Truth. Throughout the Lord’s life, Jesus attracted people like a magnet. They were drawn to His teaching, His ability to bring healing, His wonderful forgiveness and expressions of love. I’ve been told that despite Mark’s troubles, he too was like a magnet. He made friends quickly.
Mark worked hard even though there were problems associated with staying on one job for a long time due to the struggles that plagued him.
Mark had a distinctive laugh and really enjoyed spending time with others cheering for the Ohio State Buckeyes and Duke Blue Devils.
Children who knew Uncle Mark really wanted to see him again. Mark accomplished the goal of being a physical trainer, and he served his country in the United States Marine Corps.
We trust in the Truth that God’s love for Mark never came to an end, and it never will. God’s love for us is closer to us than we are to our very selves during this time of need, and always.
Jesus is the Life. When Mark was in grade school, there were times he struggled with confidence issues. One of the dear sisters who taught him asked his mother Jennie to help Mark deal with this. Jennie took Mark in front of a mirror and wanted Mark to repeat the many good qualities he had while looking at his own image in the mirror right there in front of him. Mark had a tough time doing this. The truth is, the very life of God dwells in each and every one of His children. It dwelled in Mark even if he could not recognize during his troubled times that he was made in the image and likeness of God. Our Lord Jesus Christ gave His very life to make possible everlasting life with God. Because we believe that those who have gone before us still love us and join their prayers to ours, dearly departed people like Mark’s grandfathers Anthony Nardo and Edward Helmick and his grandmother Virginia Riteour are there on the other side, welcoming Mark and encouraging him to accept the love of a God who forgives, makes whole, gives peace, and holds forever close to His heart.
We trust in Jesus who give life even as our words cannot possibly express what is in our minds and in our hearts.
We trust in Jesus because He is the Way, the Truth, and the Life especially when our ways seem to lead to ends we had not hoped for, when our world is shattered by the obscuring of truth brought about by dependencies no one would ever ask for, and when our lives are disrupted by the loss of one we did everything we could do to help.
Remember that Mark laughed, demonstrated love, and met some admirable measures of success. Remember that there is a Lord who is Master of Mark’s life and Master of our lives who can set Mark free from the chains that bound him.
Look upon the candle that represents the Light of Christ shining through dark times. Jesus was the Light of the World when Mark was baptized here in this church. Jesus continues to call Mark out of whatever darkness that troubled him and Christ wants perpetual light to shine on Mark forever.
May the love of Christ, which surpasses all understanding, keep us focused on this light all our days; may the Lord Himself warm our hearts in a goodness that keeps Mark and all of us rooted in the goodness of the God whose love lasts forever.
Concetta Maria Nicastro, 89, of Niles, passed away with her loving family at her side at 9:18AM September 18 2010 at her residence. She was born March 31, 1921 in Bagnoli Irpino, Italy the daughter of Aniello and Marianna Basile Russo. She was a member of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church in Niles and the Immaculate Conception Society. Her husband Aniello Nicasto whom she married July 4, 1943 died September 14, 1999. She will be deeply missed by two sons Tommaso Nicastro and his wife Kathy of St. Petersburg, Florida, and Anthony Nicastro and his wife Caterina of Niles, a daughter Tina Faith and her husband Richard of Niles, two brothers, Antonio Russo and Domenico Russo both of Pisa, Italy, a sister Annina Nicastro of Pisa, Italy, and six grandchildren. She is preceded in death by two sisters, Antionette Vivolo and Nuccia Gatta. Friends may call Tuesday from 5 to 8PM at the Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles where The Immaculate Conception Society will conduct prayers at 4:45PM and The Mt. Carmel Bereavement Ministry will conduct prayers at 7:30PM. Mass of Christian Burial will be held 9:30AM Wednesday at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church in Niles, with Fr. Larry Frient officiating, preceded by a 9:00AM prayer service at the funeral home. Burial will be in Niles City Cemetery. Friends and family can view this obituary and send condolences at www.josephrossifuneralhome.com.
Concetta Maria Nicastro
Born: March 31, 1921 Died: September 18, 2010 Funeral: September 22, 2010
Gospel: Luke 8:4-8
Homily:
Everyone here at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church extends condolences to Concetta’s family. How often she joined us in prayer ever since coming to this country in 1962 to provide a better life for her family. Knowing her great love for us, we can be sure that she prays for us even now and that her love will never end.
Not long before Concetta died, she was so concerned about the tomatoes and beans in her garden and the grapes that would soon be delivered for making wine. You know how important her garden was to her. You remember how she was so concerned about planting the garden every spring, and harvesting what it yielded ever summer and autumn.
Her admiration for the seasons led me to choose the Gospel story we just heard. It is known as the Parable of the Sower. Jesus taught how a farmer scattered seed. We were told how the seed that he sowed yielded various results.
Some of it fell on the path and was trampled, and the birds of the sky ate it up.
Some seed fell on rocky ground and withered because it did not have enough moisture.
Some of it fell among thorns and the roots of the thorny plants choked the good seed.
Finally, some seed fell on good soil and yielded a bountiful harvest.
If we think about Concetta’s eighty-nine years of living, we find that she sowed many seeds of goodness in the lives of those who knew her.
Concetta insisted that children obey those having authority over them. She voiced this lesson even to those who were not her own children.
Concetta sowed the seeds of hard work, canning so much food and keeping a clean house year after year.
We are inspired by how she even helped build a deck when she was in her early seventies, personally pounding nail after nail. Anyone who tried to stop her was simply told to get out of her way.
Concetta sowed the seeds of opportunity for her family by coming to this country in July of 1962. On this day we are joined in spirit by relatives in Italy who could not travel here but pray along with us nevertheless.
She enjoyed her membership in the Immaculate Conception Society. The members of this fine organization pay special tribute to her on this occasion. It was in her encounters with this group that seeds of appreciation for her heritage from Bagnoli, Irpino were continually nourished.
It is so very clear that Concetta sowed the seeds of love in her family as so many of you kept vigil with her during her final difficulties, and we believe that her passing has sowed the seeds of everlasting life.
Our faith in God sows seeds of belief that her suffering has ended and Concetta is at peace. Her affection for her departed husband Aniello yielded a beautiful harvest even as she breathed her last, for she died on the eleventh anniversary of his burial, on Saturday, September 18th (that’s 9-18) at 9:18 AM. Reflecting on this sows seeds of awareness within our hearts that love really does last forever and that in some mysterious way, for people of faith, the bonds of love are not broken even by the reality of death.
May the many ways Concetta sowed seeds of faith, hope, and love in our lives continue to grow for the rest of our lives. You remember how she loved flowers. May these seeds of goodness she sowed among us enable our lives to be every bit as beautiful as the flowers she so admired. And may this goodness enable us to sow seeds of faith, hope, and love in the lives of all we encounter all our days.
Rose I. Davis 88, formerly of Pleasant Avenue, died at 1:34 p.m. Monday, Sept. 13, 2010, at Forum Health Trumbull Memorial Hospital in Warren. Rose was born Sept. 11, 1922, in Girard, the daughter of Pete and Catherine Senchisak Katchmer, spending her lifetime here. She had attended Holy Trinity Orthodox Church, and had been employed by the Niles Steel Products Corp. and the former Trim Edge Corp. of Youngstown. A former member of the MMBA, she enjoyed walking, shopping, crossword puzzles, was a cancer survivor, and was proud to have four brothers who served in World War II and who all came back home to their family. She genuinely loved her dog Penny. Survivors include her son, Edward L., with whom she made her home; two stepsons, Walter (Karole) Davis of Rocky Hill, N.C., and Harold (Joyce) Davis of Austintown; a sister, Mary Pavlich of Niles; two brothers, Nick (Barbara) Katchmer and John (Grace) Katchmer, all of Girard; five grandchildren; several great-grandchildren; and nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death on Dec. 3, 1967, by her husband, Edward L., whom she married Feb. 3, 1951; two sisters, Ann Round and Ann, who died in infancy; two brothers, Michael and Stephen Katchmer; and a grandson, Harold Davis Jr. A funeral service will be held at 10:30 a.m. Friday at the Robert P. McDermott Memorial Home with Father Larry Frient officiating. Friends may call from 5 to 8 p.m. Thursday at the funeral home. Burial will be in Niles City Cemetery. Arrangements and care have been entrusted to the Robert P. McDermott Memorial Home.
Rose Davis
Born: September 11, 1922 Died: September 13, 2010 Funeral: September 17, 2010
Gospel: Wisdom 3:1-9 Psalm 23 Revelation 14:13 John 14:1-6
Homily:
I extend my condolences and the prayerful support of the people of Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church to all of you who were closest to Rose.
As you think about her eighty-eight years of living, you give thanks for the many ways Rose touched many lives. You also give thanks for the many ways God blessed Rose.
Thinking back through the years, you recall how she was able to persevere through the years four brothers served in World War II and how grateful she was when they returned safely to this country.
We give thanks for how Rose was able to withstand the challenges of cancer. She was able to enjoy walking, shopping, and doing crossword puzzles. Rose really loved her dog Penny, polka music, and the talents of Yanni.
We gather this morning believing that the words of the Scriptures bring us consolation in ways that nothing else can.
The Book of Wisdom assures us that the souls of the just are in the hand of God and that no more torment shall touch them. The Gospel of John reminds us that Jesus has gone to prepare a place for people of faith. We pray that the Lord comforts Rose and welcomes her to be with her husband, sisters, brothers, grandson Harold Davis Jr., and all who have completed life’s journey before her.
The Book of Revelation tells us: Blessed are they who die in the Lord. Their good works accompany them. May the Lord in His mercy remember every good deed Rose did during her eighty-eight years of life, and inspire us to be people who are filled with faith, hope, and love all our days.
One of the most beautiful passages in the entire Bible is the twenty-third Psalm. We heard it just a few moments ago. We proclaimed it with the belief that God guides our journeys and leads us where we must go. May He guide Rose through the shadow of death to a place of refreshment, light, and peace.
Rita Anne Nardo Dew
56, of Niles died at 9:19PM Wednesday, August 18, 2010, at St. Joseph Health Center Eastland in Warren, Ohio. She was born October 3 1953 in Warren the daughter of Joseph and Jennie Gumino Nardo. She was a 1971 graduate of Niles McKinley High School and a homemaker. Her husband Hartzell Dew whom she married in 1993 died in 2007. She will be deeply missed by three sisters, Antoinette Nardo with whom she made her home, Patricia Parks of Niles, Mary Gimmarco of Champion, and several nieces and nephews. Memorial Services will be held 10:30AM Friday August 27, 2010, at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church in Niles, with Fr. Larry Frient officiating. Family and friends may view this obituary and send condolences at www.josephrossifuneralhome.com.Rita Anne Nardo Dew
Born: October 3, 1953 Died: August 18, 2010 Memorial Mass: August 27, 2010
Readings: Wisdom 3:1-9 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 and 13 John 14:1-6
Homily:
How strongly we depend on the Word of God to bring us consolation, comfort, and guidance during this time of need.
As we ponder the solace offered to us by God, we realize that many good people belonging to this parish as well as the caring thoughts and prayers of others reach out to Rita’s family. Be assured that you are lifted up to the Lord.
God’s Word reminds us of the indescribable care our God has for Rita and for all of us.
Some of you remember when Rita was younger. You recall how she was full of life, fun, and laughter! Our hearts are saddened that Rita’s life took some sad and tragic turns along the way. Our sadness leads us to realize how much we depend on the God in whom we put our faith. We trust in the God who is able to make all things new.
We gather in a spirit of gratitude to God for giving us His Word to enlighten our way.
The ancient Book of Wisdom reminds us that the souls of the just are in the hand of God and no more torment shall touch them. We believe that the same Jesus Christ who gave His life for you and me gave His life for Rita. He makes it possible for her to dart about like sparks through stubble and enables her soul to shine forever. We trust in His ability to alleviate Rita’s suffering and make all things new for her.
Saint Paul reminds us that three gifts last forever. There is no end to faith, hope, and love. And there is no greater gift than love.
Our faith gets us through difficult times. We will bring it with us when our lives end, telling the Lord how much we believe in His goodness.
Our hope lives us confidence that the trials and tribulations of this world do not have the last word. Our hope gives us something to which we look forward, and that something is everlasting life with our God and with all people of faith who have completed life’s journey before us.
Our love is caught up in the love of God. It was love that led Jesus to tell His closest friends that He would prepare a place for them. It was love that led Jesus to assure His friends that He is the Way in a world that often loses direction, He is the Truth in a world too often filled with deceit and falsehood, and he is the Life in a world that often pursues goals that can only lead to temporary gain.
It is good that we have gathered today, commending Rita to the everlasting care of the Lord, and lifting each other in prayer with the belief that sharing our grief somehow causes our grief to have less power over us.
May the Lord bring us consolation, and guide us along the path of goodness, and lead us to God’s love in everything.
Ruth I. Clemente, 76, of Niles went to be with the Lord with her family at her side at 11:58AM August 16, 2010 at Forum Health Trumbull Memorial Hospital in Warren. She was born April 4, 1934 in Elkins, West Virginia the daughter of Paul and Stella Mae Herron Canfield. She was a 1952 graduate of Elkins High School, attended Youngstown State University and Warren Business College. Ruth was employed as a secretary for the building and zoning inspector’s office, recorder for the building, zoning, and planning board, and retired in 1997 from the light department office in Niles. She was a member of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church in Niles, church Eucharistic Minister, and served as chairperson and coordinator for The Miss Niles Pageant for six years. She also served in Trumbull Memorial Hospital Pastoral Care, a member of Cursillo, and enjoyed walking, aerobics, and spending time with her family and friends. She was blessed to have many wonderful and caring friends. Ruth was the first person to help people in need and always there for others and will be deeply missed by her husband Albert E. Clemente whom she married September 24, 1960, a son Edward A. Clemente, at home, a daughter Diana Moss and her husband Dave of Niles, a brother Raymond P. Canfield of Elkins, West Virginia, three grandchildren, Ryan, Stefanie, and Michael Cvengros, four great-grandchildren, Aiden, Dominik, Gianna, and Nikolas, and her faithful companion her dog Harley "D". She is preceded in death by her step-father Willard D. Phillips and step-mother Bertha Canfield. Friends may call from 5 to 8 PM Thursday at The Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles where the Mt. Carmel Bereavement Ministry will conduct prayers at 7:30 PM. Mass of Christian Burial will be held 9:30 AM Friday at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church in Niles, with Fr. Larry Frient officiating, preceded by a 9AM prayer service at the funeral home. Burial will be in Niles City Cemetery. The family would like to thank the nurses from Trumbull Memorial Hospital Intensive Care for their excellent care and kindness. Family and friends may view this obituary and send condolences at www.josephrossifuneralhome.com
Ruth I. Clemente
Born: April 4, 1934 Died: August 16, 2010 Funeral: August 20, 2010
Gospel: John 11:17-24 (Jesus is the Resurrection and the Life.)
Homily:
Jesus told us that he is the Resurrection and the Life. How often Ruth’s life gave witness to the wonderful reality of the love of the Lord!
On behalf of everyone belonging to this parish, I extend condolences to Al, Ed, Diana and everyone closest to her. I know that her family meant so very much to Ruth and she meant and always will mean so very much to you. Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Ruth’s love for the Lord was expressed in so many ways. She gave many people a wonderful example to follow. She served her parish as a Eucharistic Minister and brought the love of the Lord to others by her service with the Trumbull Memorial Hospital Pastoral Care Department. Many people have fond memories of Ruth’s experience with the parish Renew Team years ago. She prayed diligently. Ruth read and studied the Bible ever so faithfully, making special time each day when she would not be interrupted so that she could draw closer to the Lord.
How important it was for Albert and Ruth to celebrate their fiftieth wedding anniversary when they went to St. Columba Cathedral several months ago. I know that she remarked about this several times when she and I conversed during her stays in the hospital.
Ruth was loved by her family and friends. She also was admired and followed so closely by her four-legged friends, the dogs named Harley “D” and Echo. I know they missed her when I came to the house the day after she died to plan Ruth’s funeral.
Certainly, celebration was a very important ingredient in Ruth’s life. How she enjoyed celebrating birthdays at restaurants and also at the homes of her friends. This Jesus who spoke to us in the Gospel, telling us that He is the Resurrection and the Life, is able to do something right now that we only wish we could do. The Lord is able to welcome Ruth to a celebration that lasts FOREVER. Yes, Christ can feed her at the eternal banquet in the Kingdom of God. We can be sure that Ruth prays for us as we gather to share this Sacred Meal known as the Eucharist, a foretaste of the heavenly meal we all hope to share in the fullness of time.
You remember Ruth in such a heartwarming way. So often, Ruth was the very first person who would come to the assistance of those in need. Ruth was especially helpful to people who experienced the death of a loved one. Her life reminds us that we depend so heavily on one another to help us persevere through our grief. Our faith tells us that Ruth prays for us and with us even now, and that her prayers for us will continue as long as we shall live.
Let us be strengthened by the promises the Lord gave to us.
He promised to lead us through the darkness of the shadow of death to valleys of green where paradise awaits those who put faith in Him.
He promised to be our Resurrection and our Life. When death brings a conclusion to our mortal lives as it did for Ruth shortly before Noon on Monday, Christ promises to fill us with new life that no one can take from us.
Jesus promises to bring rest, consolation, and peace.
The Lord says to Ruth: “I love you. You are mine.” And this same Lord who cried when His friend Lazarus died keeps His promise to strengthen all of us who are left behind.
May God raise Ruth to the fullness of life just as He promised, and assure us that we never face our sorrows alone.
Donna M. Ciletti-Infante, 70, of Niles, passed away on Sunday, August 15, 2010 following a lengthy illness. Born on May 11,1940 in Cleveland, Ohio, Donna was the daughter of Alan Geisman and Gail Woodruff Pinter and was raised as a child in Mantua. Donna was a secretary in Cleveland when she met and married Thomas Ciletti Jr. on July 11,1959. She worked as a school librarian at Our Lady of Mt Carmel School and later was co-owner of McQuaid's Distributing and Marketing with her former husband, Louis McQuaid. Even after retirement, she remained active working in her son, Michael Ciletti MD's, medical practice. She is survived by her three children, Maria Ciletti and her partner, Rose Marsco, of Niles; Dr. Michael Ciletti and his wife, Annette, of Howland; and Traci Buttar and her husband, David, of Niles. She will be forever missed by her grandchildren, Kayla and Sara Ciletti and Jacob and Katherine Buttar. Donna is also survived by her current husband, John Infante, whom she married in November 1991, and his daughters, Joni Razzano and her children, Christina and Joseph Razzano of Columbus; and Janice Elaine Brancaccio, her husband, Vince, of Howland and their children, Nicholas and Luke Brancaccio. Donna also leaves behind two brothers, Richard Pinter of Columbus and Frank Pinter of New Oxford, Pennsylvania. She will be lovingly remembered by her sisters-in-law, Lucille Redmond of Niles and Patty DiEugenio of Tempe, Arizona and brother-in-law, Ralph Ciletti of Niles as well as several nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her parents and first husband, Thomas Ciletti Jr., as well as sisters-in-law, Jane Ciletti, Elvira Ciletti and Mary Krueger. Donna was a past member of The Catholic Women's Guild at Our Lady of Mt Carmel Church and enjoyed traveling. The family wishes to extend their sincere gratitude for the excellent care given to Donna by the staff of The Liberty Health Care Center and St. Mary's Alzheimer's Center as well as for the care and compassion of care giver, Terri Hillier. Family and friends may visit from 5 to 8PM on Tuesday, August 17 at Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles where the Mt. Carmel Bereavement Ministry will conduct prayers at 7:30PM. Mass of Christian Burial will be held 9:30AM Wednesday, August 18 at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church in Niles, with Fr. Larry Frient officiating, preceded by a 8:45AM prayer
Donna Ciletti – Infante
Born: May 11, 1940 Died: August 15, 2010 Funeral: August 18, 2010
Gospel: John 15: 9-13
Homily:
All of you who knew Donna as such a caring maternal presence in your life have been pondering deep truths associated with her life and her passing. Many of these truths are brought out so well in the book entitled Take Your Oxygen First. The author Leeza Gibbons describes how sturdy is a mother’s love. Truly, a mother’s love comforts, soothes, corrects, and scolds. It can guide you and let go with just one look, even in the face of enormous heartache and terrifying fears.
All of us tend to go through life with the irrational belief that mothers will last forever, as Leeza Gibbons described so eloquently. But all of you closest to Donna faced the truth that in some ways, due to the disease she faced, she was gone before she was gone these past few years.
Today we reflect on Donna’s love in the context of the message Jesus spoke to those closest to Him the night before He died. You heard the words of the Gospel. Jesus told His friends to remain in His love.
Certainly, a mother’s love is very much like the love of the Lord. As Leeza Gibbons tells us: “It lasts beyond the expiration of the earthly vessel that kissed boo boos and tucked us in at night. A mother’s love is deposited in the hearts of those she loved and there it grows and lives forever.”
You ponder the example of living Donna gave you and how it compared to the journey of love Jesus took. Like the Lord, Donna was strong. Like our Savior, she overcame obstacles. She endured the death of both of her parents when she was young. Donna knew the value of hard work as a child at the grocery store and bar in Mantua, then in her adult years in the library at Our Lady of Mount Carmel School, then with the insurance company downtown and McQuaid’s Distributing and Marketing. Donna remained active following her retirement, working in her son Dr. Ciletti’s medical practice.
As Jesus knew the sadness associated with the death of His close friend Lazarus, Donna knew the sadness of her first husband Thomas Ciletti’s death, as well as the grief associated with the passing of her sisters-in-law Jane, Elvira, and Mary plus the passing of many other relatives and friends.
You will always remember how Donna encouraged you to work hard, how she told you in her unique way to “just do it” as she lived the example of plowing through difficulties.
Her great generosity and her sarcastic sense of humor will remain with you always, as will your memories of her travels to Las Vegas, Atlantic City, and other places.
Donna’s love for her husband, children, grandchildren, her in-laws, her step-children, step-grandchildren, brothers, nieces, nephews, members of the extended family, and friends will always be cherished.
“Live on in my love.” Such was the message of Jesus. As people of faith, we are confident that Christ wants Donna’s joy to be full and she wants our joy to be full.
Remember her as loving you. Remember her as sharing the very love of the Lord that grows and lives within you forever. Then God will raise Donna up to a place of light, refreshment, and peace as an eagle is lifted high above the land by the breezes sent from on high. Then, as Leeza Gibbons tells us, Grandma’s love will be “sturdy enough to prop us up and remind us of the courage she taught us.”
Yes, Donna’s love will be “sturdy enough to create a veil of peace until we find serenity on our own.”
Mary Arlene Liste, 70 of Girard passed away peacefully at her residence with her family at her side at 12:25AM Saturday, August 7, 2010 after fighting a very long and courageous 18 year battle with cancer. She was born September 6, 1939 in Warren the daughter of Rosario "Russ" and Lena Belcastro Merlo. She was a 1957 graduate of Niles McKinley High School and a 1960 graduate of East Liverpool City Hospital School of Nursing. Mary was employed as a staff nurse on the medical surgical floor at St. Joseph 's Riverside Hospital for 12 years and was director of Nursing at Glenview Manor Nursing home for 6 years before retiring in 1978. She was a member of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church in Niles, The McKinley Memorial Friends of The Library, The Trumbull County Republican Party, and The Air Force 40'th Bomb Wing Association. She was also past president of The Washington School PTA, active in the Niles Bicentennial Celebration where she and her husband presented programs on the history of the flags that touched American Soil, and a volunteer at Autumn Hill Nursing Home. She enjoyed shopping, crafts, interior and exterior home decorating, traveling, and spending time with her family. Mary, who never gave up and thought family was the most important aspect of her life, will be deeply missed by her husband Patrick M. Liste whom she married June 29, 1963, two daughters, Arlena M. Rich of Howland, and Jolene Booher (Steven Beckman) of Niles, a brother Joseph R. Merlo and his wife Virginia "Ginny" of Niles, a sister Cecelia Merlo and her companion Jackie Haynie of Niles, and her beloved cat Lexi. She is preceded in death by her parents. Friends may call from 4 to 7PM Monday at The Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles where the Mt. Carmel Bereavement Ministry will conduct prayers at 6:30PM. Mass of Christian Burial will be held 9:30AM Tuesday at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church, with Father Larry Frient officiating, preceded by a 9AM prayer service at the funeral home. Burial will be in Pineview Cemetery . Memorial Contributions can be made to Hospice of The Valley, 5190 Market Street , Youngstown , Ohio 44512. Family and friends may view this obituary and send condolences at www.josephrossifuneralhome.com.
Mary Arlene Liste
Born: Sept. 6, 1939 Died: August 7, 2010 Funeral: August 10, 2010
Gospel: John 15:9-11
Homily:
How often during healthier and happier times Mary Arlene joined us in prayer here in this church! How she loved to worship here!
Today we join with each other in prayer during a time of sadness, needing the consolation of our loving God. We pray that our deepest selves might discern that this is also a time of hope. We trust in the Lord’s promise that people of faith like Mary Arlene are freed from their sufferings and will rise again following the trials and tribulations they faced.
We gather as a church family knowing that for Mary Arlene, family was such an important part of life. We give thanks for the many ways she showered love upon her husband, daughters, siblings, members of the extended family, and so many people who encountered her. You remember how she constantly encouraged those close to her and truly believed that how you took on the challenges you faced would eventually lead to success. Those closest to Mary Arlene say that her strong faith and love for the Lord enabled her to approach life this way, and it is our fervent prayer that all of us might be filled with this same love and faith.
You remember how Mary Arlene admired beauty. She enjoyed beautiful clothes, beautiful jewelry, and always looked beautiful even in the midst of some difficult illnesses. As we prepare to commend her to the everlasting care of the Lord, we know that our God welcomes a beautiful soul whose inspiration will continue to touch our lives.
Those closest to Mary Arlene know that she strongly believed in angels. In our prayer, we ask the angels to lead her into paradise. The one thing that kept her from making this journey earlier, we all believe, is the truth that she didn’t want to leave those closest to her. And as difficult as it is for us to let her go, we know that love can never abandon us. We trust in the love of those who have gone before us.
As we ponder Mary Arlene’s journey from this life to the next, we ponder the beautiful smile she carried through her life. It was radiant! We ask that Mary Arlene might be greeted by the smiles of the saints as they behold the indescribable beauty of the face of God Himself. Now that her sufferings have been alleviated forever, we are filled with the hope that Mary Arlene’s smile is able to radiate in such a way that it even makes paradise a brighter place. We certainly trust that the radiance of her love will continue to emanate from her place with the Lord and encourage us as we continue our journeys.
Jesus gave such a wonderful gift to His disciples the night before He died. We heard it expressed in the words of the Gospel chosen for this Mass: “Remain in my love… I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and your joy may be complete.”
Our faith assures us that the Lord wants Mary Arlene’s joy to be complete. Her final days and nights were surrounded by the love of family members and friends, as well as the love expressed by the Church in the Sacraments as we prayed together.
Our prayers continue now. May the prayers of Saint Maria del Tindaro, to whom Mary Arlene was very devoted, and the prayers of all who have gone before us, fill us with faith, hope, and love as we strive to remain in the love of God and walk this journey of faith.
Lawrence R. Prezioso, 1955-2010 Lawrence R. Prezioso, 54,of Warren passed away at 4:53PM Tuesday, July 20, 2010, at St. Elizabeth Health Center in Youngstown, Ohio after battling complications from a stroke for 7 months. He was born November 27, 1955 in Warren the son of Irene Dillon Prezioso and the late Joseph Prezioso He was a 1974 graduate of John F. Kennedy High School, attended Youngstown State University and employed in sales and as a manager for Sherwin Williams for 29 years. Lawrence, who was a loving husband and father,enjoyed bowling, reading, and was an avid sports fan especially of the Ohio State Buckeyes, Cleveland Browns, Cavs, and Indians. He will be deeply missed by his wife Debbie Prezioso (Langel) whom he married May 19, 1984, a son Joseph Prezioso and daughter Gina Prezioso both at home, two brothers, Joseph Prezioso of Boston, Massachusetts, and Richard (Amie) Prezioso of Niles, five sisters, Mary Lou (Ronald) Savon of Boardman, Cathy Prezioso of Niles, Susan(David) Negro of Niles, Maureen(Frank) Ridel of Canfield, Diane(Brian) Price of Boardman, and several nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his father Joseph Prezioso, a brother Michael Prezioso, and a sister Nancy Prezioso Babich. Friends may call 5 to 8 PM Friday at The Jospeh Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles where The Mt. Carmel Bereavement Ministry will conduct prayers at 7:30 PM. Mass of Christian Burial will be held 9:30AM Saturday at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church in Niles, with Fr. Larry Frient officiating, preceded by a 9 AM prayer service at the funeral home. Burial will be in Niles City Cemetery. Condolences can be e-mailed at www.josephrossifuneralhome.com.
Lawrence Robert Prezioso
Born: November 27, 1955 Died: July 20, 2010 Funeral: July 24, 2010
Gospel: John 14:1-6
Homily:
On behalf of everyone at this parish, I extend my condolences to everyone closest to Larry. We know this is a difficult time for you. We assure you of our prayerful support.
This is a time when all of us find it difficult to express our thoughts in words.
Words tell us so many things about Larry. He loved sports. Larry was an avid fan of the Ohio State Buckeyes, Cleveland Browns, Cleveland Indians, and Cleveland Cavaliers. He really enjoyed spending quality time with his family. You have your memories of these times.
Words call to mind how he enjoyed bowling, playing cards, collecting coins, reading, and how Larry was employed in sales and as a manager for Sherwin-Williams for twenty-nine years.
You will always picture how very laid back he was. You were inspired by how he worked hard, was dependable, dedicated, and punctual. There were times when Larry had every right to complain but complaining was not his nature.
In all these things, we find that human words help us cherish good memories, but human words alone do not give us everything we need.
This is certainly a time when we rely on God’s Word to sustain us, console us, and strengthen us.
When I met with several members of Larry’s family the day after he died, we listened to some beautiful words from the Gospel of John. These were the words that were proclaimed just a few moments ago. Jesus assured His closest friends that He would go to prepare a place for them. He also assured them that he is the Way, the Truth, and the Life.
As time goes on, it will be our prayer that these words might lift us up.
Yes, Jesus has gone to prepare a place for Larry. Our prayers are with Larry so that Larry might accept the loving invitation to be with God forever.
As you miss Larry in so many ways in your home, you can trust that the Lord gives Larry an opportunity to be at home with Him forever.
Jesus is the Way, the Truth, and the Life in a world that is filled with too many ways that are misleading, too many half-truths and deceptions, too many things that try to steer us away from the fullness of life Jesus wants to share with us.
Larry’s passing reminds us of our need for the consolation and strength the Lord offers to us.
It is also a time when we ponder our own fragile nature, our own reliance on God, and our own need to prayerfully discern what matters most of all. It is a time to know that Jesus gently and firmly calls us to draw closer to Him. He will ask us in the future to lovingly respond how we will share our time, our talents, and the gifts He gives us for the good of the Church; yes, the Word of God reminds us that just as others reach out to us in our time of need, so are we called to reach out to others after the Lord helps us heal from the wounds and fatigue Larry’s illness and death have afflicted upon us. It is so very true that grief diminishes when we share our love with one another.
May the Word of God dwell in our hearts, and remind us of the saving love of Jesus Christ.
May the Lord raise Larry on high to His everlasting care, and fill us with goodness and love as we support each other today and always.
Ida M Marino, 1928-2010
Ida M. Marino, 81, of Niles passed away peacefully into God's Hands on July 17, 2010. She was born November 29, 1928 in New Castle, Pennsylvania the daughter of Frank and Pasqualina Russo Fire. She was a 1946 graduate of New Castle High School, a homemaker, and a member of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church in Niles. She enjoyed reading, boating, spending time with family, socializing with friends, going out dancing on Saturday night with her husband, and attending house parties. Her husband John A. Marino Jr. whom she married September 10, 1949 died October 15, 2000. Ida, who was very family oriented, will be deeply missed by a son John A. Marino III and his wife Marilyn of Liberty, a daughter Rosemary Horvath and her husband Thomas of Niles, a brother Edward Fire and his wife Margie of Chagrin Falls, Ohio, a sister Jeanette Farley of Warren, four grandchildren, Gretchen Finley and her husband Michael, Holly Antos and her husband Patrick, Bethany DelliBovi and her husband Daniel, and Nathan Marino, and three great-grandchildren, Perry, Hannah, and Massimo. She is preceded in death by a brother, Charles Fire, and three sisters, Anna Fire, Rosemarie Whalen, and Margaret Fire. Friends may call from 5 to 8 PM Wednesday at The Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles where the Mt. Carmel Bereavement Ministry will conduct prayers at 7:30 M. Mass of Christian Burial will be held 9:30 AM Thursday at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church in Niles, with Fr. Larry Frient officiating, preceded by a 9 AM prayer service at the funeral home. Burial will be in Niles City Cemetery. Condolences can be e-mailed at www.josephrossifuneralhome.com.
Ida Marino
Born: November 30, 1928 Died: July 17, 2010 Funeral: July 22, 2010
Gospel: Matthew 11:28-30
Homily:
Jesus says, “Come to me!” Such is His invitation in the Gospel chosen for today.
As we come to the Lord this morning, we realize that the loving support of the parish family of Our Lady of Mount Carmel surrounds Ida’s family members and friends.
All of us know that she struggled for a long time and we assure you of our compassion and prayers.
As we ponder that invitation of Jesus to come to Him, we realize that Christ came to us many times and in many ways through Ida’s life.
Certainly Christ is present in the examples of the saints. Ida’s devotion to St. Anthony was constant. She prayed the rosary often even while undergoing dialysis and watched Mass on television because her deteriorating health kept her from coming here in person.
Ida touched the lives of her children by being such a devoted disciplinarian and diligent housekeeper.
I’ve been told that Ida was constantly keenly aware of the whereabouts of her children. She was demanding. She helped her children form a very clear sense of responsibility and taught them to make good choices.
Ida was such a diligent housekeeper that she insisted that her children remove their shoes before entering the house. Stories abound concerning how dogs would come and carry their shoes away. It was also difficult to reach Ida when she was cleaning as she would take the phone off the hook. It was not unusual for her to clean the house at 1:00 or 2:00 in the morning. This was all part of the picture of her unique nature.
Despite her illness, she maintained a good sense of humor that inspired those around her.
Your memories recall happier and healthier times. You are fond of thinking about how she and her husband John used to love to spend time with family members, socialize with friends, go out dancing on Saturday nights, and attend house parties. All of us pray for the grace to cherish these happy memories of years gone by.
Now that the Lord has called Ida home to His loving hands after her eighty-one years of living, we trust in His merciful love.
We trust that the Lord, who is able to relieve her suffering and give her everlasting rest, welcomes her to the joys of God’s Kingdom. There Ida can be joined with her husband John, her siblings who completed life’s journey before her, and all people of good will whose lives ended before hers.
Ida cherished fond memories of growing up near St. Lucy Parish in New Castle. She used to attend Mass there so very often.
Now Jesus invites her to spend eternity with Him. She can sing His praises forever, knowing that the devastation of death has no more power over her. Ida is joined to the resurrection of Jesus. This fills us all with hope. And we journey forward with confidence that she prays for us and prays with us the rest of our days.
JOHN A SOLTESZ, 1955-2010
John A. Niotti-Soltesz, 55 of Hubbard, passed away Saturday, July 10, 2010 at his residence.
-Born Giovanni Niotti on February 27, 1955, in Viterbo, Italy, the son of Joseph and Lucille Canterucci Soltesz. He was one of the first children to travel by plane at the age of 13 months, to the United States. He became a US citizen by the age of 4.
-As a child, John served as an altar boy for Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church. He was a 1973 graduate of Niles McKinley High School and a 1977 graduate of Denison University with a degree in Fine Arts and Business Administration.
-John served from 1977 to 1979, as Director of Franchise Services and US operations from Wendy’s International where he acted as strategic business consultant. From 1980 to 1984, he became partner in 3JR Corporation, a restaurant acquisition company that owned and controlled seven Wendy’s franchises. From 1985 to 1989, he became an independent consultant focusing primarily on restaurant acquisition and franchise development, licensing, and distribution. From 1988 to 1990, John was Director of Marketing for W.I. Industries, a manufacturer of security and anti-theft devices. In 1990, John founded Zerco Systems International, Inc., and has served as its Chief Executive Officer and Chairman of the Board and Treasurer since the inception of the company. For the last 20 years John has been an entrepreneur and developer in the field of advanced card technologies, biometrics, and information identity security solutions, serving domestic and international industries, along with the local tri-county area. In 2007, Mr. Soltesz founded Zerco Holdings LLC located in Youngstown, OH. Mr. Soltesz was a frequent contributor to industry articles and a regular speaker at domestic and international forums relating to identification and biometric technologies. He was also a member of the American Electronics Association, Youngstown Warren Regional Chamber of Commerce, and the Better Business Bureau of Mahoning Valley.
-He was a member of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church in Niles, Squaw Creek Country Club and other local neighboring clubs in the area. While attending Denison University, he was an active member of the Alpha Tau Omega Fraternity and part of a college musical group. While John was dedicated to his work, he also enjoyed his free time with family and friends and took pleasure in fishing, playing pool, reading and throwing ceramic pottery. Above all, he was an avid cigar lover and wine connoisseur and loved to sing Frank Sinatra, Andrea Petrelli, Elton John and spiritual songs, in addition to being a musician. John was dedicated to his work, dreamed the classic “American Dream” and focused on the success of his company.
-He will be deeply missed by his mother of Niles, a daughter, Kristie Soltesz of Warren, a son Ryan Soltesz of Austintown, a sister Mrs. Toni Grandon of Ronon, Montana, and a grandson Roman Anthony Soltesz. His father precedes him in death.
-Friends may call Monday from 5 to 8 PM at the Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles, where the Mt. Carmel Bereavement Ministry will conduct prayers at 7:30 PM. Friends may also call Tuesday from 8:30 AM to 10AM.
-Mass of Christian Burial will be held 10:30AM Tuesday at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church in Niles, with Fr. Larry Frient officiating, preceded by a 10AM prayer service at the funeral home.
-Burial will be in Niles City Cemetery.
Condolences can be e-mailed at www.josephrossifuneralhome.com.
John Soltesz
Born: February 27, 1955 Died: July 9, 2010 Funeral: July 20, 2010
Gospel:John 14:27 “Peace is my farewell to you.”
Homily:
How unpredictable and how fragile is the gift of life. Just a short time ago, none of us could have predicted that all of us would gather for John’s funeral. Those closest to him would say that John himself would not have predicted this. How often he would work the crowd. How often he would already be running, so to speak, when he’d hit the ground with a new idea or project. How many times he kept reinventing himself. And how many times did he look at the poster that he kept in his office for the past fifteen years. It was a poster that featured a harmless looking pelican about to swallow a frog. The frog is already in the pelican’s mouth. But if you look very carefully at the poster, the frog is reaching out from the pelican’s mouth, grabbing the pelican by the neck, and the caption exclaims: “DON’T EVER GIVE UP!”
You think about John’s attempts to live the American dream, to succeed, to come up with new ideas and implement them. You marvel at the memory of how he could connect with varieties of people even if it did not seem like there was a lot in common at first. You think of the pride he had in being one of the first children to travel by plane at the age of thirteen months from Italy to this country, and you know how proud he was to become a citizen of the United States by the time he was four years old. The story has been told that he wrote his own name as a four year old on the form acknowledging his American citizenship. And he always maintained pride in his Italian heritage.
All of these thoughts lead those closest to John to think of the song Frank Sinatra used to sing entitled “My Way”. That was John. He did so many things his way. He not only ironed his own t-shirts but some have said he had a peculiar way of ironing his own socks, or boxers, or maybe even both.
We bear with each other lovingly because it is so difficult for us to come to terms with John’s unexpected passing. It troubles the minds and hearts of all who knew him as we have so many unanswered questions about his death.
And we lovingly remind one another that we’ve come to this church not to see through each other, but to see each other through. There is no doubt John would want us to see each other through. His kind and tender eyes would look upon our sadness and suffering, realize our love for him, and wish that somehow, some way he could make everything okay for us. It is ironic that one of the biometric interests John had included identification of people by scanning the retinas of people’s eyes. If John were to see the tearful eyes of you who love him, he would identify with the kind of love the Lord has for all people in need. Don’t you think that John’s big heart would be moved beyond what words can describe?
John’s unexpected passing finds us longing for the kind of peace only the Lord can give. In the Gospel proclaimed a few moments ago chosen for this Mass of Christian Burial, Jesus told His disciples on the night before He died that peace was His farewell gift to them. And He said that He gave peace in a way that the world could not give peace.
We become so very aware of our limitations today. This finds us longing for love, longing for the peace Jesus described, longing for comfort, consolation, and inspiration.
This is why the Church is so important during these critical and pivotal times in our lives. The Church is known as the Body of Christ. Jesus works through the Church, feeling our pain, giving us peace, filling us with hope that life is more than what meets the eye, and lifting us up when we cannot possibly do things entirely “our way” and the Lord extends a saving hand toward us.
This same Lord lovingly reminds us that only God should judge. And isn’t it precious that the Scriptures are filled with messages reminding us that He judges with compassion, mercy, love, and forgiveness? We rely on the help of the Lord to avoid making judgments and to be people who reflect the qualities of compassion, mercy, love, and forgiveness all of our days, for truly life is fragile, and our choices have such an enormous impact on those around us.
All of us rediscover time and again that the Lord is mysterious. We cannot fully describe Him but we learn to love Him.
All of us rediscover time and again that life is mysterious. We cannot fully figure life out because it inevitably springs surprises at us and the best we can do is rely on God’s help and the assistance of each other to persevere through this mystery.
All of us rediscover time and again that love is mysterious. It can lift us up beyond what words can describe. When we misunderstand love or it is not returned to us the way we had hoped, it can bring us down. But our hearts know that real love lasts forever and cannot possibly be obliterated.
We have brought John to church because we believe that God loves John, God loves us, and we love John. It is one of the last – and most important – things we do for John. Because our hearts know that John’s passing wasn’t according to John’s way, that it is one of those terrible surprises life springs at us. But we know how vital it is not to face this alone, and how important it is to express to God that we love John very much and we believe God can give John the kind of peace that eludes our attempts to articulate.
May that image of the poster that says “Don’t Ever Give Up!” remain in our minds. More importantly, may the image of the Lord saying to John “I love you more than the limitations of this world” forever resound in our hearts each time we think of him.
Rita E. Coole 1924-2010
NILES - Rita E. Coole, 85, of Niles, died at 12:07 p.m. Thursday, July 8, 2010, at Forum Health Trumbull Memorial Hospital in Warren.
She was born Sept. 16, 1924, in Cleveland, the daughter of Edwin and Alexa Flemming Switzler. She was a 1942 graduate of Ursuline Academy in Cleveland, employed at Western Union, and a secretary at Lincoln School in Niles for 19 years before retiring in 1983. Rita was a member of Our Lady of Mount Carmel Catholic Church in Niles, Niles SCOPE, enjoyed crossword puzzles, playing cards, reading and traveling, especially to Hawaii, Alaska, West Virginia and The Bahamas. Her husband, Eugene Coole, whom she married June 19, 1948, died July 22, 2003.
She will be deeply missed by three sons, James Coole of Niles, Robert Coole and his wife, Pamela Sue, of West Harrison, Ind., and Gary Coole and his wife, Judith, of New Castle, Pa.; five grandchildren, Gary Coole Jr., Brad Coole, Michael Coole, Curtis Coole and Janet Hua; two great-grandchildren, Jet and Piper Hua; a sister-in-law, Billie Latessa Ferrick; and a nephew, Terry Latessa.
She was preceded in death by a sister, Lois Switzler.
Friends may call from 2 to 5 p.m. Sunday at The Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles, where the Mount Carmel Bereavement Ministry will condut prayers at 4:30 p.m. Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 9:30 a.m. Monday at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church in Niles, with the Rev. Larry Frient officiating, preceded by a 9 a.m. prayer service at the funeral home.
Burial will be in Niles City Cemetery. Material contributions can be made to St. Joseph's Indian School, 1301 N. Main St., Chamberlain, S.D. 57325.
Condolences can be e-mailed at www.josephrossifuneralhome.com.
Rita E. Coole
Born: September 16, 1924 Died: July 8, 2010 Funeral: July 12, 2010
Gospel: Luke 11:1-12
Homily:
On behalf of everyone here at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Parish, I extend condolences to Rita’s family members and friends. She was a loyal member of this parish since the 1950’s and we are praying for everyone closest to her.
Rita’s unexpected passing on Thursday finds us all pondering the meaning of her life. This church was such an important place for her. She would want us to ponder her life best of all in a context of prayer.
We know that Rita touched so many lives in so many ways.
She touched the lives of her family members most of all.
Rita also touched the lives of the many people with whom she worked at Western Union and as secretary at Lincoln School here in Niles before her retirement about twenty-seven years ago.
I’ve been told that her meticulous dedication to keeping in touch with many people was so very admirable. Rita kept in touch with those who worked with Eugene, school friends, friends of her family members, and many other people. She wrote many letters, sent a multitude of Christmas cards, and really thought highly of people and found the best in everyone.
We remember Rita’s many travels through the years. She really liked traveling to Hawaii, Alaska, West Virginia, The Bahamas, and many other places.
Rita provided a great example by finding out where the nearest Catholic church was at each of the places she stayed while vacationing. She kept notes that would provide directions and indicate “church only five minutes away” or “church ten minutes away” relative to their favorite places to stay.
Stories abound about her visits to Mountaineer and how she would always evaluate her experience when she returned by saying “I broke even”.
Her generosity to missions was very evident as her death notice even asked people to support the St. Joseph’s Indian School. In many ways, her life echoed the teaching of Jesus.
The Lord told us that whatsoever we do to the least of our brothers and sisters we do unto Him. Even in the reality of our sadness, it is easy for those who knew Rita to imagine Christ welcoming her home.
We rely on the Word of God to help us when we find words so difficult to express. The passage from the Book of Luke proclaimed a few moments ago emphasizes the importance of prayer. One of the Lord’s disciples asked Jesus to teach His followers to pray. And Jesus obliged, reminding us that if we ask, we shall receive; if we seek, we shall find; if we knock, the door shall be opened for us.
Some of you who were closest to Rita easily visualize in your minds the many times Rita prayed. She would pray as she waited for Eugene to come home. Some have compared her to a saint. Her devotion was constant; her faith strong, her hope was as vibrant as any person most people would ever meet.
And like all people of faith, Rita faced her struggles. Eugene’s death seven years ago this month was a difficult experience for her. Not long ago, she visited his grave and before leaving the cemetery decided to stomp on it (lovingly, we can be sure) as she lamented out loud: “That’s what you get for leaving me!”
This morning, we are the ones who feel that helplessness; we are the ones who lament the loss of one very dear to us. How we wish she were still with us, interacting with us, showing us what it means to be a good mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, in-law, aunt, relative, member of the extended family, and friend.
There may be times in the future when our lamentation might lead us to feel like doing what Rita did at Eugene’s grave. But then something deep within us will tell us that maybe Rita prayed time and again to be spared from long suffering before she would die. And maybe we do best to believe that these prayers were answered in favor of Rita.
So we pray. We ask the Lord to be sure that Rita’s journey has reunited her with Eugene. We seek to let the many good things about her life carry us through. We knock on the door of heaven, trusting that her travels through this life have brought her back to the one she loved, to be together forever, so that never again will she lament being separated from him.
And we continue to be confident that her prayers for us will continue all our days. For our deepest prayers will be answered time and again with this blessed assurance: Rita’s love for us can never be broken by the pall of death. Her love for Eugene continued after his departure. Her love for us and our love for her continue as we journey forward. Finally, our prayers will assure us of a beautiful scene as Rita’s travels finally reach their destination. We easily imagine Rita and Eugene crying out together ever so joyfully: “We’re home! Yes, we’re home at last!” May Rita’s prayers and her love continue to lead us to the Lord. He was Rita’s ultimate goal, and he is the very one who gently called her home to a place of refreshment, light, and peace.
Rose Aurelio
Born: August 16, 1928 Died: July 1, 2010 Funeral: July 3, 2010
Gospel: John 15:9-11
Homily:
Everyone has their memories and stories about Rose.
Something special is enshrined in the hearts and minds of those who have already completed life’s journey before Rose. This is recorded in our parish records in the church office. It is the memory of Rose being baptized here in this church on March 10, 1929 by Father Nicola Santoro. Our parish remembers Rose as a lifelong member, belonging to the Immaculate Conception Society and volunteering each year making twists and cheese puffs and constantly helping with a kind word. Rose had a way of not only saying the right things, but bringing people back to reality when it was especially necessary to do so. Her words carried so much weight because everyone knew the sincerity of the one speaking them.
Her brothers remember card games and conversations well into the night on so many spirited occasions.
Some who were close to Rose remember the many trips she took south of here, hoping to return with a little cash. And when she did return victorious, some people remember how kind she was in sharing it with them. How true it is that a person’s goodness continues to make an impact even after she has passed.
God blessed Rose’s family with many wonderful Sunday dinners together. How she loved to prepare cavatelli! It is our fervent prayer that Rose shares an everlasting banquet with the Lord now that her suffering has ended.
Many remember her devotion to St. Anthony. How we rely on the prayers of all the saints to enable us to follow the Lord faithfully so that in God’s time we all might be with Rose and the Lord forever!
We remember and give thanks for how Rose left a mark in the hearts of many people in this community by her devoted care for the sick and suffering. She helped the afflicted carry their share of the cross of Christ before Rose herself faced the struggles of this past year. We put our faith in the Lord who promised to make us whole and bring us the fullest measure of consolation and healing, and we trust that Rose looks upon His face even now.
It’s been said that home is where the heart is. We remember Rose’s heart being with the Lord, being with her family, being with this parish, and being within our hearts in so many ways.
We’ve been blessed by the memories of one who came to Luca’s baptism on March 14th of this year, exactly eighty one years and four days after Rose herself was welcomed into God’s family the Church in this very same building. How grateful she was to be here!
And our memories paint so many beautiful pictures of happier and healthier times.
You smile as you recall Rose riding a mechanical bull just a few years ago at a graduation party. How many women her age could have done that?
You easily imagine her down on her hands and knees helping pull up old carpet, or playing on the floor with her great-grandchildren. What a treasured memory of determination, strength, and being down to earth we are blessed with!
Some of us fondly recall the time she spent in Central Park Apartments. How she would rise at 5:00 in the morning. She used to talk about a certain resident of Niles who walks each morning with a dog. And when Rose was told that is a great time to pray, Rose wanted to be sure she would be lifted in prayer. How grateful she was when told that prayers accompanied her every step of her journey.
Now that we have come to the end of Rose’s journey, we ponder the message Jesus shared at the Last Supper with those closest to Him. How Jesus said: “Live on in my love!” How the Lord implored everyone to remember His love in all that they do so that their joy might be complete. And does it not seem that Rose’s now completed life on earth so lovingly echoes those words?
Rose brought great joy to the lives of many just by being who she was. She dearly missed “Geno” and others who passed on before her, and it is our prayer that they greet her at the gate as she makes the transition from this life to the next.
Our prayers for her continue, and we can be certain that not even death severs the bond of love she shares with us and we share with her.
Rose used to say how strongly she looked forward to family reunions each summer. Now, as we sadly realize that her place at the table is empty, we pray for the grace to know that her place in our hearts and our place in Rose’s heart is always filled with love. Truly, Rose filled the places of our church and your homes with her love and her joy. And just as truly, your memories elicit prayers for the kind of strength only God can give. Rose wants us to know this love and joy, and most of all, to remember her as loving us.
Philip Merlo, 88 NILES – Philip Merlo, 88, died at 9:30 a.m. Thursday, June 17, 2010, at St. Joseph Health Center Eastland in Warren. Friends may call from 4 to 7 p.m. today at the Joseph Rossi & Sons Funeral Home in Niles, where the Mt. Carmel Bereavement Ministry and the Niles Knights of Columbus will conduct prayers at 6:30 p.m. There will be a Mass of Christian Burial at 10:30 a.m. Monday at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church in Niles, preceded by a 10 a.m. prayer service at the funeral home. Burial will be at Pineview Cemetery. Condolences can be e-mailed at www.josephrossifuneralhome.com.
Emma D. Bianco, 95 died at 10:10 p.m. Saturday, June 19, 2010, at Autumn Hills Care Center in Niles. She was born June 24, 1914, in Niles, the daughter of John and Finella Nuzzi Ross. She was employed with Niles City Schools as head cook for 21 years before retiring in 1977. She was a member of Our Lady of Mount Carmel Catholic Church in Niles, Niles Senior Center, its chorus and players, and enjoyed baking, cooking, crocheting, knitting, sewing and spending time with her family. Her husband, Ralph Bianco, whom she married Oct. 24, 1936, died May 7, 2006. Emma, who had her own English language, will be deeply missed by a daughter, Lillian Masciangelo and her husband, Nick, with whom she made her home; four grandchildren, Tom Masciangelo and his wife, Diane, Lori Martin and her husband, Rich, Michael Quigley, and Michele Gibson and her husband, Duane; seven great-grandchildren, Patrick and Carolyn Masciangelo, Nicholas, Ashley, Jason and Emma Gibson, Jessica Quigley; and a son-in-law Leonard Quigley. She was preceded in death by a daughter, Judy Quigley; two brothers, James and Mike Ross; and a sister Mary Mariola. Friends may call from 5 to 8 p.m. today at The Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles where the Mount Carmel Bereavement Ministry will conduct prayers at 7:30 p.m. Mass of Christian Burial will be held 9:30 a.m. Tuesday at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church in Niles preceded by a 9 a.m. prayer service at the funeral home. Burial will be in Pineview Cemetery. The family would like to thank Dr. Michael Ciletti and the Staff of Autumn Hills Care Center for their compassionate care. Condolences can be e-mailed at www.josephrossifuneralhome.com.
Ida L. Rock, 75, of Niles died at 2:00PM Saturday, June 12, 2010, at her residence. She was born December 26, 1934 in Layton, Pennsylvania the daughter of Emidio and Domenica Orsini Antonini. Ida managed Royal Mall Apartments in Niles for 10 years before retiring in 2008. She was a member of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church in Niles and The Sons of Italy in Pennsylvania. Her husband Charles W. "Mikie" Rock whom she married December 30, 1950 died February 15, 2000. She will be deeply missed by four daughters, Doris Platenak of Niles, Susan Burkhammer of Warren, Charlene Romane of Niles, and Connie Rock of Niles, a brother Fiorello Antonini of Dawson, Pennsylvania, two sisters, Ergilia Fields of Perryopolis, Pennsylvania, and Philomena Stiffy of Warren, 8 grandchildren, 21 great-grandchildren, and 2 great-great-grandchildren. She was preceded in death by a brother and two sisters. Friends may call from 5 to 8 PM Tuesday at The Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles where The Mt. Carmel Bereavement Ministry will conduct prayers at 7:30 PM. Mass of Christian Burial will be held 9:30 AM Wednesday at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church in Niles, with Fr. Larry Frient officiating, preceded by a 9AM prayer service at the funeral home. Burial will be in Crown Hill Cemetery. Arrangements are being handled by The Joseph Rossi & Sons Funeral Home Inc. in Niles. Condolences can be e-mailed at www.josephrossifuneralhome.com.
Ida Rock
Born: Dec. 26, 1934 Died: June 12, 2010 Age: 75 Funeral: June 16, 2010
Gospel: Luke 5:1-11
Homily:
As we gather this morning in one sense to bid goodbye to Ida, we remember so many things. I know that later in this service, some Words of Remembrance will be shared.
Yet even now, so many beautiful memories of how she touched the lives of those around her fill the minds of those closest to her.
Some of you fondly remember how she and her husband “Mikey” enjoyed fishing together. They shared forty nine years of marriage before the Lord called him home just over a decade ago.
And it is with the memory of their fishing expeditions together that we decided to choose the Gospel passage that was proclaimed a few moments ago.
There is such beauty in the story, just as there is much beauty in the memories.
According to the story presented in the Gospel, the crowd was pressing in on Jesus listening to the word of God. Jesus asked Simon and his companions, who had worked hard all night and caught no fish, to put their nets into deep water and lower them for a catch.
Following the instructions of the Lord, the disciples were very successful. They caught so many fish their nets were tearing! They were astonished and Simon Peter was embarrassed, even to the point of wondering why Jesus would want to remain close to him at this point. After all, Simon Peter was a bit hesitant to do what Jesus had asked him to do.
Jesus assured them. He calmed their fears. The Lord told them they would be joining Him in doing much more meaningful work now. They would be leading others to appreciate the work of God in their lives.
On this day when we have brought Ida’s mortal remains here to this church, we are mindful of the many ways the Lord worked through her life and touched the lives of so many people in the process.
She supported her daughters, siblings, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, great-great grandchildren, and so many other people ever so lovingly.
Many of you fondly recall making pies, cooking food, burning a log late at night and sharing conversation, playing video games like Donkey-Kong and bingo time after time, and the many ways she took care of everyone.
You remember how during happier and healthier days she really enjoyed working in the yard, taking pride in her surroundings and teaching others to do the same.
As Ida’s health declined, you did everything you could to take care of her and enable her to spend her final days surrounded by your love in her apartment, and we know she appreciated this very deeply.
We depend on the Lord to strengthen us during this time of need. We know that just as Jesus was with His earliest followers when they fished as recounted in the Gospel, He will be with us every time we remember Ida’s love for us and our love for her.
May our faith assure us that Christ invites Ida to be with Mikie, with Ida’s departed family members, and with all people of faith who have gone before her.
May our hearts know that during our sadness, the Lord does not abandon us. This is when He truly wants us to know His love within our hearts and to share this love with others who are grieving.
May God in His goodness enable us to follow His call faithfully and trust in His abiding love.
Bernice LaPolla, 88With her daughter by her side, Bernice "Bee" LaPolla, 88, peacefully departed this life early on the morning of June 4, 2010, at Our Lady of Perpetual Help in Virginia Beach. A longtime resident of Niles, Bee was born Jan. 13, 1922, near Jackson Mich., the youngest child of Stanley and Josephine Skovron Smalek. She was a gregarious and kind soul who never met a stranger. Bee was a loving wife and mother, a devoted homemaker and a woman of many interests. Her cooking talents were such that those who sat at her dinner table never soon forgot the experience. She was also a longtime employee of Abruzzi's Cafe 422. She now joins her parents; her husband of 50 years, Anthony "Dick" LaPolla; her sister Helen McGill and granddaughter Theresa "Tess" LaPolla. She is survived by her brother Walter (Edna) Smalek of Marshall, Mich.; daughter Mary Jo (Brian) Hulburt of Virginia Beach; son John (Jeannie) of Columbus; grandchildren, Nancy and Michael Hulburt of Virginia Beach and niece Connie Smith of Grand Rapids, Mich. The Rev. Larry Frient will celebrate a Memorial Mass at 10 a.m. Saturday at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church in Niles. A reception will follow in Marian Hall. In lieu of flowers, cards or donations, Bee would have just wanted everyone to be kind to one another. Altmeyer Funeral Home will be handling the arrangements at 5792 Greenwich Road, Virginia Beach, VA 23462. Condolences may be expressed at www.altmeyer.com.
Bernice LaPolla
Born:: January 13, 1922 Died: June 4, 2010 Memorial Mass: June 12, 2010
Readings: Isaiah 25: 6-9 Romans 4-9 John 14:1-6
Homily:
On behalf of everyone belonging to this parish, I extend condolences to everyone closest to “Bee.” I know that she touched many lives during her years here in Niles. Just the other day, someone was talking about how enjoyable it was to interact with her during the years she and Dick operated the Oasis here in Niles. Many are grateful for the happy memories.
St. Paul reminds us that we share a newness of life when our lives are joined to Christ’s life in Baptism. As people of faith, we believe that this newness of life permeates our day to day lives and continues even after our journeys in this world are completed.
We would do well to say we understand newness of life to mean that every aspect of living is charged with the presence of God. If we reflect about Bee’s life, those closest to her would readily agree that this is how she lived. She lived in a manner that was charged with the presence, love, and strength of the Lord.
Perhaps one of the most sincere ways Bee touched your lives was by means of her authenticity. Bee was unpretentious. She never pretended to be better than she was nor did she pretend to be anyone other than she was.
She and her husband Dick touched the lives of her children in a myriad of ways. Bee constantly imparted precious values. She insisted on a good work ethic and would not settle for less than one’s best. Bee insisted on the proper use of grammar. She would never settle for less than the best demonstration of proper manners.
Bee’s life demonstrated great attention to detail. This attention came out in memorable ways. Hey, it’s been said that when Bee hung diapers on the clothesline, she made sure they were the whitest in the neighborhood.
Through the years, Bee touched the lives of so many people, some who are still with us and some who have gone before us. She enriched the lives of her parents, siblings, husband, children, and grandchildren, for those who called her “Aunt Bee”, and for each and every family member and friend. I’ve been told what great motivation she provided. Bee’s determination was a source of strength for all her watched her, her sense of humor so very refreshing for those who loved her.
The Prophet Isaiah tells us that the Lord prepares a banquet for people of faith. We trust that Bee will be delighted with this, for she loved to prepare food. I’ve been told that her cooking talents were such that those who sat at her dinner table will never forget the experience.
Bee has been invited by the Lord. To where? Our faith tells us: to that place alluded to in the Gospel of John. Yes, Bee has been called to that place Jesus has prepared for her. She led to a seat at the table to join her parents, her husband Dick, her sister Helen and granddaughter Tess at a feast that lasts forever, where the web known as death is destroyed and there is much rejoicing in the saving power of God.
Bee will live on in your minds, hearts, and souls. Most importantly, our faith says she will live on in the light of Christ. May this light shine among us whenever we are sad and unsure what to do. May we know that from that place prepared for Bee by Jesus, she lovingly prays for us and continues to teach us to rely on the strength of the Lord.
Sarah Mignella, 88 , died Monday, May 31, 2010, at Forum Health Trumbull Memorial Hospital in Warren. She was born April 5, 1922, in Struthers, the daughter of Angelo and Erminia DeFilippis Giancola. She was a 1940 graduate of Struthers High School and attended Youngstown Business School. Sarah was employed as a waitress at Alberini's Restaurant in Niles for 12 years before retiring in 1980. She was a member of Our Lady of Mount Carmel Catholic Church in Niles and St. Nicholas Catholic Church in Struthers and its Ladies Auxiliary and the VFW. She enjoyed cooking and traveling to Amish Country and Niagara Falls. Her husband, Anthony Mignella, whom she married June 29, 1946, died May 22, 2003. Sarah, who was a caring, loving, and wise person, and a prayer warrior, will be deeply missed by a daughter, Diane Neptune and her husband, Larry of Wintersville; two brothers, Dan Giancola and his wife, Susan, of Struthers and Angelo Giancola and his wife, Joan of Colum-biana; two sisters, Jean Miletta of Poland and Erma Niemi of North Lima; and a granddaughter, Allison Neptune. She was preceded in death by two brothers, Ben Giancola and Joe Giancola; and three sisters, Mary Thomas, Nancy Sylvester and Anne Giancola. Friends may call from 5 to 8 p.m. Thursday at the Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles, where the Mount Carmel Bereavement Ministry will conduct prayers at 7:30 p.m. Funeral services will be 9:30 a.m. Friday at the Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles, with the Rev. Larry Frient officiating. Burial will be in Niles City Cemetery. Arrangements are being handled by the Joseph Rossi & Sons Funeral Home Inc., Niles. Condolences can be e-mailed at www.josephrossifuneralhome.com.
Sarah Mignella
Born: April 5, 19222 Died: May 31, 2010 Funeral: June 4, 2010
Readings: Ephesians 2:8-10 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, 13 John 15:9-12
Homily:
Once again, on behalf of the members of Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church, I extend my condolences to everyone closest to Sarah.
As sad as it is to bid goodbye to her, we take consolation in knowing that she loved others and was loved very dearly.
You remember how she enjoyed cooking.
She devoted so much of her time and energy to taking care of others.
You will cherish fond memories of her travels to Niagara Falls and to Amish Country in the Sugar Creek area.
You will hold in your hearts the many conversations you shared with her.
Since Anthony completed his life’s journey just over seven years ago, Sarah talked about him often. It is our fervent prayer that Anthony and Sarah are united in love forever in a way that nothing can separate them from each other again.
This day we rely on the Word of God to bring us consolation.
One of Sarah’s favorite Scripture passages was from St. Paul ’s First Letter to the Corinthians. It reminds us that three things last forever. Faith, hope, and love do not come to an end.Love is the greatest gift of all.
We ponder Sarah’s faith. She often read from devotional booklets. One of the books near her chair featured a reading from Ephesians. We proclaimed its message earlier in this service. We have been saved by through faith. This is truly a gift from God. Sarah was God’s handiwork, a reflection of His love.
Another book near her chair quoted the 8th Psalm. In it, the question is raised:
What are humans that God is mindful of them, mere mortals that God cares for them?
God fills us with hope because He cares for us so much. And what is hope? Hope is belief in a positive outcome related tocircumstances in one's life.
Sarah hoped to be able to be independent and she longed to be with Anthony again. Although her departure leaves a void in our lives our hearts tell us that Sarah believed in a positive outcome and the Lord has responded to that for which she hoped.
John’s Gospel tells us that when Jesus ate with His closest friends the night before He died, He told them to live on in His love.
If we listen to the love of the Lord in our own hearts, we know that Sarah would want us to live on in her love. She would want us to know that she is safe at home with the Lord where there is no more suffering, discomfort, or uncertainty.
May Sarah rest in God’s peace forever, and may the Lord fill us with faith, hope, and love all our days.
Lucille R. Sanfrey, 81, of Niles died Saturday, May 29, 2010, at Forum Health Trumbull Memorial Hospital in Warren. She was born March 5, 1929 in Niles the daughter of Anthony and Anet Ambrose Pipino. Lucille attended Niles McKinley High School and was employed as a hairdresser at Strouss Department Store for 25 years before retiring in 1978. She was a member of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Chruch in Niles, enjoyed cooking, baking, loving and taking care of her family. Her husband Shirl Sanfrey whom she married August 5, 1953, died May 14, 2010. Lucille, who was a precious gift from God to her family, will be deeply missed by a daughter Vickie Putnam and her husband James of Niles,a brother Dan Pipino of McAlester, Oklahoma, two grandchildren, Windy Salvato of Warren, and Michelle Rizzo and her husband Brian of Howland, and three great-grandchildren, Mia, Samuel, and Cody. She was preceded in death by two brothers, Cassey Pipino, and Victor Pipino, and a sister Rosemary Pipino Kuhl. Friends may call from 12PM to 1:30PM Wednesday at The Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles. Funeral Services will be held 1:30PM Wednesday at The Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles, with Fr. Larry Frient officiating. Arrangements are being handled by The Joseph Rossi & Sons Funeral Home Inc., in Niles. Condolences can be e-mailed at www.josephrossifuneralhome.com
Lucille Sanfrey
Born: March 5, 1929 Died: May 29, 2010 Funeral : June 2, 2010
Readings: Job 19:23-27 Corinthians 13:4-7, 13 Psalm 27 John 15: 9-12
Homily:
All of us gathered such a short time ago to commend Shirl to the Lord. He and Lucille were united in marriage on August 5, 1953. God called him home this May 14th, and now, just fifteen days later, Lucille has joined him in completing her life’s journey. We pray that they are united in the fullness of joy, in a place of security where no one can separate them again.
You have been pondering Lucile’s life. It spanned more than eight decades, and those of you closest to her consider her to be truly a gift from God.
Lucille worked as a hairdresser at Strouss Department Store for twenty-five years prior to her retirement in 1978. Those closest to her appreciate the truth that not only did she work hard during that time to enhance the beauty of others, but her entire lifetime was one that reflected much beauty in her heart and inspired goodness from the hearts of those she touched.
You knew that Lucille was a devoted wife to Shirl for many years. She touched your lives as a sister, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, aunt, dear member of the extended family, neighbor, and friend to many.
You remember how her little hands did so much work and gave so much love. How she enjoyed cooking, baking, and doing so many loving things for her family through the years!
Lucille greatly admired people and spoke the very best things about them.
Life has been very difficult for her and for everyone closest to her since she suffered a stroke in August.
We rely on God’s Words of consolation at a time when our own words are insufficient.
We heard the readings from Sacred Scripture chosen for this afternoon’s service.
During a time of great affliction, the biblical man named Job proclaims his faith in the God whom he himself shall see. We trust that Lucille sees the Lord.
Saint Paul reminds us that three gifts last forever: Faith, hope and love. We ponder the many ways Lucille lived these virtues, and trust that they will continue to edify our lives.
Jesus encouraged His closest friends to remain in His love so that they might know the fullness of joy. May the love of the Lord permeate our hearts. May Jesus lead us to embrace the truth that Lucille has been invited to be with Christ, and that the Lord wants her to share the fullness of joy with Shirl, with her departed siblings, and with all people of faith who have completed life’s journey before her.
We give thanks for Lucille’s life. We ask the Lord to bring us consolation in our sadness and enable us to know that not even death can sever the bonds of love we have come to know.
May Lucille find rest from her labors, alleviation from her sufferings, and know the fullness of joy in God’s presence forever.
Philomena D. "Corkey" Sudano, 81 of Niles died at 3:10AM Monday, May 24, 2010 , at Southpointe Hospital in Cleveland . She was born December 9, 1928 in Burghill , Ohio the daughter of John and Elizabeth Flora Capuzzi. She was a 1946 graduate of Niles McKinley High School , and employed in Accounts Payable for The Trumbull County Sanitary Engineers for 20 years before retiring in 2007. Philomena was a member of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church in Niles and enjoyed dancing and music. Philomena, who always said " I'll be ok, I'm a tough old broad" will be deeply missed by two sons Joseph J. Sudano Jr. and his wife Pamela of Chagrin Falls, Ohio, and Larry D. Sudano of Howland, a brother C. James "Sonny" Capuzzi and his wife Dolores of San Diego, five grandchildren, Alpha, Venus, Samantha, Larry, and Nicholas, and five great-grandchildren. Friends may call Wednesday from 5 to 8PM at The Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home where The Mt. Carmel Bereavement Ministry will conduct prayers at 7:30PM . Mass of Christian Burial will be held 9:30AM Thursday at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church in Niles , with Fr. Larry Frient officiating, preceded by a 9AM prayer service at the funeral home. Burial will be in Niles City Cemetery . Memorial Contributions can be made to The Alzheimer's Foundation of America, 322 8th Ave 7th Fl, New York , New York , 10001 . Arrangements are being handled by The Joseph Rossi & Sons Funeral Home Inc.,in Niles .
Philomena D. Sudano
Born: 12- 9- 1928 Died: 05- 24- 2010
Gospel: John 15:9-14
Homily:
One of the last messages Jesus preached to His disciples before He died was to remain in His love. We heard this Gospel passage. It was proclaimed just moments ago.
We have brought Philomena to this church today because we believe that Christ lovingly gave His life for us, rose from the dead, and even now prays for us from His place in heaven. In His great love, He sends His Spirit to sustain us at all times.
This morning those closest to Phyllis face the difficult task of saying goodbye to her. Many people knew her as “Corkey.” She worked for two decades in the Accounts Payable Department of the Trumbull County Sanitary Engineers prior to her retirement. For many years she lived on Henry Street .
“Corkey” leaves her son Joe and his wife Pam, her son Larry, her bother C. James “Sonny” Sudano and his wife Delores, her grandchildren Alpha, Venus, Samantha, Larry, and Nicholas, five great-grandchildren and of the members of the extended family and friends.
I am sure that as time passes, many of you will thank the Lord for how she touched your lives.
Some of you recall her esteem for dancing and music. There was a time when she really enjoyed going to a jazz concert at Blossom Music Center.
Among the memories her grandchildren will share is how she sang “Bye, Bye Blackbird” and how she made pizzas.
Those closest to her know she enjoyed good times for many of her years, and all of us commend her to the everlasting care of the Lord.
We believe that the Lord is willing to forgive any sins she may have committed and overlook any human weaknesses Phyllis may have had.
We also believe that the Lord who can do all things brings “Corkey” the fullness of healing. He is with us as we support each other, knowing that during recent years she faced limitations and was unable to be the same vibrant person you once knew.
I’ve been told that Phyllis liked to say “I’ll be okay, I’m a tough old broad.” Today, we trust in the Lord whose willingness to strengthen us in our grief exceeds the limitations inevitably faced by even the toughest people.
May God continue to bless our good memories of the love Phyllis shared with us. May He welcome her to His everlasting care. And may He be with us all our days as we strive to live on in His love.
Martha Marie Celano, 86, of Phillips Avenue, died at 11:56 p.m. Friday, April 30, 2010, at St. Elizabeth Health Center Boardman Campus. She was born Oct. 19, 1923, Warren, a daughter of Elia and Anna Perna Serrao. Mrs. Celano had owned and operated the Glamour Girl Beauty Salon. Survivors include her daughter, Donna L. Giampietro, with whom she made her home; her son, John J. Celano of Fort Myers, Fla.; six grandchildren; and five great-grandchildren. A private memorial Mass of Christian celebration will be held. Father Larry Frient will officiate. Arrangements were entrusted to the Robert P. McDermott Memorial Home.
Martha Celano
Born: October 19, 1923 Died: April 30, 2010 Memorial Mass: May 18, 2010
Gospel: Matthew 11:28-30
Homily:
God blesses those closest to Martha with many happy memories.
As I extend condolences on behalf of the people of Our Lady of Mount Carmel Parish to Johnny, Donna, and everyone closest to Martha, I assure you of our thoughts and prayers as we remember her this morning, give thanks for her life, and entrust her to the everlasting care of God.
Martha was baptized here at this parish on August 24, 1924 by Father Nicola Santoro. He was the Pastor here when this church building was constructed. She lived in Niles her entire life.
To the best of our knowledge, when Martha was about thirteen or fourteen years old she was named Queen of the Our Lady of Mount Carmel Festival.
Years later, she helped many girls and ladies enhance their beauty when she operated “The Glamour Girl Beauty Shop” on Robbins Avenue just one block east of this church.
Her children Johnny and Donna believe they have been blessed to have had a mother like Martha. She was fun to be with. Martha would feed Donna’s friends with her homemade bread and they would confide in her. Johnny’s friends truly enjoyed the chocolate éclairs she prepared for them when Johnny was home for a visit. Some of you have fond memories of Martha accompanying you when you went to see Elvis Presley in concert.
Her grandchildren enjoyed calling her “Gream.” You’ll remember the many stories she told you. I saw a heartwarming picture of her with one of her grandchildren as they were very involved in a baking project in the kitchen years ago. Cherish your memories of her love for you, and believe that not even death brings an end to the great gift of love.
Many times during her life, Martha talked about her own parents. They completed life’s journey long ago and our faith tells us that in God’s great mercy Martha is invited to be reunited with them and with all people of faith who have gone before us.
During her illness she used to pray aloud: “O God, I love you with all of my heart.” She was blessed by the chance to hear Father Gage and Donna pray the rosary at her bedside shortly before God called her home.
May the Lord continue to bless you with joyful memories of Martha, and enable us all to appreciate that even as we miss her dearly, she is at peace.
We chose readings from the Scriptures that are intended to comfort us in our sorrow and fill us with hope. The Book of Revelation tells us that a person’s goodness follows her from this life to the next. The Gospel of Matthew tells us that Jesus invites those who are burdened to come and rest in Him.
May God welcome Martha to His everlasting care and sustain us all of our days.
Shirl D. Sanfrey, 81, of Niles died at 8:20PM Friday, May 14, 2010, at Autumn Hills Care Center in Niles, Ohio. He was born March 24, 1929 in Warren the son of Joseph and Anna Campbell Sanfrey. Shirl was a 1947 graduate of Warren G. Harding High School and was employed for the City of Niles as superintendant of The Tree Department for 30 years before retiring in 1985. He was a member of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church in Niles, enjoyed golfing, fishing, hunting, and a United States Marine Veteran. Shirl, who was a loving father and grandfather will be deeply missed by his wife Lucille Pipino Sanfrey whom he married August 5, 1953, a daughter Vickie Putnam and her husband James of Niles, two grandchildren, Windy Salvato, and Michelle Rizzo and her husband Brian, and three great-grandchildren, Mia, Samuel, and Cody. Friends may call Tuesday from 12:30 to 1:30PM at the Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles. Funeral Services will be held 1:30PM Tuesday at The Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles with Fr. Larry Frient officiating. Arrangements are being handled by The Joseph Rossi & Sons Funeral Home Inc.,in Niles.
Shirl D. Sanfrey, 81
Born: March 29, 1929 Died: May 14, 2010 Funeral: May 18, 2010
Readings : Wisdom 3:1-9 Psalm 23 Revelation 14:13 John 16:16-24
Homily:
On behalf of everyone at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Parish, I extend condolences to everyone who was close to Shirl. Be assured of our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Many were the times I visited Shirl and prayed with him when he was hospitalized. He always appreciated exchanging a few kind words and praying to God for assistance. The Lord called Shirl home on Friday evening. Now our prayers for him continue and we can be confident that even now Shirl continues to pray for us and he prays with us.
From 1955 until 1985, Shirl served our community as superintendent of the City of Niles Tree Department. Prior to that he served our nation in the United States Marines.
You remember how he enjoyed golfing, fishing, and hunting.
Most of all, you give thanks for his life among you as a husband to Lucille for more than fifty six years, a father to Vickie and father-in-law to James, a grandfather to Windy and Michele, grandfather in law to Brian, and great-grandfather to Mia, Samuel, and Cody.
Those of you closest to Shirl know that you loved him and that he loved you. You will miss him dearly and at the same time you have faith that you shall see him again.
The Scripture Readings chosen for this service proclaim this message of hope.
In the Book of Wisdom, we are told that the souls of the just are in the hand of God. No more torment shall touch them. We believe that God welcomes Shirl to His everlasting care.
The twenty-third Psalm invites us to reflect upon the caring qualities of the Lord Our Shepherd. God guides us where we need to go. He leads Shirl through the shadow of death to a place of refreshment, light, and peace.
The Book of Revelation assures us that a person’s good works accompany him to the next life. Your lives will continue to be touched by memories of Shirl’s goodness.
In our Gospel today, Jesus speaks with His closest friends before He was to be crucified, rise again, and ascend to His Father. He assures them that even though they were in anguish then, He would see them again. Their hearts will some day rejoice and no one would be able to take their joy away from them.
May our hearts be confident that Shirl will rise again and know the fullness of joy in the presence of our Savior.
May this same Lord free us from fear, bring consolation and peace to our hearts, and assure us that not even death brings an end to the love with which He has blessed us.
Jennie M. Marino, 86 , of Niles, Ohio, died at 9:05AM Thursday, May 6, 2010, at Forum Health Trumbull Memorial Hospital in Warren, Ohio She was born March 27, 1924 in Niles the daughter of James and Maria Sando Ferruggio Jennie was a 1941 graduate of Niles McKinley High School, was employed at Pratt and Whitney Aircraft in Connecticut, a sales clek at Shaker Department Store in Niles, and the Director at The Niles City Income Tax Department. She was a member of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church in Niles and its Infant Jesus of Prague Guild. She helped sew clothing for the infants that were raffled off at the church festival's infant booth where she was a volunteer for 47 years. She was also a member of Niles City Retirees, Niles Democratic Club, and a Niles 2nd and 3rd Ward Precinct Committee Person for 20 years. She enjoyed sewing,gardening, and flowers Her husband Joseph A. Marino Sr. whom she married February 6, 1942 died June 14, 1992. She will be deeply missed by a son Joseph A. Marino Jr. and his wife Susan of Warren, three daughters,Mae Ritter and her husband Bill of St. Petersburg Florida. Mary Lou Hill and her husband James of McDonald, and Rita Jo Koehn and her husband Richard of Niles, a sister Filomena Donadio of Niles, nine grandchildren, William Ledsome Jr., Keith Ledsome, Lisa Hill November, Jim Hill, Jeffry Koehn, Dawn Koehn, Kim Marino, Joseph Marino III, and Jane Marino, and 10 great-grandchildren. She is preceded in death by her parents and a sister Josephine Ferruggio Friends may call from 4 to 7PM Saturday at The Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles where the Mt. Carmel Bereavement Ministry and The Infant Jesus of Prague Guild will conduct prayers at 6:30PM Mass of Christian Burial will be held 9:30AM Monday at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church in Niles, with Fr. Larry Frient officiating, preceded by a 9AM prayer service at the funeral home. Burial will be in Niles City Cemetery. Arrangements are being handled by The Joseph Rossi & Sons Funeral Home Inc in Niles. Condolences can be e-mailed at www.josephrossifuneralhome.com
Jennie M Marino
Born: 03-27-1924 Died: 05-06-2010 Funeral: 05-10-2010
Gospel: John 14:1-6
Homily:
This church has been such an important place for Jennie.
She was baptized by Father Nicola Santoro on June 6, 1926 as Giavannia Ferruggio.
This is where she shared the Eucharist so many times through the years.
Bishop McFadden, then serving as Auxiliary Bishop of Cleveland , confirmed Jennie here on May 15, 1934 along with many classmates that day.
Jennie and her beloved Joseph A. Marino exchanged wedding vows here before Father Guido Nardoni on February 6, 1942.
Jennie mourned Joe’s passing on June 14, 1992 and commended his soul to God as his Mass of Christian Burial was celebrated here two days later by Father Albert DePasquale as all who mourned her beloved Joe’s death prayed along.
This is where Jennie prayed so many times, brought her children to Mass, and worked for 47 years at the Festival to promote the Infant Jesus statues whose outfits she lovingly sewed.
In our Gospel specially chosen for today, we heard Jesus tell us that He has gone to prepare a place for people of faith.
This church was a place where faith was prepared for Jennie, and Jennie helped others prepare a place for the Lord in their hearts.
This church was truly a place of peace for Jennie, a place she dearly missed when her declining health made it impossible for her to be here nearly as often as she would have liked.
This city is the place where Jennie served as a sales clerk at the Shaker Department Store years ago, and worked as the Director of the Niles City Income Tax Department for 27 years.
This community is the place where Jennie encouraged people to participate in civic affairs.
And her home on Russell was where she tended her garden, admired beautiful flowers, and as we mentioned sewed like few if any people we’ve ever met could sew.
It is so fitting that we gather here, lifting our sadness to God’s care, expressing our gratitude to God for Jennie’s life.
It was always abundantly clear that her family was so important to her. You will remember her Sunday evening gatherings and will cherish those memories forever.
Think about the beauty of family meals in the house. What are they for? They provide times to share stories, to share food, and to give thanks for the gift of each other as we wish each other well with our support and love until we meet again.
I am ever so confident that Jennie would want us to remember that gathering here in God’s house is a special place where we listen to stories like the Scriptures we heard. It is where we share the Sacred Food Jesus gives to us. And truly, it is where we give thanks for each others’ presence in life and we constantly wish each other well as we journey forward until we meet again.
We ponder that story Jesus told. How He promised to prepare a place for those who put faith in Him. How strongly Jennie would believe those words. And how deep in her heart she longed to see Joe, wanted to find an end to her sufferings, and wished to be at peace with the Lord forever!
When I prayed with and for Jennie in her home the past few times and then twice at the hospital more recently, I knew this sad day would soon come. But I was even more convinced Jennie will always have a special place in our hearts.
And because our faith tells us that love lasts forever, not even death keeps us from having a place in Jennie’s heart.
Jesus has prepared a place for Jennie. Our hearts believe it. Now our hearts tell us that she is with Christ, with her beloved Joe Marino, and at home with all who have made this journey and took to heart the Words of the Lord. Until we meet again, we wish her well.
Even as our hearts ache, Jennie would want us to close with a message of hope. So we ponder the inspiration of Saint Julian of Norwich . It resounds, and we believe: “All shall be well and all shall be well; and all manner of things shall be well.” Amen!
Marisa L Vorndran, 54 of Fort Wayne, Ind., died Sunday, April 4, 2010, at her residence. Marisa was born July 25, 1955, in Livorno, Italy, the daughter of James and Adriana Gustin Tomlin. She was employed as an Independent SAP Consultant. Marisa will be deeply missed by her mother of Niles; husband, Andrew Vorndran of Fort Wayne; a daughter, Kristin Kramer of Noblesville, Ind.; a son, Michael Kramer of Fort Wayne; and two nephews, Brian Tomlin of Mineral Ridge and Scott Tomlin of Niles. She was preceded in death by her father and brother, Robert Tomlin. A memorial service will be held 10:30 a.m. Friday at the Niles City Cemetery Chapel with the Reverend Father Lawrence E. Frient officiating. Arrangements are being handled by Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles.
Marisa Vorndran
Born: 07-25-1955 Died: 04-04-2010 Burial: 04-16-10
Scriptures: Lamentations 3:17-26 Psalm 23 Luke 24:1-8
Reflection:
As we gather here this morning, I assure everyone close to Marisa that the people of Our Lady of Mount Carmel Parish are praying for you. We know that recent times associated with her illness and death have been difficult and we support you.
Some of you present here knew her best of all during her years here in Niles and others knew her during the past two dozen years in Indiana.
We trust that the Lord touches our hearts with assurances of His love no matter how long we have known her and no matter where her life touched ours.
We listened to God’s Word. The readings assure us of God’s care.
The author of the Book of Lamentations was convinced that the Lord would fill him with hope even though he faced some very difficult times.
Marisa knew the sadness associated with mourning the death of her father and the death of her brother. May God enable all who have gone before us to rejoice in His presence forever. We pray that the Lord will fill us with hope as we remember the many ways Marisa touched many lives by means of her intelligence, work, travels, and interactions with those she loved.
The one who penned the twenty-third Psalm believed that the Lord would guide us in safety to the place where we need to go. We believe that Marisa’s sufferings have ended and that our merciful Lord will take her into His care.
Marisa was called home to Jesus on Easter Sunday. Our Gospel reading from Luke recalls how those who went to the tomb of Jesus expecting to find His lifeless body. But they were reminded that Jesus promised to rise from the dead. They remembered His words. Following our Lord’s terrible suffering, He was raised to new life and glorified.
Our faith invites us to remember the words of Jesus. He has been raised. He gives Marisa the hope of rising again. He promises each of us that if we put our faith in Him, we will rise to a glorious life where there is no more suffering and pain.
May God comfort us in our sorrow, bolster our faith in His Son, and carry us through every difficulty we face.
Yolanda Agati, 77, of Niles died at 7:10PM Monday, April 5, 2010, at The Cleveland Clinic. She was born January 1, 1933 in Giosa Marea, Sicily, Italy the daughter of Antonino and Antonina Buzzanco Deluca. Yolanda was employed for 18 years at Tony's Pizza Shop in Niles before retiring in 1992. She was a member of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church in Niles, Niles Scope, enjoyed cooking, playing bocce, and cards. Yolanda, who devoted her entire life to the happiness of her family, will be deeply missed by her husband Carlo Agati whom she married October 14, 1961 in Sicily, two sons, Guiseppe Agati and his wife Lori of Lordstown, and Antonino Agati and his wife Marshawn of Vienna, a daughter Antoinette Roberts and her husband Dino of Powell, Ohio, a sister Caterina Natoli of Sicily, five grandchildren, Alicia Agati, Joey Agati, Angela Agati, Mariah Roberts, and Dino Roberts Jr, and a nephew Sam Deluca and his wife Josephine. She is preceded in death by six brothers, Filippo Deluca, Salvatore Deluca, Natale Deluca, Guiseppe Deluca, Carmen Deluca, and Guy Deluca, and three sisters, Josephina Deluca, Nancy D'Agati, and Rosa Deluca. Friends may call from 5 to 8PM Thursday at The Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles where The Mt. Carmel Bereavement Ministry will conduct prayers at 7:30PM. Mass of Christian Burial will be held 9:30AM Friday at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church in Niles, with Fr. Larry Frient officiating, preceded by a 9AM prayer service at the funeral home. Burial will be in Pineview Cemetery. Arrangements are being handled by Joseph Rossi & Sons Funeral Home Inc. in Niles. Condolences can be e-mailed at www.josephrossifuneralhome.com.
Yolanda Agati
Born: January 1, 1933 Died: April 5, 2010 Funeral: April 9, 2010
Gospel: Luke 9:10-17
Homily:
On behalf of everyone belonging to this parish, I extend condolences to everyone closest to Yolanda. We know that recent times have been difficult for you and we assure you of our prayerful support.
Yolanda was born January 1, 1933 in Giosa Marea in the Italian Province of Sicily. She graced your lives in many ways.
Many of you remember the eighteen years she worked at Tony’s Pizza Shop.
We remember her loyalty to this parish, her participation in Niles Scope activities, and how she enjoyed playing bocce and cards.
Most of all, we give thanks to God for her wonderful dedication to her family. You remember how she gave and gave without ever expecting anything back.
This past half-year has been very difficult for Yolanda and for everyone close to her. She demonstrated such a strong-willed determination throughout her struggles, and it is now that we must commend her to the everlasting care of the Lord. It is only by loving and supporting each other and by our prayers for each other that we can make it through this time of need.
We pray for the grace to remember happier and healthier times.
Many of us celebrated her and Carlo’s forty-fifth anniversary of marriage when we gathered slightly less than three and a half years ago.
How often she lovingly prepared meals and was so glad to feed anyone and everyone who came to her home.
It is with her esteem for food in mind that we chose today’s Gospel story from the Book of Luke. As Jesus was teaching and healing many people, the day was drawing to a close. The apostles wanted Jesus to dismiss the crowds so that they could go and get something to eat. But Jesus had other plans. Despite the fact that only five loaves and two fish were available, the Lord enabled everyone present to eat and be satisfied.
As we mourn Yolanda’s passing from us, we realize that the Lord gives her a gift we could not give. Jesus gives her life everlasting. While she was in the Cleveland Clinic, the Lord called her home the day after Easter Sunday. We are reminded during this time of year to put our faith in a Risen Lord who has powers that we do not have.
Jesus was able to feed the multitude. Jesus was able to rise from the dead so that Yolanda and all of us could rise again.
Christ feeds us here at His table with His Body broken for us, and nourishes us with His Precious Blood shed for the remission of our sins.
We trust that He is with us in the gift of the loving support we have for each other.
We trust that He will be with us always and console us in His never-ending love.
We trust that He will nurture the many positive memories we have of Yolanda, and that He will enable her goodness to continue to nourish our lives and influence the unselfish ways we interact with those God puts into our lives.
May Yolanda rest in the peace of the Risen Christ and be filled with new life.
May the Risen Christ fill us with never-ending love and sustain us at all times.
Mafalda T. ''Folly'' Villio, 78, died Sunday, April 4, 2010, at Liberty Health Care Center after a brief illness. She was born Oct. 16, 1931, in Carnegie, Pa., a daughter of Nazzareno and Esther Morrow Talmonti. She retired from Packard Electric Plant 11 in 1992 after 29 years of service as a service/relief person. Folly, as she was known to her friends, was a member of Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church of Niles and was a volunteer worker at the church festival. She enjoyed playing cards, crocheting, her trips to Mountaineer Park and family activities. Folly was truly a warm, friendly, and genuine person who was there to help anyone and everyone. She was called by many names - Folly, Tilly, Grammy, Mum - by those close to her. She will be truly missed and remembered. She is survived by her husband, Daniel D. ''Moose'' Villio Sr., whom she married November 4, 1950; daughter Jamie Villio Taneri of Champion; son Daniel D. Jr. of Niles; grandchildren, Jennifer Taneri of Cuyahoga Falls, Tony Taneri of Champion, Daniel D.Villio III of Niles and Raffaela McCarty of Warren; and great-grandchildren Destiny Marie, Noah and Moses. She also leaves sisters, Norma (Ray) Vock and Agnes (Frank) Falleroni, both of Carnegie, Pa. She also is survived by her best friend, Peggy Villio Fonce, with whom she had a special bond. She enjoyed the simple things in life - like just sitting on Peggy's patio having a cup of coffee, enjoying the conversation and company. She was preceded in death by her parents; a sister, Marie Maust; and brothers, Carmen, Edward, Philip and John Talmonti, all formerly of Carnegie, Pa. A Mass of Christian Burial will be 10 a.m. Thursday at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church with the Rev. Larry Frient officiating. Friends may call from 5 to 8 p.m. Wednesday at the Holloway-Williams Funeral Home, 611 Robbins Ave., Niles. Interment will be in Niles City Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that contributions be made to the American Cancer Society or to Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church. Her family would like to say that Grammy had a special fondness for angels during her time here on Earth. She is now OUR ANGEL, looking down on us from Heaven: "How is it that I never saw your wings when you were here with me? When you closed your eyes and soared to the Heavens I could hear the faint flutter of your wings as you left. Your body is no longer on this side but your spirit will be here eternally."
Mafalda Villio
Born:
October 16, 1931 Died: April 4, 2010 Funeral: April 8, 2010
Gospel: John 14:1-6
Homily:
Those closest to Folly know how much she loved angels.
And as we gather to commend her to the everlasting care of God, we pray that the angels may lead her to be with Jesus forever.
We pray for everyone closest to Folly. God knows how dedicated she was to “Moose” for more than 59 years of marriage, and how she was devoted to her family and friends.
We thank God for the memories of her care for others despite the many challenges she faced in her lifetime.
We remember her esteem for sewing and crocheting and we give thanks for the things she mended and the items she created as signs of her love.
Folly’s hard work at Packard for 29 years was balanced by her ability to enjoy playing cards, going to Mountaineer Park, sitting on the porch enjoying coffee and conversation, cheering for the Pittsburgh Steelers, paying attention to dogs and cats, and volunteering here at our parish festival. Her presence and dedication will be missed.
The Lord called her home on Easter Sunday following five months of illness and we trust in the new life Jesus offers to her and in the hope the Lord offers to each one of us.
You remember the fun she had celebrating Moose’s 80th birthday and commemorating her 59th wedding anniversary this past autumn. Folly knew how to celebrate life and we give thanks for the gift of her life.
The life of Jesus was marked by unselfishness. He gave His life on the cross, demonstrating that God was willing to sacrifice His own needs to offer us the gift of unconditional love and hope for everlasting life.
You will often remember those in your life who made this love come alive for you by how they lived. We give thanks for the ways Folly led us to the love of Jesus by her unconditional love, sacrifices, and genuine care.
The death of one close to us reminds us of the fragile nature of life. Many people who were close to Folly completed life’s journey before her. Today, as we stand before the Lord and offer the gift of Folly’s life, we pray that all who have gone before us might be reunited in a bond of everlasting peace.
May the songs of the angels welcome her and lead her to God’s care. May love that never ends permeate our lives each time we remember Folly, and may our lives be reflections of this love.
Frank A. Melillo, 92 , of Niles, died at 9:25PM Sunday, April 4, 2010, at St. Joseph Health Center Eastland in Warren, Ohio. He was born September 25, 1917 in Niles the son of Phillip and Rose Bianco Melillo. Frank was a 1935 graduate of Niles McKinley High School, attended Youngstown College, and graduated from Cleveland Barber School. He was a self-employed barber for 40 years before retiring in 1977, a member of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church in Niles, Niles Knights of Columbus Council #1681, Catholic Men’s Club, and an original member of The Niles Frontliners. He enjoyed fishing, bowling, an avid golfer, and a United States Army veteran of World War II. He will be deeply missed by his wife Marie Soda Melillo whom he married September 13, 1941, a son Philip Melillo and his wife Marilyn of Niles, a daughter Donna Natoli and her husband Richard of Girard, a brother Ray Melillo and his wife Jean of Niles, four grandchildren, Phillip Melillo , Frank Melillo and his wife Erin, Joseph Natoli, and Jennifer Natoli, and three great-grandchildren, Olivia and Angelina Callihan, and Juliana Natoli He is preceded in death by two brothers William Melillo and Raymond Melillo and a sister Angeline Soda. Friends may call Wednesday from 11AM to 1:30PM at The Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles Mass of Christian Burial will be held 2PM Wednesday at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church with Fr. Larry Frient officiating, preceded by a 1:30PM prayer service at the funeral home. Burial will be in Niles City Cemetery where Frank will be honored for his military service by The Trumbull County American Legion Honor Guard. Arrangements are being handled by The Joseph Rossi & Sons Funeral Home Inc.,in Niles. Condolences can be e-mailed at www.josephrossifuneralhome.com.
Frank Melillo
Born: September 25, 1917 Died: April 4, 2010 Funeral: April 7, 2010
Gospel: John 21:1-14
Homily:
On October 21, 1917, in the old building that used to stand just west of this spot before this building was constructed, Francesco Angelo Melillo was baptized by Father Nicola Santoro. Frank’s life was joined to the life, death, and resurrection of Jesus Christ.
Three days ago, at 9:25 PM, as believers in Jesus commemorated Christ’s rising to new life, Frank’s journey through this life was completed. Following more than 92 ½ years of life, your loved one was welcomed home to be with our saving Lord forever.
My friends, on behalf of the entire parish, I extend my condolences to you. Frank was very active at this parish during happier and healthier times. He was a member of the Knights of Columbus. He helped with the construction of the school building when the parish was growing so rapidly. He really enjoyed many card games with his friends belonging to this church.
This afternoon, the Risen Jesus seeks to touch our lives with words of consolation as we recall the many ways Frank touched your lives as a member of your family. Ever since his father completed his life’s journey, Frank occupied the chair at the head of the table at your Christmas, Easter, and other family celebrations and you trust that the Lord will be with you as you share future meals and miss him dearly.
You give thanks for the ways he took care of his family, for his dedication to Marie throughout more than 68 ½ years of marriage, for the myriad of ways he expressed love for his children, siblings, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, all to whom he was known as “Uncle Frank”, all of his relatives, in-laws, members of the extended family, and friends.
Our nation is grateful for his service to the United States Army during World War II, and Frank will be honored for this by The Trumbull County American Legion Honor Guard when we go to Niles City Cemetery.
We know that you will often remember the many good times you shared, and stories will abound.
You ponder the many stories that were told in the barber shop from 1937-1977 when Frank followed in the footsteps of his father and cut the hair of so many residents of this city. He had a way of commanding respect and those who knew him were glad to give it to him because he deserved it.
You also think about the stories that were told at football games and at Niles Frontliners meetings as Frank enjoyed membership an original member of that organization.
You recall the ways he enjoyed golfing and bowling with his buddies. You smile when you think of him cheering for the Cleveland Browns and some of you recall spending Sunday afternoons at old Cleveland Municipal Stadium to watch the Browns when they were successful. Some of you are especially fond of the memories of fishing with Frank, making trips to Canada to enjoy God’s great outdoors.
His handyman skills touched the lives of family members and of the many people who were tenants in the apartments he owned.
We commend Frank to the Lord on this Wednesday within the week of Easter Sunday. We chose the Gospel story of Jesus revealing Himself to His disciples for the third time. The story takes place on the Sea of Tiberius. You heard the touching story about those closest to Christ returning to their lives as fishermen and then encountering the Risen Jesus who directs them to a successful catch of fish and shares breakfast with them.
We are about to share a Sacred Meal in memory of Jesus. In His goodness, Jesus chooses to be very close to us in this sharing. We lift up our memories of Frank and trust that Jesus will continue to nourish us with love and strength during this time of need.
May the Lord bless our memories, keep us in His care, and fill us with grateful assurance that Frank is at peace and that his goodness will forever touch our lives.
Rose M. Butto, 85, NILES - Rose M. Butto, 85, of Niles, passed away late Tuesday evening, March 30, 2010, at her residence. Rose was born July 17, 1924, in Niles, the daughter of Anthony and Theresa Ambrose Salerno. Rose married Samuel A. Butto May 7, 1955. Sam died one week before his wife on March 23 of this year. Rose was a very courageous woman who overcame many obstacles in her life. She and Sam did it together. Everyone who knew her has their own memory of how she touched their life. Rose will be sadly missed by her brothers, Frank, Morris and Joe Salerno, and sister, Carmel Vennetti. She was preceded in death by her parents; her husband Sam, who was her primary caregiver that words cannot describe; and her sister, Mary Cannell. The family wishes to extend special thanks to Anice Jones, Phylis Rogers, Home Instead, especially Melissa, and MVI Hospice. The family requests that no flowers be sent. Donation can be made to MVI Hospice, 4891 Belmont Ave., Youngstown, OH 44505. A prayer service will begin at 11 a.m. and visitation will be from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. Saturday at Crown Hill Chapel Mausoleum in Vienna. Fr. Larry Frient will officiate. Burial will take place in Crown Hill Burial Park. Selby-Simpson Funeral Home handled the arrangements.
Rose M. Butto
Born: July 17, 1924 Died: March 30, 2010 Funeral: April 3, 2010
Gospel: John 6:3-15
Homily:
I extend my condolences to each and every one of you. We know that such a short time before Rose was called home to be with the Lord her beloved husband Sam answered that call. Our faith reminds us that they are invited to be together forever in the loving embrace of the Lord.
Among the fondest memories many have concerning Rose includes memories of how she loved to cook. Growing up in the era of the Great depression, Rose knew how important it was to be grateful for the gifts one had and to share in a spirit of love. This is why we chose the Gospel that was proclaimed a few moments ago. In the story of the Feeding of the Multitude, a boy was willing to share the little he had – five barley loaves and a couple of fish – and Jesus was able to use this unselfishness to touch the lives of many. Rose loved to touch your lives through the gift of food and by simply providing a place where you could share your lives with her and she and Sam could share their lives with you.
Just yesterday, Christians throughout the world prayerfully remembered Good Friday. We called to mind the loving way Jesus gave His life for us. And as we reflect on this love, we realize that Rose knew a share in the sufferings of Christ. Like Jesus, she bore her crosses courageously. She overcame many obstacles in her life. Each and every one of you has special memories of how she and Sam touched your lives.
Today, we await the celebration of Easter Sunday. The greatest feast of the entire Church Year reminds us that Jesus Christ conquered the chains of death and gives us all a chance to rise again. Our faith tells us that Sam and Rose will rise again, thanks to the enormous love the Lord has for them.
We give thanks for the love of the Lord shown to us by means of their lives, and pray that all of us might know and share the wonderful love of Christ each time we remember them.
Dan S. Cella, 73 of Niles, Ohio, died at 6:14AM Thursday, March 25, 2010, at St. Elizabeth Health Center in Youngstown. He was born May 3, 1936 in Niles the son of Lawrence and Concetta Prezioso Cella. Dan was employed as a millwright in The Coke Plant at LTV (Republic Steel) in Warren for 36 years before retiring in 1995. He was a lifelong member of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church in Niles, and was a United States Army veteran. Dan, who was a kind and gentle man who loved and was adored by his family. He will be deeply missed by his wife Sharon Adler Cella whom he married September 27, 1965, son David Cella of Dublin, Ohio, daughter Danielle Urrea and her husband Julio of Chicago, Illinois, sister Dolores Infante of Niles, sister-in-law Ida Cella, brother-in-law Austin Capella, and many beloved nieces and nephews. He is preceded in death by two brothers, Joseph J. Cella Sr. and John T. Cella, and three sisters, Antoinette Capella, Mary Fonce, and Edith Cella. Friends may call from 2 to 5PM Sunday at The Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles where the Mt. Carmel Bereavement Ministry will conduct prayers at 4:30PM. Mass of Christian Burial will be at 9:30AM Monday at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church in Niles, with Fr. Larry Frient officiating, preceded by a 9AM prayer service at the funeral home. Burial will be in Niles City Cemetery where Dan will be honored for his military service by The Trumbull County American Legion Honor Guard. Arrangements are being handled by The Joseph Rossi & Sons Funeral Home Inc.,in Niles. Condolences can be e-mailed at www.josephrossifuneralhome.com.
Dan S Cella
Born: 5/3/1936 Died: 3/25/ 2010 Funeral 3/29/2010
Gospel: : John 11:32-45
Homily:
So many members of this parish loved Dan. Certainly we share the deep loss experienced by members of Dan’s family, we assure everyone of our prayerful and loving support.
We think of how important it is to be called by name. You knew him as Dan. Some of you called him “Big D”, or you knew him as your father or uncle.
Yes, being called by name is so important. And it is with this thought in mind that I call our attention to something Dan never really talked about and many people did not really know.
If you look into the Baptism records of this church, you find that Dan was baptized here by Father Nicola Santoro as Donato. That name means “Gift.” Some have told me that his middle name was Salvatore. That name means “Savior.” Put together, his name would mean “The Gift of the Savior.” And even though Dan never wanted to be called Donato, we give thanks for the many ways his life was a gift that brought those closest to Dan closer to the saving love given to us by the Lord.
The ancient poet Sophocles said that it is not until the evening that the meaning of the day becomes clear.
The same could be said for our appreciation of the meaning of Dan’s life.
It becomes ever so clear that his life was a gift.
Dan’s life was a gift to his sister Dolores, sister-in-law Ida, and brother-in-law Austin.
Those who have known Dan his entire life remember the years he spent growing up on Mason Street, and then eventually serving in the United States Army.
His life was a special gift to the former Sharon Adler, with whom Dan shared more than forty-five years of marriage. Many were the times he gave the gift of helping in the kitchen, peeling potatoes and making the meatballs for his soup and sauce.
His life was a special gift to David and Danielle, and all of us remember how proud he was of their accomplishments and how very proud he was to walk Danielle down this very aisle the day Danielle and Julio pledged a lifetime of love to each other.
Dan’s life was a gift to everyone whose lives were made better by means of his handy-man skills when he’d fix things that needed to be repaired.
Dan’s gift for conversation with relatives and friends who would come over to share a cup of coffee always made life interesting and refreshing for those who encountered him.
Dan really enjoyed following Cleveland sports teams, especially the Cavaliers. Even though the Indians and Browns are not always successful (to say the least), it was a gift to hear Dan talk about their games.
Every one of you will carry a special memory in your heart of the many ways Dan touched your lives and was a gift to you.
That is why it is so difficult to say goodbye to Dan.
You pray for the grace to remember the many good times, even as the memory of the events this past week are still so prominent in your minds.
You pray for the grace to let Jesus call Dan to Himself, to untie Dan from the limitations of this world and to alleviate whatever distress the final events of this life brought to him and to us.
Our Gospel this morning is so appropriate this Monday of Holy Week as we continually commemorate the saving death and life giving resurrection of Jesus.
We hear about the great love Jesus had for His friend Lazarus who died. Jesus wept, and we trust this same saving Lord to be with us in our grief and to dry our tears in due time.
Jesus told the people at the tomb of Lazarus that if they believed, they would see the saving glory of God.
And as we commend Dan to the loving care of the Lord, we believe Jesus shares this gift of salvation with Dan and with us. Even as we ponder the many ways Dan’s life was a gift to those around him and our lives were gifts for Dan, we realize that Jesus can give to Dan what we could not give – the gift of life that lasts forever. As we faced the difficult realities at St. Elizabeth Hospital and pondered the sad options there were, we perceived the Lord saying to us what Jesus said at the tomb of His friend Lazarus : “Untie him and let him go free.”
We lovingly untie Dan from the bonds of this earth, realizing that his life now forever changed will never stop being a gift to us. And we trust in a Savior who wants to welcome Dan to His care forever and patiently loves us and guides us all our days until we are with Him and Dan forever.
Sam A. Butto NILES - Sam A. Butto, 81, of Niles, died Tuesday, March 23, 2010. Sam was born April 18, 1928, in Clearfield, Pa., the son of Joseph and Lena Natoli Butto. He married Rose Salerno on May 7, 1955. Sam served during the Korean War in the U.S. Air Reserve. He retired from RMI after 28 years of service and enjoyed meeting his buddies at McDonald's for coffee in the morning, fishing, reading and dinners with his family. He made the best vodka tonics. Sam will be sadly missed by his wife, Rose, sister, Ageline Costello of Youngstown, nephews, nieces, sisters-in-law and close friends. His parents; two baby brothers, Frank and Francesca; sisters, Lena (Phil) Natoli and Josephine (Joseph) Accordino; and brother-in-law and fishing partner Fred Costello, preceded Sam in death. The family would like to extend a special thanks to all his caregivers, Anice Jones, Home Instead, MVI Hospice, the Hope Center and Dr. Bhatti. Memorial donations may be made to MVI Hospice Care, 4891 Belmont Ave., Youngstown, Ohio 44505. There will be no calling hours. Sam will be laid to rest at Crown Hill Burial Park. Selby-Simpson Funeral Home handled the arrangements.
Anthony L Natoli, 81 formerly of South Bentley and 1823 Robbins Ave., the family homestead, died at 5:45 p.m. Sunday, March 21, 2010, in St. Elizabeth Health Center. Mr. Natoli was born Nov. 14, 1928, on Scott Street in Niles, a son of Sam and Anna Raschilla Natoli, spending his lifetime here. A member of Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church, he was an avid golfer and had been employed by American Welding as a tow motor operator for 25 years, retiring in 1989. He was a U.S. Army and U.S. Navy veteran, serving both during World War II. He was a member of the Burdette Edgar Totten VFW Post 6263, Gustavus. He was preceded in death by a brother, Sam. Survivors include his two brothers, Phillip J. of San Francisco and Rocco F. of Warren; his sister, Mrs. Connie T. Bell of Niles; and several nephews and nieces. Memorial services will be held at 10 a.m. Thursday in Niles City Cemetery with the Rev. Larry Frient officiating. Burial will be in the Veteran Section of Niles City Cemetery, where Mr. Natoli will be honored and recognized by the American Legion Honor Guard for his service to our country. The family requests that material tributes take the form of contributions to the Tuition Angel Fund of St. Stephen School, 129 W. Park Ave., Niles 44446. Arrangements and care has been entrusted to the Robert P. McDermott Memorial Home, 614 Warren Ave., Niles.
Anthony L. Natoli
Born: Nov. 14, 1928 Died: March 21, 2010 Funeral: March 25, 2010
Readings: Job19:1, 23-27 Psalm 27 Mark 15:33-39
Homily:
On behalf of everyone at OLMC Church, I extend condolences to all of you who were close to Anthony and assure you of our prayers.
Anthony spent his lifetime here in Niles, except for the service to our country in both the United States Army and United States Navy during World War II for which he will be honored by the American Legion Honor Guard.
You remember him as a quiet and laid back man who enjoyed his golf. Anthony worked for American Welding as a tow motor operator for 25 years before retiring more than 20 years ago.
We have listened to God’s Word.
The author of the Book of Job expressed the biblical character Job’s belief in an afterlife. He wrote those words long before the time of Jesus, believing that with his own eyes he would behold his Vindicator.
Today, we believe that Anthony is given the chance to see God face to face.
Our Psalm reminded us that the Lord is our Light and our salvation. He alleviates our suffering, calms our fears, and leads us to the fullness of life.
This morning, we believe that this same Lord wants to let His perpetual light shine upon Anthony.
During this Lenten Season, many people often reflect about the saving death Jesus endured for our sake.
This morning, having listened to the selection from the Gospel of Mark about when Jesus breathed His last, we give thanks for the gift of salvation He offers to Anthony and to all people. We believe that Jesus was truly the Son of God and we give thanks not only for the love He showed us unto death, but also for His glorious resurrection that we will soon celebrate come Easter Sunday, His rising from the dead that gives Anthony and all people of faith the chance to rise again and live forever.
May the Lord welcome Anthony to His loving care, console us in our sorrow, and fill us with never-ending gratitude for God’s goodness.
Rocky F. Riviella, 70 of Niles, died at 1:46 p.m. Wednesday, March 17, 2010, at St. Joseph Health Center in Warren. He was born Oct. 10, 1939, in Niles, the son of Lawrence and Mary Bianco Riviella. Mr. Riviella was a 1957 graduate of Niles McKinley High School and was employed as an electrician for IBEW Local 573 in Warren for 30 years before retiring in 1992. A member of Our Lady of Mount Carmel Catholic Church in Niles, he enjoyed golfing and was a U.S. Army veteran. He will be deeply missed by his wife, Eleanor Peel Riviella, whom he married Oct. 15, 1966; a son, Rocky L. Riviella and his wife, Nancy, of Apex, N.C.; a sister, Claudette Altobelli and her husband, John, of Niles; and three grandchildren, Corrine, Kristen and Rocky R. Memorial services will be held 2 p.m. Friday at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Catholic Church in Niles with the Rev. Larry Frient officiating. Memorial contributions can be made to The American Stroke Association or American Heart Association, both at 7272 Greenville Ave., Dallas, Texas 75231. Condolences may be sent by visiting www.josephrossifuneralhome.com. Arrangements are being handled by The Joseph Rossi & Sons Funeral Home Inc. in Niles.
Rocky F. Riviella, 70
Born: October 10, 1939 Died: March 17, 2010 Funeral: March 19, 2010
Gospel: John 14:1-6
Homily:
On behalf of the people of Our Lady of Mount Carmel Parish, I extend my condolences to Rocky’s family members and friends. You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
We know that Rocky touched your lives in many deep and lasting ways. He worked hard as an electrician for thirty years before retiring in 1992. During that time, he experienced the joys of being able to apply the skills of his trade effectively to enhance the quality of life for those whose lives were touched by his talents, and he knew the difficulties of having to endure periods of time when there was not enough work and he was laid off.
Rocky served this country in the United States Army.
You remember the many ways he was so very thoughtful of his family members, how he was always there for you and was devoted and caring.
We gather here today offering Rocky’s entire life to God, just as Jesus offered His life to His Father and shares His life with us here at this special and sacred meal.
This Lenten season reminds us of the journey Jesus took known as the Way of the Cross. In that journey, Jesus lovingly poured out His very self to make us whole.
In the Gospel today, Jesus reinforces His teaching concerning who He is. We are reminded that Jesus is the Way, the Truth, and the Life. We commend Rocky to the Lord mindful of this teaching and confident that Jesus has prepared a place for Rocky.
Jesus is the Way. The miracles He worked brought wholeness to people. The love Christ demonstrated is beyond what we can describe. We ponder the suffering Rocky experienced, how Rocky was paralyzed on his left side for the past nineteen years, and we trust in a Lord who is able to make him whole and relieve all of the difficulty associated with this.
Jesus is the Truth. His love was never compromised. We ponder Rocky’s determination throughout all of his challenges and we believe in a God who can strengthen us and lift us up in the midst of our grieving, because by being the very Truth, Jesus can set Rocky free from the limitations of this life and can fill us with hope in life everlasting.
Jesus is the Life. During Lent, we remember not only the journey known as the Way of the Cross, but the fact that the life Jesus seeks to share with us did not come to an end when Jesus died. Truly, Jesus knew the reality of death, a most painful death on the Cross. But His resurrection from the dead on the third day is the very basis for the newness of life He promised to bring. And because Rocky’s faith and our faith are rooted in this rising from the dead, Rocky is invited to share life with Christ forever and we are invited to know this fullness of life as well.
May the voice of Jesus resound in our hearts as we firmly believe that He asks us to remember Him as loving us.
May our memories of Rocky’s life, which so often reflected the love of Christ, carry us through and fill us with hope. Death does not have the last word. The new life Christ promises supersedes all the limitations of this world and its pain and grief.
May Rocky know the love we express for him in our prayers together, and may he be led through the gates of paradise by the Lord who loves him and loves us at all times.
Anthony L Roberts, 70, of Niles, died Thursday, March 11, 2010, at Forum Health Trumbull Memorial Hospital. He was born Dec. 8, 1939 in Warren, a son of Louie and Mary Rizzi Roberts. A lifelong Niles resident, Anthony was a 1957 graduate of Niles McKinley High School and a graduate of Youngstown State University with a business degree. He retired as a supervisor in labor relations at the Lordstown General Motors plant in 2002 after 35 years of service. He was a member of Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church of Niles and the San Fillip Club. Anthony was a military veteran, serving his country as a member of the United States Marine Corps in Beirut in 1958. He enjoyed golfing, reading and the time he got to spend with his grandchildren. Anthony is survived by his wife, Florence Migliozzi Roberts, whom he married on June 1, 1968; a son, Lou (Sherry) Roberts of Greenville, S.C.; grandchildren, Anthony, Ashley and Michael Roberts; a brother, Nick (Sally) Roberts of Naples, Fla.; and his mother, Mary. He was preceded in death by his son, Anthony F. Roberts; daughter, Mary Roberts; and his father, Louie Roberts. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 10 a.m. Tuesday at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church of Niles, with the Rev. Father Lawrence E. Frient officiating. Friends may call from 5 to 8 p.m. Monday at the Holloway-Williams Funeral Home, 611 Robbins Ave., Niles. Entombment will be at Pineview Memorial Park. The family request the material contributions be made to the Hope Lodge in Cleveland in care of the Funeral Home. Condolences may be e-mailed to hollowaywilliamsfh@sbcglobal.net
Anthony L Roberts
Born: December 8, 1939 Died: March 11, 2010 Funeral: March 16, 2010
Readings: Lamentations 3: 17-26 1 Corinthians 13: 4-7 John 15:9-12
Homily:
All of us here at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Parish extend our condolences to Anthony’s family. Years ago, he served as President of the Parish Pastoral Council. In times gone by, he used to cook at fundraisers here along with his wife, family members, and friends. Be assured of our prayerful support.
Anthony touched your lives in many ways, and we give thanks to God for this.
He was intelligent, read many books, and was well-respected. He was successful in his career dealing with labor relations with General Motors from the salaried workers’ perspective. Yet, it was remarkable that many of his friends were those who sat at the opposite side of the table.
Anthony found it so very important to make time for those closest to him. Stories abound concerning the many hours he coached baseball and basketball, yet found it ever so important to share family vacation time, and treated his in-laws as if they were his very own siblings.
Those of you closest to him leaned on him and depended on him as a rock of strength in your lives during many difficult times, including Mary’s death and his son Anthony’s unexpected passing nearly three years ago.
Thinking about Anthony leads us to turn to God’s Word for support during a time when so many other words are difficult to come by.
We heard the message of the Book of Lamentations. The words resound in our hearts. The author expressed his deepest and most profound feelings in our First Reading this morning. He expressed bitter sadness because his soul was deprived of peace. He told us that he had forgotten what happiness is. But some how, some way, that author prayerfully and reflectively called to mind reason to have hope. He prayerfully searched his heart. Just as we must search our hearts during the most trying of times, the author of the Book of Lamentations searched his heart, and what did he realize? He came to the conclusion that God’s favors were not exhausted. He believed they were renewed each morning, that even during the most difficult times, God can fill us with hope.
I believe that God seeks to fill us with hope today and throughout the days, weeks, months, and years that follow this day.
The Lord will remind us that Anthony shared his love in a myriad of ways and God will inspire us to be channels of love.
The Lord enabled Anthony to be a person of rock-solid faith, and he will enable us to be strengthened as time passes.
The Lord will invite us to remember that faith, hope, and love last forever, and that not even the reality of death cuts us off from God’s love or the love of those who have been welcomed to the everlasting care of the Lord.
I saw Anthony one week ago at the hospital. I knew he faced significant challenges and Anthony prayed together with me in the midst of his pain.
Today, we pray in the midst of each other, believing the Lord is with us, trusting that Anthony knows no more suffering and pain, hoping that he is with those he mourned so intensely who completed this journey before him.
May God be with us as we grieve, fill us with strong faith, remind us that His gift of hope is present in our hearts, and assure us that love never ends.
May we live on in the spirit of the love of Jesus, a love that was expressed in numerous ways through Anthony’s life.
May love be at the center of all that we do and carry us through.
Helen E. Chuirazzi, 85 died 5:58pm Wednesday March 10th at her residence in Niles. She was born March 31, 1924 in Youngstown the daughter of Joseph and Sandy Ross Amendol. A 1943 Graduate of Austintown Fitch High School, she spent most of her life being the “best” homemaker possible. Helen was a member of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church in Niles and enjoyed traveling, going to casino’s, bowling, baking, cooking, playing bingo and spending time with her grandchildren. She will be deeply missed by her husband Louis “Mice” Chuirazzi , whom she married October 1, 1949, a son Nick Chuirazzi and his wife Norma of Niles, two daughters Annette “Nettie” Ricci of Girard and Louann Horvat and her husband Joseph of Niles, a brother Bill Amendol and his wife Bertha of Austintown, two sisters Carmel Morabito of Austintown and Jean Sandora of Stewart, FL., 5 grandchildren Justin, Matthew, Michael, Joey and Anthony and a Great-Grandson Eric. In addition to her parents, she is preceded in death by a son-in-law James Ricci, a brother Arthur Amendol and a sister Mary Pitzulo. Friends may call Monday March 15th from 8:30am until the time of the 9:30am Memorial Service at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church in Niles. Burial will be in Niles City Cemetery Condolences may be e-mailed by visiting www.josephrossifuneralhome.com. "Gone in body but forever in our hearts. We will always love you"
Helen E. Chuirazzi
Born: March 31, 1924 Died: March 10, 2010 Memorial Mass: March 15, 2010
Gospel: Luke 23:44-46, 50, 52-53 (Into your hands I commend my spirit)
Homily:
Helen found it so important to worship here among us for many years.
The people of this parish extend condolences to Louis, with whom she shared more than sixty years of marriage, and to everyone in the family who meant so much to Helen. We believe that just as we shall never forget her, she will always remember us lovingly.
Later in this service, we will hear Words of Remembrance. You’ll recall how Helen was the best homemaker possible, how she enjoyed traveling, visiting places where one hopes to gain a few dollars, bowling, baking, cooking, playing bingo and spending time with her sisters, brothers, grandchildren, and everyone in the family
Now, we lift up Helen’s life in the context of a strong and lasting faith.
How often she prayed for people. How patiently she endured her illnesses. How sincere was her concern for everyone else.
On a personal note, I certainly enjoyed my visits with Helen at her home and at the hospital.
This Season of Lent reminds us of the journey Jesus took, giving His life so that we might live forever. We look around the walls of the church and see the various Stations of the Cross, where Christ experienced various forms of suffering and touched many people along the way with assurances of His love.
Today, we compare Helen’s life to that journey of Jesus. When Helen was baptized, she was given the name Helen. Tradition tells us that Saint Helen was the one who discovered the true cross centuries after Jesus was crucified. Helen Chuirazzi knew a share in Christ’s sufferings not only by means of the illnesses that afflicted her life, but also by means of having to say goodbye to those close to her who preceded her in death, including her parents, her son in law James, her brother Arthur and her sister Mary. As a person of faith, Helen believed that God could extend His loving care and welcome these people to everlasting joy. All of us believe that the Lord wants to welcome Helen to His home with good people of faith where there is no more suffering and only the fullness of joy.
In the Gospel chosen for this Mass, we heard a story that is so appropriate during this season of Lent. We heard the story of when Jesus breathed His last. We are reminded of how the Lord entrusted His spirit to the loving care of His Father. We were told about how people who cared for Him took His Body to its place of rest.
Of course, the central part of our faith does not end with that story.
Even though Jesus was buried, he rose again so that all of us might live.
Even though Helen quietly breathed her last just before 6:00 PM on Wednesday at her home, we believe that God wants to welcome her to a new life that is far better than we can imagine.
As Helen’s family members have said, she is gone in body but forever in your hearts. Your love for her never ends.
Be assured that Helen’s love for you continues.
Most of all, may God fill us with confidence that His love for Helen and for us all lasts forever, and some day, in God’s own time and by His designs, we shall see her again and be filled with the fullness of joy.
Philip ''Monty'' Montevideo, 84 , died at 4:25 a.m. Wednesday, March 3, 2010, at Autumn Hills Care Center in Niles. He was born May 13, 1925, in San Giovanni di Gerace Reggio Calabria, Italy, a son of Angelo and Marie Scali Montevideo. Monty worked as a tailor his entire life and in 1971 opened Monty's Tailor in Niles, which he owned and operated until he retired in 2005. He was a member of Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church in Niles, where he assisted at Mass as an usher. He was also a member of the Niles Knights of Columbus Council 1681. Monty enjoyed playing cards, wine making, gardening, attending Niles McKinley High School football games and spending time with his family and grandchildren. He always had a warm smile and kind words for many friends he made throughout the years. He will be deeply missed by his wife, the former Vicky Carabetta, whom he married Sept. 13, 1952; a son, Anthony J. Montevideo of Niles; three daughters, Linda Bennett and her husband, Bruce of Niles, Debbie Ruse and her husband, Ken of Boardman and Judy Berry and her husband, Steve of Jamison, Pa.; two brothers, Sam Montevideo of California and Joseph Montevideo and his wife, Mary of Niles; a sister, Mary Jane Mosca and her husband, Edward of Niles; 11 grandchildren and one great-grandchild. He also leaves behind numerous nieces, nephews and great-nieces and great-nephews. Besides his father and mother, he was preceded in death by a sister-in-law, Grace. Friends may call from 5 to 8 p.m. Sunday at the Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles, where a Cursillo Bible vigil will be held at 8 pm. Mass of Christian Burial will be held 9:30 a.m. Monday at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church in Niles, with Father Lawrence E. Frient officiating, preceded by a 9 a.m. prayer service at the funeral home. Burial will be in Niles City Cemetery. Condolences may be sent by visiting josephrossifuneralhome.com.
Philip Montevideo (“Monty”)
Born: May 13, 1925 Died: March 3, 2010 Funeral: March 8, 2010
Gospel: Matthew 7:24-25
Homily:
How often Philip came to Mass here. Everyone knew him as Monty. This church meant so much to him. He served as an usher, worked at the festival, was a member of the K of C, and was as faithful as anyone in making sure he came here.
On behalf of everyone belonging to this parish, I extend my condolences to everyone touched by Monty’s life. We know that recent times have been difficult. We assure you of our prayers.
Later in this Mass of Christian Burial, we will hear Words of Remembrance. But there is one story I have been given permission to tell at this time. It certainly illustrates how strongly dedicated Monty was to making sure he was here for Mass.
One winter day some years ago, Monty drove to church by himself. His driving skills were not excellent at that point, but he ventured out on a winter day, determined to come here.
As he was driving along Taft Avenue, he suddenly went off the road. Some how, some way, he hit a guide wire leading to a telephone pole. His car flipped over. There was immediate cause for great concern about his well being.
I believe it was a man named Mackey Floyd who came to Monty’s assistance. He helped Monty get out of his car. And wouldn’t you know it – even though the car was upside down, Monty was not injured. He believed it would be best to get the tow truck later on – because right then and there it was time to go to Mass and the car could wait!
So, Monty received a ride to church and I really doubt that anyone at Mass that day impressed him with their stories about how difficult it was to drive that day!
Such dedication! All of us who knew Monty were inspired by his dedication to his family, his goodness, his kindness, and his strong work ethic.
We thank God for his life, and for the many ways his faith and our faith have been enriched by gathering in this church throughout the years.
If we look around this beautiful church building, we find so many stained-glass windows and statues showing us people of faith who have edified God’s people century after century.
Way in the back of the church, high up on the left side, there is a statue of Saint Philip Neri. When we think about Philip Neri’s life, we realize that at least in some ways, Philip Montevideo was given the right name.
I say this because some have mentioned how cheerful and wise was Philip Montevideo, and Saint Philip Neri was known for his cheerfulness and wisdom.
There was a story about how someone once came to Saint Philip Neri (who was a priest) and said she had a problem with gossiping.
Saint Philip Neri suggested that she take a pillow, take it outside on a windy day, and tear it open. She should let all the feathers be taken by the wind and then wait a few minutes. After that, she should try to gather all of the feathers.
The woman looked surprised. She asked the saint how it would be possible to gather all of the feathers after the wind would take them so many directions?
Saint Philip Neri replied with words to this effect: “So it is when we say bad things about people. It is impossible to retrieve our words after we have let them loose into the public.”
Such wisdom! I’ve been told that for the thirty-four years Philip Montevideo owned and operated Monty’s Tailor Shop, he made it a point to say good things about people. Monty was known for doing his very best never to spread bad stories about people.
When some of his family members gathered to plan this funeral, it became clear that the words of Jesus in today’s Gospel should be words to be proclaimed among us. Jesus told the story about how the wise man built his house on solid rock. Challenge after challenge beat against it, but the house did not collapse.
Those who knew Monty gather this morning ever so grateful that even after facing so many challenges, our hearts are convinced that he tried to embrace such wisdom. He built his house on love, on faith, on the wisdom of the teachings of Jesus.
He was determined to grow in grace, take in this wisdom, and share it cheerfully and lovingly in every way possible.
May he rest in peace and may his love, faith, and wisdom continue to reinforce our hearts and our homes.
Carmel Antonchak, 89 died 6:15 a.m. Tuesday, March 2, 2010, at Shepard of the Valley Lutheran Home in Niles. She was born Aug. 24, 1920, in Briar Hill, a daughter of Carl and Margaret Pratt Nappi (Knapp). Carmel was a member of Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church in Niles. She worked at Packard Electric during World War II and enjoyed the outdoors, gardening and her grandchildren. Her husband, Peter J. Antonchak, whom she married Feb. 16, 1946, died Jan. 15,1997. She will be deeply missed by three sons, Alexander Antonchak and his wife, Marlene of Vienna, Paul Antonchak and his wife, Judith of Niles and Michael Antonchak of Lexington, Ky.; three daughters, Margaret Frankford of Austintown, Kathleen Bohach and her husband, William of Cortland and Ann Marie Francis of Bazetta, 14 grandchildren and 13 great-grandchildren. Carmel is preceded in death by a son-in-law, Victor Francis; three brothers, Angelo, Rocco and Anthony; and two sisters, Mary DePizzo and Pauline Fimognari. Friends may call from 6 to 9 p.m. Thursday at the Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles, where a Bible vigil will take place at 8 p.m. Funeral services will be held 10 a.m. Friday at the funeral home, with the Rev. Larry Frient officiating. Burial will be in Niles City Cemetery. Material contributions may be made to Alzheimer's Foundation of America, 322 8th Ave., 7th Floor New York, NY 10001. Condolences may be sent by visiting josephrossifuneralhome.com.
Carmel Antonchak
Born: August 24, 1920 Died: March 2, 2010 Funeral: March 5, 2010
Gospel: Matthew 11:28-30
Homily:
On behalf of everyone at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Parish, I extend condolences to Carmel’s family and friends. We know that recent times have been very difficult and we assure you of our prayers.
How important it is for us to hear the words of Jesus today. He invites all who are weary and heavy burdened to come to Him.
We believe that this invitation is extended not only to Carmel, but to everyone who shared the pain of her struggles and to all who mourn her passing from us.
All of us pray that the Lord will bless us with many happy memories of Carmel.
Remember how she used to sing.
Remember the times she used to enjoy being outdoors and how she would admire the flowers and enjoy picking them.
Remember how Carmel would blow kisses at you.
As we give thanks to God for the many ways she touched many lives, we realize how you are Carmel’s legacy. Three sons, dear in-laws, fourteen grandchildren, and thirteen great-grandchildren will forever be touched by memories of Carmel’s love.
This morning is a time when our faith speaks lovingly and with great comfort within our hearts.
Our faith tells us that the Lord invites Carmel to join her parents, her husband Peter, her son-in-law Victor Francis, her brothers Angelo, Rocco, and Anthony, her sisters Mary and Pauline, and all people of faith who have gone before her.
Our faith tells us that the troubles associated with her illness and confusion no longer afflict Carmel, as she is made whole and in the care of God forever.
Our faith tells us that even though we cannot possibly answer each and every question at this point in our lives, the love of God makes all things new and brings healing and consolation in ways the world could never describe.
Our faith tells us that the Lord is with us each moment of each day, and that He will continue to be with us as we lovingly commend Carmel to God’s care in the days, weeks, months, and years God has planned for our lives ahead.
All of us know that Carmel rallied time and again during the various times she was hospitalized and during the time she was a resident at Shepherd of the Valley in Niles.
Her determination teaches us about the value of life and the constant reminders God gives to us to be thankful for each and every blessing.
The Lord also reminds us to entrust Him with each and every aspect of life that is beyond our control, and all of us know that is so much easier said than done.
May Carmel rest in God’s peace forever, and may the Lord comfort us with His abiding love and presence.
Lucy T. Myers, 87 , of Niles, died Monday, March 1, 2010, 1:40 a.m. at Hospice House in Poland. She was born Jan. 6, 1923, in Niles, the daughter of August and Philomena Fraino Madish. She was a longtime clerk for S.S. Kresse and Kmart and a member of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church in Niles. She leaves a son, David W. Jr. of Youngstown; and sister, Joan Shrodek of Cortland; two grandchildren and a great-granddaughter. She is preceded in death by three sisters and a brother. Friends may call 5 to 7 p.m. Wednesday at the Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles. Mass of Christian Burial will be 9:30 a.m. Thursday at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church in Niles preceded by a 9 a.m. prayer service at the funeral home Burial will be in St. Stephen Cemetery.
Lucy Myers
Born: 6, 1923 Died: March 1, 2010 Funeral: March 4, 2010
Gospel: Luke 8:4-8
Homily:
On behalf of everyone belonging to Our Lady of Mount Carmel Parish, I extend my condolences to David, Joan, and to everyone close to Lucy. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
This parish has been a very important part of Lucy’s life for such a long time. She was baptized by Father Nicola Santoro on March 18, 1923. It was here and in her home that she learned to pray and was formed as a person of faith.
I’ve been told that a very important part of Lucy’s faith was the rosary. It has been estimated that through the years, she assembled more than 75,000 rosaries. Imagine the dedication and prayer that went into that labor of love! If only a fraction of people who received those rosaries prayed, so many prayers were raised to God and now Lucy stands before Jesus and His Blessed Mother ever so thankful that she devoted so much time to glorify the lives of holy people.
We also know that tending her garden was a labor of love for Lucy. Having this in mind, we chose a Gospel passage known as The Parable of the Sower of the Seed. We heard Jesus tell how some of the seed fell on the path where it was trampled and eaten by birds. Some of the seed fell on rocky ground and soon withered for lack of moisture. Some of it fell among thorns and the thorns grew and choked it. And some of the seed fell on good soil, and when it grew it produced fruit so very abundantly.
That story teaches us to put Lucy’s life in perspective and leads us to put our lives in perspective.
In Lucy’s life, many lessons were taught to people around her. Some of the teaching involved a very strong work ethic. She may not have wanted us to tell everyone just how long she worked as a clerk at the former S.S. Kresse Company that eventually became a K-Mart sore and then a Super K-Mart store. Lucy worked there about sixty years ! If that doesn’t demonstrate loyalty and dedication, what does? Truly, the seeds of a solid work ethic are planted in our lives when such stories are told.
Those of you closest to Lucy are her legacy. Her sister Joan cherishes many memories of Lucy through the years. May seeds of good memories continue to flourish.
Her son David was influenced by her diligence, determination, and devotion. May the seeds of strong faith continue to be cultivated in our lives.
She knew her grandchildren well and I am sure that memories of her goodness will continue to bear fruit in their lives.
Before God called Lucy home, she was able to see a picture of her great-granddaughter Annabelle Claire. May the seeds of our appreciation for the gift of life take root in our hearts and bring forth continuation of goodness.
Jesus encouraged us to listen carefully to His words. We heard Him say at the conclusion of the Gospel story, “Everyone who has ears ought to hear.”
I’m certain that the Lord spoke many lessons to us through Lucy’s life, and now that she has passed and we prepare to bury her mortal remains at St. Stephen Cemetery, the seeds of faith she planted among us seek further growth in our hearts.
Lucy’s work is finished, but her love and her faith never die. May her love, which reflected the everlasting love of God, keep us ever close to the Lord and endure each time we remember her, each time we retell stories about her, and each time we hold dear the values she imparted.
Philomena Comparato Crish, 97 died 8:15 a.m. Saturday, Feb. 27, 2010, at her daughter's residence in Poland. Philomena was born Jan. 17, 1913, in Niles, a daughter of Fred and Sadie Moderelli Comparato. She was a 1931 graduate of Niles McKinley High School, where she later became a librarian, and also worked as a sales clerk at Strouss Hershberg in Warren and at Kaufmann's in the Eastwood Mall. A member of Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church in Niles, she was also involved with their choir and with the Bi-Centennial Choir and Youngstown Symphony Choir. Philomena volunteered her time at the Hillside Hospital Gift Shop, and loved playing her piano, crocheting, knitting, embroidery, reading and gardening. Her husband, Rocco Crish, passed away in 1976. Philomena, who had one of her greatest moments when she had the honor to sing at Carnegie Hall, will be deeply missed by her daughter, Theresa Adler of Poland; a sister, Angie Maran and her husband, Armand of Naples, Fla.; a brother, Joseph Comparato and his wife, Jackie of Orlando, Fla.; four grandchildren, Fred Adler of Tucson, Ariz., Joe Adler and his wife, Lucinda of Tucson, Ariz., Diana Gould and her husband, Jody of Poland, and Teresa Bieber and her husband, Bill of Canfield; five great-grandchildren, Chelsea and Sarah Adler, Ross and Reid Gould and Taylor Bieber, and many nieces and nephews. The family would like to thank her special caregiver Bonnie Petrock for her care and compassion. She was preceded in death by her parents, brothers John and Frank Comparato and a sister, Connie McKenna. Friends may call from 8:30 until the time of the 9:30 a.m. prayer service Wednesday at the Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles. Following the prayer service there will be a processional to Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church in Niles for Philomena's Mass of Christian Burial beginning at 10 a.m. with Father Lawrence E. Frient officiating. Burial will be in Niles City Cemetery. Material contributions may be made to Senior Independence Hospice c/o the funeral home. Condolences may be e-mailed by visiting josephrossifuneralhome.com
Philomena Comparato Crish, 97
Born: January 17, 1913 Died: February 27, 2010 Funeral: March 3, 2010
Gospel: John 15:9-17
Homily:
This parish meant so much to Philomena during her lifetime. On behalf of its members, I extend condolences to everyone closest to her and assure you of our prayers.
She was baptized as Filomena Antonia Comparato on February 16, 1913 in the old building that used to stand just west of here before this church was built. She would have been eleven years old, almost twelve when Father Nicola celebrated the very first Mass in this beautiful church building on Christmas Eve in 1924.
As we give thanks to God for the beauty of Philomena’s life, we also take in the beauty of this building that was so special to her.
To my left, just to the right of the large stained-glass window depicting the Last Supper, we see a stained-glass window honoring Saint Augustine . Among the many wise things Augustine said includes the teaching that those who sing pray twice.
As we commend Philomena to the everlasting care of God, we know how important music was to her. She sang in this church choir for many years.
Philomena sang in the Bicentennial Choir and the Youngstown Symphony Choir.
She had the honor of singing at Carnegie Hall.
Philomena loved to play the piano and wished that she could be a professional pianist had the opportunity ever been possible.
As it is, she touched many lives as a librarian, as a sales clerk at Strouss’ in Warren and at Kaufmann’s in the Eastwood Mall, and by volunteering at the Hillside Hospital Gift Shop.
Her crocheting, knitting, and embroidery talents graced the lives of many, and during happier and healthier times Philomena was grateful for opportunities to read and take care of her garden.
The Lord enabled her to take care of her parents before God called them home. Philomena enjoyed so many years as a citizen of Niles , growing up on Fenton Street and then living on Robbins Avenue .
In the mid 1970’s, Philomena mourned the death of her husband Rocco, and it is our prayer that they along with all who were close to her who have completed life’s journey before her are together in everlasting peace.
During this Season of Lent, all of us ponder the many things Jesus did and the words He said.
In our Gospel passage this morning, we heard what the Lord told those closest to Him the night before He died. He told them to remain in His love. He encouraged them to go forth and bear fruit by how their lives would reflect His love.
May our prayers and our songs give glory to God as we appreciate the legacy of faith with which He has blessed us.
May all of us draw closer to the Lord as we remember His saving love and the many ways this love was shared through Philomena’s life.
Frances A. Maranuk, 61 , of Liberty died at 5 a.m. Friday, Feb. 26, at her daughter's residence in Niles. She was born May 3, 1948, in Youngstown, the daughter of Frank and Pauline Rodomsky Sipusic. She was a teacher in the Youngstown City School District and a member of Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church in Niles. Survivors include a son, Kevin Ciambrone of Niles; two daughters, Caroline Ruley of Niles and Allison Maranuk of New York City; one brother, Frank Sipusic of Niles; two sisters, Diane Murwin of Columbiana and Arleen Bailey of Florida; and a grandson. Friends may call 5 to 7 p.m. Monday at the Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles where Mt. Carmel Bereavement Ministry will conduct prayers at 6:30 pm. Mass of Christian Burial will be 10 a.m. Tuesday at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church in Niles, preceded by a 9:30 a.m. prayer service at the funeral home. Burial will be in Greenhaven Memorial Gardens
Frances A. Maranuk
Born: May 3, 1948 Died: February 26, 2010 Funeral: March 2, 2010
Gospel: Mark 8:22-25
Homily:
I welcome Deacon Bill Merriman from St. Patrick Parish of the near west side of Cleveland , Ohio. On his behalf, and on behalf of the members of Our Lady of Mount Carmel Parish, we extend condolences to and assurances of our prayers for everyone closest to Fran.
I was blessed with the opportunity to meet Fran one week ago today. Although we knew that she was terminally ill, we did not expect her to pass from us such a short time after that visit. We trust that God supports us in our grief.
We give thanks to God that she touched many lives as a teacher in the Youngstown School District and in other places during her career. She enjoyed teaching sixth graders most of all. She shared some stories with me last Tuesday and based on this visit and what I have heard from other people I believe she was gifted with a great ability to meet many challenges and reach the students she taught.
Teachers mold the lives of those they teach, and their students go on to shape the world around them generation after generation. What they say and do is constantly absorbed by young minds who may not even consciously realize while they are being taught what an impact these words and actions will have. Lessons taught are immortal, affecting people yet unborn, touching lives of people the teacher will never see or know.
The minds of tomorrow's leaders are molded by what teachers do.
Just think, teachers instruct future leaders of companies, authors, doctors, nurses, police officers, firefighters, members of the clergy, people who repair and build our cars, those who grow, sell, and transport our food, a multitude of other occupations, and the so-called ordinary people who will make the decisions in a democracy. There is no way we can accurately measure the influence they have in the lives of people.
As we gather this morning to thank God for the many ways Fran touched lives, we also entrust her to God’s everlasting care.
When I visited with her last Tuesday, she immediately told me that her illness took away her sight. Yet, it was evident that her spiritual eyes were very keenly aware of the truth that the Lord was working in her life even in the midst of her blindness, suffering, and uncertainty. This is why I considered the Gospel passage that was chosen this morning.
In the story we heard a few moments ago, a blind man was brought to Jesus. The man who was unable to see begged the Lord to touch him.
Jesus took the man by the hand, led him outside the village, and laid his hands upon him.
In this particular story, the blind man’s vision was restored gradually. He wasn’t able to see clearly until Jesus touched him a second time. After this, he was able to see everything distinctly.
I know for certain that Fran spent much time praying during her illness. She told me how important her faith was. She did not have the answers to all of her questions but some how, some way, she trusted that the Lord would lead her to where she needed to be. Fran hoped to see God. It brings us peace to believe that God is able to grant Fran’s desire. She and I prayed together and talked about a Lord who brings an end to suffering, makes us whole, forgives all our sins, and is our strength in all our weaknesses. We prayed that God would accept her in His great love.
All of us search our hearts for the presence of strong faith within us. We have been troubled by her suffering and in our grief we cannot possibly see the fullness of God’s plan. We pray for the grace to trust that Jesus will lead us through our experience of mourning and loss and enable us to see the fullness of God’s love.
I know that Fran wished the very best for everyone close to her. She also expressed a wish that all might grow in faith. Certainly, she wanted me to tell everyone that if there are ways I can assist you in your journey to God I gently and kindly invite you to keep in touch with me and our staff here at the parish along the way.
May Fran’s hard work and strong faith continue to inspire us, and now that her journey has ended, may the Lord bless her with the fullness of joy and everlasting peace.
Waltet H. Hackett, 83, died at 4:05 p.m. Saturday, Feb. 20, 2010, at Forum Health Northside Medical Center in Youngstown. He was born Sept. 22, 1926, in Cleveland, a son of Walter and Eleanor Dremann Hackett. He was employed for Hiram Walker Distributors and was a member of Our Lady of Mount Carmel Catholic Church in Niles. He served in The United States Army Air Corp during World War II. He is survived by his wife, Eleanor Macali Hackett; a daughter, Janice Hackett of Niles, and a brother Roger of Scottsdale, Ariz. Calling hours are private. Mass of Christian burial will be held 10 a.m. Wednesday at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church in Niles. Burial will be in Niles City Cemetery. Arrangements are being handled by The Joseph Rossi & Sons Funeral Home Inc., Niles.
Walter H. Hackett
Born: September 22, 1926 Died: February 20, 2010 Age: 83 years
Funeral: February 24, 2010
Gospel: John 15:9-11
Homily:
On behalf of everyone from this parish, I extend condolences to Eleanor, Janice, and to everyone closest to Walt. You are in our thoughts and prayers. I have been told that Walt’s brother Roger is with us in spirit even though health concerns prevent him from being with us in person. We keep him in our prayers, too.
Walt took great pride in being a pilot. He began solo flights when he was sixteen years old. Through the years he owned a number of different planes. When I met with Eleanor and Janice yesterday morning, I was told that they had a special admiration for the hymn “On Eagles’s Wings” because of how Walt liked to fly.
That hymn is based on a message from the Bible found in the Book of Psalms, Psalm 91 to be exact. The prayer encourages us to abide in God’s care and protection. It assures us that angels will protect us from all harm. We are promised that God will raise on high all who seek to dwell with Him..
As we gather to say goodbye to Walt, we put our trust in a God who watches over us and cares for us. We need His love. We depend on the support of one another.
Many of you remember Walt as a quiet, private man who really enjoyed spending time at home with his family. He enjoyed his Irish Setter dog named Dugan. He served as a private first class in the United States Army Air Corp in Germany during World War II. He worked as a representative for Hiram Walker Distributors for 45 years before he retired in 1997.
We chose a reading from John’s Gospel today that carries a beautiful message of love to our grief-stricken hearts. When Jesus shared the Last Supper with His disciples the night before He died, He told them how strongly He loved them. He encouraged them to live on in His love. He wanted their joy to be complete.
As we venture forth into the future, I am sure that those closest to Walt will draw strength and consolation by remembering his love. He shared sixty years of marriage. His love touched the lives of his family members and friends.
Now, we pray for strength as we face the challenge of bidding Walt goodbye before we could have possibly expected to meet this challenge.
We ponder the words of Jesus. “Live on in my love.” Even when we find it difficult to pray, we ask for the grace to let God’s love guide very moment of our lives and to gently lead us beyond the challenges of this life when our journeys end.
We trust in the comforting and constant presence of God in our lives.
And we bid the Lord’s angels to raise Walt to a place of everlasting safety, peace, and refreshment.
Ronald James Ferradino NILES - Ronald James Ferradino, 64, of Niles, died Tuesday, Feb. 16, 2010, at his residence. He was born May 15, 1945, in Youngstown, the son of the late Michael R. Ferradino and Annette R. Guarino Ferradino Strauch. A lifelong Niles resident, he was a graduate of Niles McKinley High School and worked as an assistant technician with Mighty Air Duct Cleaning, was co-owner of Twinco Hauling Co., the Landmark Lounge and R.F. Construction Co. Mr. Ferradino leaves two sons, Michael of Liberty and Joseph (Tammy) of Niles, and a brother, Richard (JoMarie) of Cortland. Ron is also survived by a granddaughter, Alivia; a nephew, Richard of Cortland; and nieces, Marla of Cortland, Christina (Jamie) Walker of Hartford and Elena Ferradino. He was preceded in death by his parents and a brother, Michael. Ronald was a veteran of the U.S. Navy and was a member of Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church in Niles, the local Army-Navy Garrison, Amvets 101 and the Moose Club. He believed in living life to the fullest. Calling hours will be private. A Mass of Christian Burial will be 1:30 p.m. Friday at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church, with Father Lawrence E. Frient officiating. Burial will be at the Niles City Cemetery veteran's section. The family requests material contributions be made to the American Heart Association. Holloway-Williams Funeral Home and Cremation Service, 611 Robbins Ave., Niles, has been entrusted with arrangements. Condolences can be e-mailed to www.hollowaywilliamsfh@sbcglobal.net.
Ronald James Ferradino
Born: May 15, 1945 Died: February 16, 2010 Age: 64 years
Readings : Isaiah 25:6a, 7-9 Revelation 14:13 Matthew 25:31-40
Homily:
This Season of Lent reminds us that when we were baptized we joined our lives to the dying and rising of Jesus Christ. In prayerfully dealing with the challenges that come our way in life, all of us share in His cross with the hope that He will lead us to everlasting life.
Just before Lent began, Ronald’s journey concluded so unexpectedly. His passing is a heavy cross to carry for those closest to Ron, and all of us pray for each other in sharing this grief.
We remember the many interests Ron had. Through the years, he worked as an assistant technician with Mighty Air Duct Cleaning, was co-owner of Twinco Hauling Company, the Landmark Lounge, and the R.F. Construction Company.
I’ve been told that Ron loved to work and that his creative efforts and dedication served the people of this community in a variety of ways. He belonged to the Moose Club. He served in the United States Navy for some time and will be honored for this after this Mass of Christian Burial. He also enjoyed membership in the local Army-Navy garrison, and Amvets 101.
We chose readings from the Sacred Scriptures that fill us with hope.
The selection from Book of Isaiah reminds us that in the fullness of time God will wipe away the tears of all who mourn. He invites us to share in an everlasting feast. We trust in His providential care for Ron and believe that the web which entangles all of us, death itself, will eventually be done away with and give way to the bright promise of life with the Lord forever.
The Book of Revelation and the Gospel of Matthew remind us that our good works follow us. Every good deed Ron did was noticed by God. It is God’s grace that enables us to have everlasting life; at the same time, it is our responsibility to respond to His love for us by reaching out to our brothers and sisters, for whatsoever we do to them we do to the Lord Himself. It is here that all of you who were touched by Ron’s goodness offer a prayer of gratitude and realize that it is good to honor our memories of Ron by imitating the goodness of the Lord the best we can.
I’ve been told that Ron believed in living life to the fullest. Our faith reminds us that Jesus offers us the fullness of life.
We put our trust in the Lord during this time of need and at all times. It is difficult for us not to have had the chance to say goodbye to Ron, and we trust that Ron is at peace.
May Christ strengthen our faith and welcome Ron to His everlasting care.
Arthur T. Mougakos, 82, of 402 West Street Niles, Ohio, died at 11:45PM Tuesday, February 9, 2010, at Hospice of The Valley Hospice House in Poland Ohio. He was born September 28, 1927 in Barnesboro, Pennsylvania the son of Peter and Ann Kluphetous Mougakos. Arthur was employed as a welder at LTV Republic Steel in Warren for 30 years before retiring in 1992. He was a member of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church in Niles, lifetime member of The Niles Moose Club, enjoyed reading, playing pool, sports, music, and a United States Army Veteran. He will be deeply missed by a daughter Kimberly Mougakos of Niles. He is preceded in death by three brothers. Memorial Services will be held 9:30AM Monday at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church in Niles, with Fr. Larry Frient officiating, and where Art will be honored for his military service by The Trumbull County American Legion Honor Guard. Burial will be in Niles City Cemetery. Arrangements are being handled by Joseph Rossi & Sons Funeral Home Inc. in Niles. Condolences can be e-mailed at www.josephrossifuneralhome.com.
Arthur T. Mougakos
Born: Sept. 28, 1927 Died: February 10, 2010 Memorial Mass: February 15, 2010
Gospel: John 11:32-25
Homily:
I’m sure that many memories concerning Art have been discussed among you during the final days of his life and ever since his passing.
Many of you think about how he loved the songs of Frank Sinatra, thoroughly enjoyed the Big Band Era, and collected Betty Boop items.
Many men who are grown now remember getting their first haircuts from Uncle Art in the basement. He was proud to serve as a barber whenever he could.
Certainly, there is a strong opinion that Art had a personality of his own, that he never hesitated to express his opinion, and he was about as strong-willed as anyone could be. Story after story could be told about this. And long after today, story after story will be recounted.
You remember him as one who worked as a welder at LTV Republic Steel in Warren for thirty years before retiring in 1992.
Art belonged to this church, was a lifetime member of the Niles Moose Club, enjoyed reading, playing pool, sports, being involved with family gatherings, and socializing with his neighbors. Some of you fondly recall how Art really liked to be seated outdoors under the patio during the summertime, taking in the sounds and sights of the season all of us long for as we continue to face these cold and challenging winter days, nights, weeks, and months.
Our nation remembers that Art served his country in the armed forces, is grateful for this, and the Trumbull County American Legion Honor Guard will honor Art at the conclusion of this Mass.
Most importantly, we remember the deeds and the words of Jesus when we gather to reflect about the life of a loved one.
In the Gospel story chosen for this morning, Jesus wept when He learned about the death of His friend Lazarus. Filled with the power of God, Jesus called Lazarus out of the tomb. Then He told those nearby to untie Lazarus and let him go. Many people began to believe in Jesus when they saw His saving power.
All of sadly recall the truth that the many illnesses Art faced tied him down in a sense by keeping him from doing many of the things he used to do. At the same time, we are thankful for the many years Art graced your lives. He was with you for more than two decades following an open heart operation. He faced challenge after challenge and your loyalty to him and love for him during some very trying circumstances is very commendable.
It is here that we have been challenged to listen closely to what our hearts have been telling us. Yes, decisions became more and more difficult, decisions that Art himself was no longer capable of making. Within our hearts resound the very words of Jesus that the Lord expressed in today’s Gospel. Yes, we hear Jesus tell those in the Lazarus story to untie him and let him go.
In our fragile experiences of being human, there are times when love asks us to do the very same thing. Love challenges us to let go of the things that tie our loved ones to the pain, suffering, and uncertainty of life. We know that it is up to God, the Author of Life, to decide when to call us home. At the same time, we know that letting a dear one go is not easily accomplished. We must rely on the strength of the Lord to have the grace to do so.
We have gathered to ask the Lord to enable us to be nourished by the good memories Art brought to our lives.
We also ask Jesus to help us let go, as we commend Art to the everlasting care of our God and ask the Lord to welcome Art to a better place where there is no more suffering, pain, uncertainty, and frustration.
May the Lord tell us in our hearts that He lovingly hears us. In His indescribable mercy Jesus enables Art to see God’s glory, and His love for Art and for all of us never ends.
Margaret Goodrich
Born: February 15, 1920 Died: January 19, 2010 Age: 89
(Services were held at McClurkin Funeral Home in Girard, Ohio led by Fr. John Madden on January 22, 2010)
Below is information associated with a Memorial Mass at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church on Tuesday, February 16, 2010.
Presiding: Fr. Larry Frient
Scriptures: Wisdom 3:1-9 Revelation 14:13 John 19:17-18, 25-30
Homily:
It is good that we have gathered to remember Margaret.
Ninety years ago yesterday, in Duquesne, Pennsylvania, Margaret was born.
Margaret lived as a homemaker and at one time was active with this parish.
She passed from this life four weeks ago today on Tuesday, January 19, 2010, at Omni Manor Care Center in Youngstown, Ohio, and services were held for her three days later at McClurkin Funeral Home in Girard, Ohio.
Today we celebrate this Memorial Mass, trusting that Margaret is at peace with the Lord forever. As Catholics, we cherish the truth that it is good to pray for those who have gone before us in faith.
Our Readings remind us that the souls of the just are in God’s care forever.
We also remember the truth that the good works of a person follow her beyond this life.
Our Gospel reminds us that Jesus handed over His spirit as He died on the cross to make it possible for us to live forever.
The Gospel helps us be mindful of the Holy Season we are about to begin. The Season of Lent begins tomorrow when on Ash Wednesday, many people will be marked with a Sign of the Cross on the forehead, a reminder of our own mortality. As Lent will continue thereafter, many Christians will ponder the journey Jesus took as people pray The Stations of the Cross. We will remember that Margaret has walked in the footsteps of Christ. We will call to mind that the love of the Lord was unlimited, and that our lives are joined to His at Baptism. Our faith assures us that we share in the dying and the rising of Christ.
May Christ be ever near to Margaret and to us as we have commended her to God’s care. May she enjoy paradise forever and may the Lord look kindly on us as we remember God’s love for Margaret and His love for all of us.
Ruby S. Infante, 85, NILES - Ruby S. Infante, 85, died at 2:20 p.m. Saturday, Jan. 23, 2010, at Humility House in Austintown. She was born March 22, 1924, in Niles, a daughter of Ignatz and Sadie Raseta Sikusha. She was employed as a press operator at General Electric Niles Plant and Packard Electric in Warren for 23 years before retiring in 1986. She was a member of Our Lady of Mount Carmel Catholic Church Niles, enjoyed spending time with family and friends, being a grandmother and great-grandmother, and bowling. Her husband, Lawrence Infante, whom she married Oct. 25, 1941, died June 26, 1999. She will be deeply missed by two sons, Ronald Infante and his wife, Desiree of Niles and David Infante of Niles; a daughter, Eileen Fick and her husband, Merle of Warren; a sister, Ann Russo of Youngstown; three grandchildren, Merle "Skip" Fick and his wife, Mary Lynn, Loraine Mazzolini and her husband, Dominic, and Bryan Infante; and four great-grandchildren, Joshua Fick, Chase Fick, Gia Mazzolini and Joseph Mazzolini. She was preceded in death by two sisters, Elma Zebesky and Veronica Ferraro. Friends may call from 5 to 7 p.m. today at The Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles where the Mount Carmel Bereavement Ministry will conduct prayers at 6:30 p.m. Mass of Christian burial will be held 9:30 a.m. Tuesday at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Catholic Church in Niles, with the Rev. Larry Frient officiating, preceded by a 9 a.m. prayer service at the funeral home. Burial will be in Niles City Cemetery. Memorial contributions can be made to Hospice of The Valley, 5190 Market St., Youngstown, Ohio 44512, or Humility House, 755 Ohltown Road, Austintown, Ohio 44515. Arrangements are being handled by The Joseph Rossi & Sons Funeral Home Inc.in Niles. Condolences can be e-mailed at josephrossifuneralhome.com.
Ruby Infante
Born: March 22, 1924 Died: January 23, 2010
Gospel:John 17:1-6
Homily:
Jesus shared His love in so many ways. One of those ways was by how He spoke to His closest friends in the Gospel of John the night before He died. After speaking to them, Jesus prayed to His Heavenly Father for His followers and He prayed that we might all be brought together in Him.
Part of His prayer was chosen for Ruby’s Mass of Christian Burial this morning. Jesus asked His Father to give Him glory. He also reminds us by means of this prayer that He accomplished the work His Father gave Him to do.
Those of you closest to Ruby have come together this morning, just three days after she breathed her last. We all ask God to glorify her. We all trust that her sufferings have ended and she is at peace.
We know deep in our hearts that like Jesus, Ruby has finished the work God gave her to do.
You have retold stories about how she worked so very hard when her children were young and her husband Lawrence became sick. For twenty-three years she worked as a press operator at General Electric here in Niles and then at Packard Electric in Warren before retiring at age 62. Her dedication to sustain her family was a labor of love.
Ruby’s love is a gift for which her family is so very grateful. I’ve been told that not only did she love her sister and her children so very much; this love was extended to her grandchildren, great-grandchildren, nieces, nephews, and so many other family members and friends.
You will smile when you recall how during happier and healthier times she enjoyed being a part of a bowling league. You’ll remember how she loved to cook and truly cherished the chance to be with those she loved.
The Gospel this morning features Jesus saying that He has revealed His Father’s name to those closest to Him. Ruby revealed the goodness of God throughout her eighty-five years of living by means of her love, hard work, and many other ways of inspiring those around her.
Ruby knew the sadness associated with the passing of those close to her. Ruby’s sisters Elma and Veronica preceded her in completing life’s journey.
Her husband Lawrence, with whom she shared more than fifty-seven years of marriage, completed this journey more than ten years before Ruby.
We trust that God invites all who have gone before us to His everlasting care. Their work is finished. They worked hard to bring the presence of God to our lives. May the Lord grant them everlasting joy and peace, and inspire us to glorify Him by how we live.
Rose Petillo, 93 of 2565 Niles Vienna Road, Niles, died at 9:20PM Wednesday, January 20, 2010 at Autumn Hills Care Center in Niles. She was born October 9, 1916 in Youngstown the daughter of Nicholas and Catherine Soda Busicchio. She was a member of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church in Niles, a homemaker, and enjoyed cooking, crocheting, sewing, and spending time with her grandchildren. Her husband Samuel Petillo whom she married June 10, 1939 died August 2, 2009. Rose, who was fiesty and always thought family came first will be deeply missed by a son Victor Petillo of Niles, four grandchildren, Thomas Elliott and his wife Linda, William Elliott and his wife Kimberly, V.J. Petillo and his wife Ronda, and Sam Petillo and his wife Traci, and eight great-grandchildren, Matthew, Lauren, Andrea, Maddalena, Gianna, Halli, Emily, and Avery.She is preceded in death by two sisters Madalena Rose and Cecilia Fioravanti. Friends may call from 10 to 11AM Saturday at The Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles. Funeral Services will be held at 11AM Saturday at The Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles with Fr. Larry Frient officiang. Burial will be in Pineview Cemetery. Arrangements are being handled by Joseph Rossi & Sons Funeral Home Inc., in Niles. Condolences can be e-mailed at www.josephrossifuneralhome.com.
Rose Petillo, 93
Born: October 9, 1916 Died: January 20, 2010
Readings: Isaiah 25:6a, 7-9 Psalm 27 Romans 14:7-9 John 6:1-15
Homily:
Many of us have gathered together for the third time within the past six months to bid goodbye to someone near and dear. I assure everyone of my prayers and the spiritual support of Our Lady of Mount Carmel Parish.
I’ve been told that during happier and healthier days, Rose enjoyed cooking. How she loved to prepare Sunday meals for everyone in the family. You fondly recall the conversations and the food and give thanks to the Lord for memories of her great love. The Gospel chosen for this morning’s service reminds us of a time in the life of Jesus when He enabled a multitude of people to share food, and we trust that the Lord provides for us in this time of sadness as He feeds us with consolation and the support of one another.
Rose has been described as a religious person. I am sure that the Psalm refrain we repeated a few moments ago, “The Lord is my Light and my salvation,” is a message that she would hold dear as we commend her to the Lord. We trust that the Lord leads her to everlasting light and peace.
Her family members knew her love. Not only was it shared in the context of the Many Sunday meals mentioned earlier, but also by how she loved to crochet and sew. Some of you cherish the things she lovingly made for you. All of you closest to her know how she enjoyed spending time with her son, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, and other members of the family.
You remember her feisty nature and how she was determined to rally a number of times during her recent illnesses.
Among the fondest memories some of you have is simply watching her and her husband Sam, with whom she shared more than seventy years of marriage, seated together on the porch or taking a walk with each other at the mall.
Time and again life has a way of reminding us that we are not the masters of our own lives. The Lord is the Master of our lives. We trust that in His goodness, God welcomes Rose to be with Madalena, Cecilia, Mary Catherine, so many other relatives and friends who have completed life’s journey before her, and especially with Sam who shared so many aspects of life with Rose.
May God grant them everlasting joy in His kingdom.
Helen Ryznar, 89 3473 North Road, died 11:10 a.m. Friday, Jan. 8, 2010, at Forum Health Trumbull Memorial Hospital in Warren. She was born Aug. 22, 1920, in Niles, a daughter of Martin and Anna Karlik Profato. She was preceded in death by four brothers and a sister. Memorial services are 11 a.m. Thursday at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Catholic Church in Niles. Arrangements are being handled by The Joseph Rossi & Sons Funeral Home Inc., Niles.
Helen Ryznar, 89
Born: August 22, 1920 Died: January 8, 2010
Readings : Lamentations 3:17-26 Romans 6:3-9 Matthew 18:20
Homily:
It is good to gather in the name of Jesus. He tells us in today’s Gospel that where two or more are gathered, He is among them. We believe that He is among us.
Helen lived eighty-nine years. Her life was not the kind of life anyone would ever plan. This is why we entrust her to the everlasting care of God, the very God who created her, and the very God who is able to make all things new.
The author of the Book of Lamentations wrote during a very difficult time in his life. He began by expressing how his soul was deprived of peace and he told us that he forgot what happiness is.
Some how, some way, by the end of his discourse that inspired author articulated reasons to have hope. He believed the favors of the Lord were not exhausted, that the mercies of God were not spent. He voiced his belief that they were renewed each morning.
As we reflect on Helen’s life, we know that for whatever reason, she may not have ever been able to come to the conclusion on her own that there was reason to have hope. It is because of this that we reflect not so much on Helen’s limitations and our own limitations, but on the fact that God calls us to lift each other up.
It is so important for us to realize that when we were baptized, we became members of the Body of Christ. St. Paul reminded us in his Letter to the Romans that we were baptized into the death of Jesus, buried with Christ, and that just as Jesus was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father we too are given newness of life. And as good people who care for one another, we know that when any part of that body suffers, we suffer with it. But that suffering does not have the last word. We are invited to pray that the grace and hope of God may abound. Yes, we are invited to pray for those who find life burdensome and are troubled; we pray that the power of God might raise them to new life. We pray that as those who have gone before us come face to face with our Savior, the goodness of the Lord may abound in the hearts of those who only knew sadness, trouble and pain, and that Christ might lead them to everlasting joy, light, refreshment, and peace.
May Jesus the Good Shepherd lead Helen beyond the troubles that tormented her in this life, embrace her in her love, and enable her to share in joy that she never was able to know due to the mysteries and the limitations of life this world.
Thomas J. Caldrone, 90 NILES – Thomas J. Caldrone, 90, died at 9:40 p.m. on Saturday, Jan. 9, 2010, at Hospice of the Valley, Hospice House in Poland. He was born Sept. 27, 1919 in Niles, the son of Louis and Carmela Liberatore Caldrone. He was employed as a crane operator at U.S. Steel McDonald Works for 40 years before retiring in 1980. He was a member of the Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church in Niles and the San Felippo Neri Lodge in Niles. He enjoyed golfing, bowling, gardening, bocce and spending time with his family, especially being a caregiver to his wife, Marian. He was an U.S. Army veteran of World War II, having been stationed in Northern France. Thomas, who was a man of practicality and a good husband and father, will be deeply missed by his wife Marian Tereba Caldrone, whom he married Aug. 29, 1945; a son, Thomas J. Caldrone and his wife, Sandy of Howland; a daughter, Marilyn McCullough and her husband, Tom of Howland; and two sisters, Mary Raschilla and Clara Tricomi, both of Niles. He was preceded in death by a brother, John Caldrone and four sisters, Laura Jenwien, Rose DeSantis, Helen Flask and Angeline Rishel. Friends may call Tuesday from 9 to 11 a.m. at the Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles. Funeral services will be held at 11 a.m. on Tuesday, with Fr. Larry Frient officiating at the Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles, where Tom will be honored for his military service by the Trumbull County American Legion Honor Guard. Burial will be at Greenhaven Cemetery. Material contributions can be made to Hospice of The Valley, Hospice House, 9803 Sharrott Road, Poland, OH 44514. Arrangements are being handled by the Joseph Rossi & Sons Funeral Home Inc. in Niles. Please visit www.josephrossifuneralhome.com to send condolences by email.
Thomas J. Caldrone
Born: Sept. 27, 1919 Died: January 9, 2010
Readings: Wisdom 3:1-9 Psalm 23 John 15: 13-17
Homily:
On behalf of everyone belonging to Our Lady of Mount Carmel Parish, I extend sympathy to everyone closest to Tom. You are in our prayers during this time of need.
Tom was a part of the greatest generation, being born shortly after World War I (September 27, 1919) and serving our United States Army in Northern France during World War II. We give thanks for his service, and Tom will be honored for this by the Trumbull County American Legion Honor Guard.
Our Scripture readings tell us that there is no greater love than to give one’s life for others and that the souls of the just are in the care of God.
We draw consolation from these truths.
Tom has been described as a simple man with simple needs, a man who was very practical, one who respected honesty and did not like deceit, one who was devoted to his entire family and served as a wonderful caregiver for his dear wife and excellent father for his children.
Those closest to Tom will remember his esteem for golf, bowling, bocce, maintaining his lawn and working in his garden.
He touched the lives of those around him as a member of Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church and as a member of the San Felippo Neri Lodge. He earned his living as a crain operator for 40 years before retiring in 1980.
By living more than ninety years, he knew many joys and sorrows. Our faith assures us that he is invited by the Lord to share everlasting life with all of his family members and friends who have completed this journey before him.
We believe that sharing our grief in a spirit of trust in the Lord helps us cope with the sadness and strengthens each other.
May Tom rest in peace and know the fullness of joy.
Joseph S. Sovik Jr., 68 BRISTOLVILLE - Joseph S. Sovik Jr., 68, of 1581 Hyde Shaffer Road, died Monday, Jan. 4, 2010, at University Hospitals in Cleveland. He was born Sept. 5, 1941, in Cleveland, the son of Joseph and Barbara Huddleston Sovik Sr. Joseph retired from Copperweld Steel in Warren as an electrician. Survivors include his wife, Judy Jones Sovik; a son, Bruce Boyle of Howland; two daughters, Sharon Fink of Bristolville and Barbara Sovik of Leavittsburg; and 10 grandchildren, six great-grandchildren and one great-great-grandchild. Friends may call from 10:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. Friday at The Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles, where services will be held at 12:30 p.m. Burial will be in Niles City Cemetery.
Tindaro Sidoti, 90, of 2670 Black Oak Drive , Niles , Ohio died at 8:20AM Tuesday, January 5, 2010 at his residence. He was born May 25, 1919 in Sicily the son of Phillip and Nancy LaMonica Sidoti. Tindaro was employed as a laborer at LTV Republic Steel for 24 years before retiring in 1976. He was a member of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church in Niles, East End Athletic Club, enjoyed fishing, hunting, was a carpenter, and served with The Italian Army during World War II. His wife Carmella Papas whom he married October 31, 1952, died February 19, 1995. He will be deeply missed by a daughter Linda Rogers and her husband Gary of Niles, and several nieces and nephews. He is preceded in death by his parents, his father-in-law Joe Marzano, mother-in-law Nancy Marzano and four brothers, John Sidoti, Salvatore Sidoti, Nino Sidoti, and Biagio Sidoti. Friends may call from 9 to 10AM Thursday at The Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles. Mass of Christian Burial will be held 10:30AM Thursday at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church in Niles , with Fr. Larry Frient officiating, preceded by a 10AM prayer service at the funeral home. Burial will be in Pineview Cemetery. Arrangements are being handled by Joseph Rossi & Sons Funeral Home Inc.,in Niles. Condolences can be e-mailed at www.josephrossifuneralhome.com.
Tindaro "Charlie" Sidoti
Born: May 25, 1919 Died: January 5, 2010
Gospel: Luke 8:4-8
Homily:
Linda, Gary, and everyone who was closest to Tindaro, I extend the condolences of this parish and my own personal expressions of sympathy at this time. I know that his frequent trips to the hospital and his failing health in recent years have been difficult for you and I pray with you that he is at peace and never again knows discomfort of any kind.
I know that Tindaro was his given name, but I’ve also been told that people at the mill used to call him “Charlie.” So you will hear me refer to your loved one by both names today as we celebrate his Mass of Christian Burial.
His love was expressed in a myriad of ways. Today, our loving prayers accompany him on his final journey to the Lord.
Between 1952 and 1995, Tindaro shared his life and love with Carmella. They shared close to forty-three years and we know that he missed her.
Charlie earned his living at LTV Republic Steel for two dozen years prior to retiring more than thirty-three years ago.
You’ll remember so many things about the years he spent right over here on Erie Street , just south of Allison Street .
Smile when you remember how he enjoyed making wine.
When I take my friends’ dog for a walk, I often see where Tindaro inscribed his name in the concrete near the garage he built. I’ve been told that he built things to last for a long, long time. If you had the pleasure of listening to him you could learn so much from him. He learned the carpentry trade while being a prisoner of the British during World War II when he served the Italian Army.
If we think about it deeply, we find so much more than just Tindaro’s name inscribed in the concrete.. We discover his wisdom and love inscribed in our hearts.
He loved God’s gift of nature, spending much time outdoors.
Charlie carefully nurtured his fig trees and gardens. Tindaro’s love for animals was strong, unless the animal happened to be an unfortunate groundhog trying to uproot his garden.
Tindaro’s life and the lessons he imparted can be compared at least in some ways to the story Jesus told in Luke’s Gospel.
You heard how some of the seed landed on the path and was trampled, and was eaten by birds.
Other seed fell on rocky ground and did not have the moisture it needed and so it withered.
Still other seed fell among thorns and the thorns grew and choked it.
Finally, some seed fell on good soil where it produced fruit in abundance.
One of the reasons we chose this story known as “The Parable of the Sower” today because we find some connection with Tindaro’s great esteem for gardening. A much deeper reason for making this selection focuses on the truth that we are called to realize that we are the very places where seeds of Charlie’s goodness have been sown, and with God’s help we intend to cultivate and nurture the faith, hope, and love that he planted among us.
May the seeds of goodness sown in more than nine decades of living grow in our hearts and enable us to appreciate how the Lord nurtures us in so many ways.
May Tindaro’s life, which was rooted in faith and now has reached its final harvest, be transformed by the love of our God who promises rest for those who serve Him, and peace for those whose labors have ended.
Lena Costello, 102, died peacefully Monday morning, January 4, 2010 at Greenfield Place in Greenville , North Carolina. Lena was born April 10, 1907 in Steubenville , Ohio the daughter of Belfino and Miranda "Febo" Leone. She was a member of St. Peter's Church in Greenville , North Carolina and Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic in Niles ,where she served on numerous committees and was also a member of The Altar and Rosary Society. She will always be remembered and loved by her family and friends. Her husband Carmen Costello whom she married June 7 1924 passed away May 31, 1976. Lena leaves a son James Costello and his wife Helen of Sanford, Florida, daughter, Dolly Monos and her husband Bill of Harrisburg, North Carolina, daughter Judy Casagranda of Smithfield, Virginia,daughter and caretaker Virginia Zeno and her husband Richard of Greenville, North Carolina, 12 grandchildren, 27 great-grandchildren, and 11 great-great grandchildren. Lena 's greatest joys were found in her family especially her children and grandchildren. Besides her parents she was preceded in death by two brothers, Tony Leone and James Leone, and two sisters, Margaret Defibo and Mary Constantine. Friends may call Thursday from 11:30AM to 1:30 PM at The Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles . Funeral Service will be held 1:30PM Thursday at The Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home in Niles with Fr. Larry Frient officiating. Burial will be in Greenhaven Cemetery . A mass at St. Peter's Catholic Church in Greenville , North Carolina will be celebrated at a later date. Lena 's family thanks St. Peter's Church and the staff at Greenfield Place for their love and support during the 4 years she was a resident. Memorial Contributions can be made in Lena 's name to St. Peter's Catholic Church, 2700 Est 4' th Street , Greenville , North Carolina , 27858. Arrangements are being handled by Joseph Rossi & Sons Funeral Home Inc., in Niles. Condolences can be e-mailed at www.josephrossifuneralhome.com.
Lena Costello
Born: April 10, 1907 Died: January 4, 2010
Scriptures: Job 19:1, 23-27 Psalm 23 Revelation 14:13 John 12:23-28
Homily:
This afternoon we give thanks to God for the many years Lena graced the world by sharing the gift of her life.
Lena was born on April 10, 1907. She breathed her last so very peacefully on Monday morning.
She lived more than 102 years, and I’ve been told that she was blessed with a terrific life.
You will remember her strong love for her family.
She influenced many people in many ways, teaching the Italian language to many who spent time with her.
In the future, a Mass will be scheduled at St. Peter’s Catholic Church in Greenville , North Carolina .
Today, as we prepare to take her mortal remains to Greenhaven Cemetery , we ponder the Word of God as it has been proclaimed in our midst.
In the Book of Job, the biblical person bearing that name is ever so confident that he will see His Vindicator with his very own eyes. Job knew good times and bad times during his lifetime. In this passage, he reflects about some of the challenges he has faced and verbalizes his strong faith in God.
Lena faced so many things during her lifetime. She rejoiced in many blessings. She knew the sadness of her husband Carmen’s death more than 33 ½ years ago. When one lives more than 102 years as did Lena, one knows the sadness of the passing of siblings, as her brothers Tony and James, and her sisters Margaret and Mary completed life’s journey before her. One also knows the sadness of the departure of so many friends. We trust that with her own glorified vision, Lena will see all people of faith who have gone before us.
The twenty-third Psalm reminds us of the everlasting care of God our Good Shepherd. Lena knew that a good measure of that care was expressed not only by her family members and friends, but also by the love and support of the staff at Greenfield Place where she spent her final four years.
The Book of Revelation reminds us that the works of a person accompany her, and truly, Lena’s goodness was shared not only by that excellent love shared with her family but also in many ways during her lifetime as a member of St. Peter’s Parish in Greenville .
Finally, our Gospel tells us that unless a grain of wheat falls to the earth and dies, it remains just as a grain of wheat; but if it dies, it produces much fruit.
This cold winter season challenges us to search our hearts and believe that despite the apparent barren and bleak land that surrounds us, new life will emerge. Just as Christ was in the tomb after giving His life so lovingly for us, He was raised to new life. And so it shall be for Lena and all people of faith whose lives have glorified God and will glorify Him each and every time we imitate their faith.
May she rest in peace. May the goodness of God warm our hearts as we remember the many ways this goodness was reflected in her faith-filled life. And may we know that love never ends. With her own glorified eyes, Lena will behold the Lord of Life Who is the very essence of Love, and God will draw us closer to Himself as Lena ’s prayers for us continue.
Carolyn Nardo Scerbo, 88, 1510 Taft Ave., passed away 7 p.m. Saturday, Dec. 26, 2009, at her residence surrounded by her family. She was born March 7, 1921, in Niles, a daughter of Joseph and Filippa Nardo. Carolyn was a 1940 graduate of Niles McKinley High School and was employed at Trumbull Memorial Hospital as a nurses aide before going to work at Packard Electric in Warren for 24 years, retiring in 1982. She was a member of Our Lady of Mount Carmel Catholic Church in Niles and enjoyed cooking, baking, crocheting, going to church, watching Mass on television and soap operas and spending time with her grandchildren and family. A loving wife and mother, Carolyn will be deeply missed by her husband, Constantino Scerbo, whom she married Sept. 6, 1952; three children, Gregory Scerbo and his wife, Mary of Warren, Dolores Scerbo at home, and John Scerbo and his wife, Jennifer of Chardon; and four grandchildren Danielle, Nicholas, Joseph and Marissa. She was preceded in death by two brothers, Anthony S. Nardo and John J. Nardo, and three sisters, Thelma Giancola, Phyllis Nardo and Natalie Spinella. Calling hours are private. Mass of Christian Burial will be held 9:30 a.m. Wednesday at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Catholic Church in Niles, with the Rev. Larry Frient officiating. Burial will be in Pineview Cemetery. Material contributions can be made to Celtic Health Care, 3530 Belmont Ave., Youngstown. Arrangements are being handled by the Joseph Rossi and Sons Funeral Home Inc., Niles. Condolences can be e-mailed at josephrossifuneralhome.com.
Carolyn Nardo Scerbo, 88
Born: March 7, 1921 Died: December 26, 2009
Gospel: John 15:9-11
Homily:
How many times during happier and healthier days, Carolyn and all of her family members would gather here for Mass early on Sunday mornings.
This parish has been a very important part of her life for her entire eighty-eight years. She grew up nearby on Pratt Street, just a little south of the church. I’ve been told that her father used to come and ring the bell here before the electrical method of bell ringing was installed.
Carolyn was baptized on August 25, 1921 by Father Nicola Santoro in the old church building before this one was built. That began her journey as a devoted follower of Jesus Christ.
The family in which she grew up was so important to her that during her final stages of life she sometimes spoke of her parents who completed their life’s journeys long before Carolyn completed hers.
The beautiful marriage she shared with Constantino began here in this church when the happy couple exchanged vows on September 6, 1952 in the presence of Father Oreste Cerbara, family members, and dear friends.
We have gathered to give thanks for Carolyn’s life. She and Constantino were blessed with a family of her own, welcoming Gregory, Dolores, and John to the family. As years passed, four grandchildren (Danielle, Nicholas, Joseph, and Marissa) graced their lives and brought great joy.
Recent times of illness have been difficult for Carolyn, and we know that her final journey was made more comfortable by the surrounding love of those closest to her and the expression of care on the part of the Church by sharing in the Sacraments. Even in the process of dying, our awareness of Carolyn’s beautiful love warmed the hearts of all around her.
You will remember so many things about her. The death notice tells us that she was employed as a nurse’s aide at Trumbull Memorial Hospital before she worked two dozen years at Packard Electric. There is no doubt that her wonderful personality enriched the lives of many people in many ways, and enabled them to experience the love of God reflected through her.
You will often think about how she enjoyed cooking, baking, crocheting, and watching soap operas. Most of all, you will be thankful for how she loved to spend time with her family.
The night before Jesus died, He told His closest friends to remain in His love. He wanted them to know the fullness of joy.
Carolyn was called from this life on the evening before the Feast of the Holy Family. We know so very well that it is never easy to say goodbye to one we love. Yet, if she had to leave us, it seems fitting that her journey concluded on such a Holy Feast. It is a time when we reflect about the love shared and the values imparted in the context of family. She breathed her last as her family members surrounded her.
May Carolyn know the fullness of joy now that her suffering has ended and she is at peace.
May our thoughts of her love fill our lives with beauty and grace, and lead us to the fullness of joy as our faith carries us through.